There are many people who would like to see the BDSM alternative lifestyle accepted in society. But just like anything else that is different, this is something that a lot of people have a hard time grasping. When it comes down to it, there are many myths surrounding the BDSM alternative lifestyle that make people want to avoid it. But with that being said, when properly educated most people will agree that the BDSM alternative lifestyle is not that bad.
First and foremost, it is important to know that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is something that a person voluntarily takes on. If they are interested in living like this it should be up to them. If society could somehow see past the negative stereotypes that are associated with BDSM alternative lifestyle it would be much easier to achieve a higher level of acceptance.
While most people think that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is nothing more than physical abuse, nothing could be further from the truth. The fact of the matter is that abuse is not common with a BDSM alternative lifestyle. This is only the case in extraordinary situations. And remember, abuse is common in other lifestyles as well such as living in a bad marriage.
It is difficult to say if the BDSM alternative lifestyle will ever be accepted in society. Some people are fine with this as of now, but of course, there are many others who feel that it is not a good idea. The only way that society will ever become comfortable with the BDSM alternative lifestyle is if the myths are put to rest. Hopefully as more and more information is made available, society as a whole will begin to catch on.
We here at CollarNcuffs.com hope to lay some of these myths to rest with freely available resources, guides and information meant as a tool to educate people and to further acceptance of society.
Bondage, Ropes, Restraints
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Bondage I need some starting points for bondage.
Bondage safety Playing it safe. what are dangers.
Rope Storage How to store your rope for longer life and ease of use.
What type of rope what type of rope should I use ?
Washing rope My ropes all dirty can I wash it ? what do I use?
Whipping rope How can I stop my rope from coming unravelled on the ends ?
self bondage If you tie yourself up, you'd better be able to untie yourself.
self bondage2 I want to tie myself up, what now?
suspension What is it? Do I need special equipment, can I just put up a hook?
Suspension rigging How do i do it? What do I need?
Ropes, Bondage knots, Ties
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Chain Braiding (Video) Chain braiding rope by Two Knotty Boys. Tutorial.
Coin V'sCarrick (Video) Double Coin Knot vs. Carrick Bend
Looped Knots (Video) Looped Knots by Two Knotty Boys
Challenge Knot (Video) The Challenge Knot by TKB
Cross Knot (Video) The Cross Knot by TKB
True Lover's (Video) The True Lover's Knot by TKB
Snake Knot (Video) Snake Knot by TKB
Luck Knot (Video) The Good Luck Knot by TKB
Overhand Knots (Video) TKB Decorative Overhand Knots by TKB
DoubleCoin (Video) Knots How to Tie Compound Double Coin Knots
River Knot (Video) The River Knot by TKB
Panel Knot (Video) Tie a Panel Knot by TKB
Trinity Knot (Video) The Trinity Knot by TKB
Flower Knot (Video) The Flower Knot by TKB
Diamond Knot (Video) How to Tie a Diamond Knot by TKB
Ties and Techniques used
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Rope Spreader Bar (Video) A simple and fast way to create a rope spreader bar tie.
Rope Handling (Video) If you just bought your first batch of rope, here are some good tips.
Basic One Column (Video) Monk shows you a one column tie that is great for starting out with rope.
Chest Harness (Video) This harness supports the chest area and can be used to tie off to an object
Body Harness (Video) Monk ties a body harness which can be used as a securing point for other rope.
Frog-Tie (Video) Shows a more complex variant on the classic hog-tie.
Lightning Harness (Video) A quick and easy harness, perfect for those who want less time consuming ties.
Rope Corset (Video) Watch Monk as he teaches this simple and easy to tie rope corset.
Single Limb Cuff (Video) This tie is great for tying your partner to the bed and having your way with them.
Two Column Tie (Video) Monk shows you how to do a basic two column tie that is great for starting out.
Basic Hair Tie (Video) Ever wanted to tie up hair but didn't know the proper way to do it?
Pocket Sling (Video) Midori joins Monk to teach a simple tie she calls "the pocket sling"
Face Bondage (Video) Monk's partner, Tambo, teaches a her sexy and simple to learn facial bondage.
Chest and Arm Tie (Video) A quick and simple tie to immobilize the arms/upper body in only seconds.
Rope Panties (Video) Tie Rope Panties by Two Knotty Boys.
Dragonfly Sleeve (Video) TKB The Dragonfly Sleeve by Two Knotty Boys. Tutorial.
Foot Bender (Video) The Foot Bender by the Two Knotty Boys. Bondage tutorial.
Basic Wrap (Video) The Basic Wrap by Two Knotty Boys.
Corselet Harness (Video) Two Knotty Boys - Corselet Harness
Rope Cuffs (Video) Prisioner Rope cuffs, no getting away this time!
Arm Gauntlet (Video) The Arm Gauntlet by TKB learn how
Zip Snare (Video) How to Ti the Zip Snare by TKB.
Head Cage (Video) The Head Cage by TKB
Arm Shackle (Video) The French Bowline Arm Shackle by TKB.
How to 's & Techniques, & Guides.
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom practices
Anal play How to do anal femdom play.. less daunting and less stressful for all concerned
cbt what's the thrill of CBT ? what's the dangers of CBT ?
Hair removal Hate hair no excuses now. Here is a way for everyone!
Wax play Femdom Wax play without burning down the house.
Wax melting temps Burn the wax not the sub how to get it right first time every time.
Mummification How too and what to watch out for
Breath play A starting point.
capnolagnia Smoking fetish ideas for scenes
safe sex practices Safe sex practice
unsafe sex practices Unsafe Femdom practices
Eating Pussy 101 How to get it right every time
depersonalization Depersonalization, long name, easy to do
Sensual massage How to give a great massage.
CBT Cock and ball torture ideas, suggestions and hints.
P spot Milking Locating and Milking the male P spot
tease,Humilate, Want your boy begging for more? Some ideas and suggestions to build on.
Edge play What is edge play, how do I do it?
Electro play The basics, hints, tips, scene ideas
fire play Make fire not burns
Figging The art of Ginger root play
Genitorture 20 CBT techniques, hints and tips (NEW JUNE 09)
Sexual denial The Erotic art sexual denial (NEW JUNE 09)
Sex Toys and Equipment uses
A selection of "How to 's" of sex toys and Femdom equipment uses, articles, & reviews
Anal beads 101 Ok, I have anal beads, what now, how do I use Anal beads?
first anal toy I want to buy my first toy, but what ?
Harness Happiness How to use and find the perfect Harness/strapon.
lube 101 what lube for what occasion?
cockrings 101 Do i need a Cock ring, how do they work, should I watch for warnings
benwah balls 101 How do you use these benwah thingies?
Cleaning sex toys Looking after your toys and safety
Gags Safety and ideas on gag use with BDSM play.
Clothes pegs/pins A simple guide to uses
Clips clamps How long can I wear nipple clamps? what kind? where to use clamps?
silicone toys What materials are better for toys
Disabilities&toys Ideas, hints, tips, resources for disabilities.
Chastity Devices history of use, hints, tips and ideas.(NEW JUNE 09)
Spanking, Whips, Floggers, Impact play
A selection of 'how to 's, articles & reviews, how to spank, How to use a whip in Femdom, how to use a flogger, Femdom impact play
Floggers How to use a flogger and get it right.
Different strokes Different strokes, for different folks.
A tale to tell Flogger designs and materials
whip breaking Whip care & breaking in a new whip.
Spanking Spanking know how.
Whipping guide A general guide to whip play.
Bull whip safety A general guide.
Melanoma &SM play know the dangers.
Canes How to use a cane the right way
Florentine flogging Florentine flogging is a two-handed style of flagellation.
Synchronized flogging (Video) instruction to Synchronized flogging (NEW JUNE 09)
Intro to flogging (Video) intro and instruction to flogging (NEW JUNE 09 )
General resources, Articles and Reviews..
Buyers guide Buyer beware, a guide to making Adult purchases on line
Basic D/s terms Just what the name implies, the basic terms of Femdom.
Links A collection of Femdom links to other sites and reference materials or sites of interest.
Dictionary of terms Talk like the lifestylers all the terms you need to know.
Our emblem Want others to know your kinky here's how! (works for MissB)
fakers Spotting fakes and players online
Fantasies We all have fantasies.so what is normal?
BDSM A term which describes a number of related patterns of human sexual behavior.
Gorean A short brief page on its origin.
Aftercare What to do after your scene/play ends ?
subspace What is it? (also in sub resources)
sub space drop Understand what it is.(also in sub resources)
Emergency training Emergencies how will you respond
sub V's slave Differences between sub and slave (also in sub resources)
Sexual fetishism The sexual attraction to material and terrestrial objects
Parties Etiquette BDSM Parties Etiquette
Corsets All about corset the wonderful garment worn to mold and shape the torso
The Corset A Symbol Of Powerful Female Expression
Leather Lingerie How to Have a Great Experience
Protocols 4 D/s Protocols in Dominant/Submissive Relationships
S&M This article is about sadism and masochism as aspects of BDSM
Submissive resources, Articles and Reviews
How to techniques, guides & advice for submissive men and slaves
Collar meanings BDSM Collars mean different things to different people...make sure you know what it means to you!
Chivalry or weakness Submissive traits, chivalry or weakness?
10 commandments Subs if you can do this your Mistress will be pleased.
subspace What is it?
sub space drop Understand what it is.
degrees of sub Food for thought, where do you see yourself and your submission.
sub V's slave Differences between sub and slave
starting out sub You're submissive, so what now?
D/s Marrage How do I introduce my vanilla wife to D/s and start a Femdom marrage.
multi-orgasmic Any man can become "multi-orgasmic"
On Being Submissive does Erotic submission and desires undermine their masculinity? (NEW JUNE 09)
Dominant resources, Articles and Reviews
How to train a slave or submissive techniques, guides & advice for the New Domme or Mistress
Resources A good list of resource material (ladies Miss Bonnie has heaps more send an Email)
sexual power Women A complete E-book with 20 chapters. In which the reader is invited to take an inventory of herself for the
purpose of gauging how well female domination might suit her.
Aftercare What to do after your scene/play ends ?
10 commandments Dommes keep your subbie happy.
Top hints and tricks Need new ideas or just a little help with Domination skills.
Mistress primer Want to be the best Mistress?
fledgling Dommes I think I'm a Domme, how can I find my way? How to become a Mistress answers?
starting out Domme You're domme so what now ? How to start out Femdom relationships.
sub husband help So you've just found out your husband is submissive, where do you go from here
Punishment How do I punish? What should I do? What do you punish?
First steps Femdom beginner taking the first steps..How do I do this!
sex talk It is a well-known fact that particular voice can arouse even more than actual stimulation
Diffidence Fear of not being up to stereotypes, lack of self-confidence and lack of skill in scenario planning
BBWs Men Who Love BBWs Admirers or Fetishists? (NEW JUNE 09)
Inner Mistress Waking up your inner Mistress (NEW JUNE 09)
Switch resources, Articles and Reviews..
How to techniques, guides & advice fo switches in Femdom / BDSM
switching Don't box me in !!, i'm a BDSM switch
successful switching Can switching be done in BDSM?
Switches&BDSM So whats this BDSM switching thing?
Relationship and Dating hints,tips,articles for R/T & online
How to techniques, guides & advice
Dating red flags Meet someone and want to move it to real time, what to watch out for in femdom relationships.
Beginning real time Where do I start? Going to your first munch, what to wear, what to do.
Warning signs Is it right I'm treated this way?
Seeking a ProDom Advice from a ProDomina on how to find your perfect match.
Finding a Domme Do you need to find Mrs. Right and not just Miss Rightnow try some of these ideas.
fakers Spotting fakes and players online in the Femdom world.
D/s & Children How can I do this with children?
kink and kids What do I tell my children?
Online Cyber How to find an online cyber Domme.
Cam play Cam play pros and cons, hints and tips for Femdom and BDSM
Sell Yourself How To Write An Attractive Online Dating Profile
Dating site terms A starting point in trying to figure them out
BDSM break ups Break ups can become messy, femdom relations are no exceptions
New partners Before Playing With Someone New in Femdom
Civility N Incivility Civility and Incivility in the BDSM Scene
Poly Relationships An Introduction to Polyamorous Relationships (NEW JUNE 09)
Cams for Couples Webcams are not only for individuals; (NEW JUNE 09)
Exploring Fantasy Exploring Sexual Fantasy for Couples: Using the Internet as Training Wheels(NEW JUNE 09)
Kitchen kink Home made 'sex toys' for Femdom online activities.repeated in Pervertibles & Craft ideas (NEW JUNE 09)
Love At First Site Match-making has come of age. (NEW JUNE 09)
Ethnic Differences Negotiating Racial and Ethnic Differences Online (NEW JUNE 09)
Online Affairs Online Affairs Are They Real? Are they wrong? (NEW JUNE 09)
online sexuality Online sexuality a place to grow (NEW JUNE 09)
Recovering Recovering After an Erotic Line is crossed (NEW JUNE 09)
Online play Sexual Fantasy Online: Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?(NEW JUNE 09)
FlirtingOnline The Art of Flirting For the Social Networker: How to Transition from Online To Real Time (NEW JUNE 09)
social media The New Social Media and Relationship (NEW JUNE 09)
BDSM Munches How do I find my local scene in the USA (NEW AUG 09)
Contracts,Negotiations, Rights
D/s Contracts What are D/s contracts? and how do D/s contracts work?
Sample 1 An example of a simple D/s contract.
sample 2 A more complicated example of a M/s contract
Sample 3 An example of a temporary BDSM paly contract.
BDSM Right Know your rights with a Femdom relationship.
Safewords Do you know your safe word with your Mistress/submissive ?
SSC v's RACK Safe, sane and consensual V's Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
Limits & negotiations Both Dominants and submissives can express limits. What are your partners ?
Partner check list A list a great place to start to get to know your partner or open up communication channel.
Abuse and P.E Abuse and erotic power exchange, know the dangers.
Explicit Implicit Explicit Consent / Implicit concent Play considerately and consensually. (NEW JUNE 09)
Dungeon & Playroom Furniture
A frame Bondage Chair Cages spiders web Bondage wheel Queening stool
Smoother box St Andrews cross Whipping post Pillroy the Rack Sawhorse
Spanking bench Stocks Yokes &Fiddles
Pervertibles & Craft ideas, Building Plans and Resources
Key ring (chain) A kinky easy craft idea to let others know your kinky side.
pervertibles I can't affordBDSM toys, what can I do ?
Craft Ideas some times you want something a little more personal to use, what better than a play item you constructed.
Craft Ideas2 Embarrassed to purchase in a sex shop, no credit card to buy online (save money too) .. perfect for you!
Shrews fiddle Building plans for a shrews fiddle.
saw horse Building plans for a femdom horse.
Canes Building instructions to making canes for BDSM play
Rubber cat of 9 How to make a rubber cat of nine tails.
Bugle Cord (Video) How to Make a Military Bugle Cord TKB
Rope Flogger (Video) How to Make a Rope Flogger
Rope Web (Video) How to Build a Rope Web by TKB
Rope Bit Gag (Video) The Bit Gag by TKB
Spreader Bar (Video) How to Rope Wrap a Spreader Bar by Two Knotty Boys
Rope Collar (Video) collar with Rope by Two Knotty Boys
Rope ladder (Video) Make a rope ladder
Rope Blindfold (Video) How to make a Rope Blindfold by Two Knotty Boys.
fist ball gag (Video) Monkey fist ball gag. Tutorial
rope whip (Video) How to make a rope whip
Ball Gag (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Ball Gag
Bone Bit Gag (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Bone Bit Gag
Mini flogger (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Breast and Genital Flogger
Vamp Fingers (Video) Bondage Toys -- Vampire Fingers
Kitchen kink Home made 'sex toys' for Femdom online activities.repeated in relationship real time and online (NEW JUNE 09)
First and foremost, it is important to know that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is something that a person voluntarily takes on. If they are interested in living like this it should be up to them. If society could somehow see past the negative stereotypes that are associated with BDSM alternative lifestyle it would be much easier to achieve a higher level of acceptance.
While most people think that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is nothing more than physical abuse, nothing could be further from the truth. The fact of the matter is that abuse is not common with a BDSM alternative lifestyle. This is only the case in extraordinary situations. And remember, abuse is common in other lifestyles as well such as living in a bad marriage.
It is difficult to say if the BDSM alternative lifestyle will ever be accepted in society. Some people are fine with this as of now, but of course, there are many others who feel that it is not a good idea. The only way that society will ever become comfortable with the BDSM alternative lifestyle is if the myths are put to rest. Hopefully as more and more information is made available, society as a whole will begin to catch on.
We here at CollarNcuffs.com hope to lay some of these myths to rest with freely available resources, guides and information meant as a tool to educate people and to further acceptance of society.
Bondage, Ropes, Restraints
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Bondage I need some starting points for bondage.
Bondage safety Playing it safe. what are dangers.
Rope Storage How to store your rope for longer life and ease of use.
What type of rope what type of rope should I use ?
Washing rope My ropes all dirty can I wash it ? what do I use?
Whipping rope How can I stop my rope from coming unravelled on the ends ?
self bondage If you tie yourself up, you'd better be able to untie yourself.
self bondage2 I want to tie myself up, what now?
suspension What is it? Do I need special equipment, can I just put up a hook?
Suspension rigging How do i do it? What do I need?
Ropes, Bondage knots, Ties
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Chain Braiding (Video) Chain braiding rope by Two Knotty Boys. Tutorial.
Coin V'sCarrick (Video) Double Coin Knot vs. Carrick Bend
Looped Knots (Video) Looped Knots by Two Knotty Boys
Challenge Knot (Video) The Challenge Knot by TKB
Cross Knot (Video) The Cross Knot by TKB
True Lover's (Video) The True Lover's Knot by TKB
Snake Knot (Video) Snake Knot by TKB
Luck Knot (Video) The Good Luck Knot by TKB
Overhand Knots (Video) TKB Decorative Overhand Knots by TKB
DoubleCoin (Video) Knots How to Tie Compound Double Coin Knots
River Knot (Video) The River Knot by TKB
Panel Knot (Video) Tie a Panel Knot by TKB
Trinity Knot (Video) The Trinity Knot by TKB
Flower Knot (Video) The Flower Knot by TKB
Diamond Knot (Video) How to Tie a Diamond Knot by TKB
Ties and Techniques used
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom Bondage and restraint play
Rope Spreader Bar (Video) A simple and fast way to create a rope spreader bar tie.
Rope Handling (Video) If you just bought your first batch of rope, here are some good tips.
Basic One Column (Video) Monk shows you a one column tie that is great for starting out with rope.
Chest Harness (Video) This harness supports the chest area and can be used to tie off to an object
Body Harness (Video) Monk ties a body harness which can be used as a securing point for other rope.
Frog-Tie (Video) Shows a more complex variant on the classic hog-tie.
Lightning Harness (Video) A quick and easy harness, perfect for those who want less time consuming ties.
Rope Corset (Video) Watch Monk as he teaches this simple and easy to tie rope corset.
Single Limb Cuff (Video) This tie is great for tying your partner to the bed and having your way with them.
Two Column Tie (Video) Monk shows you how to do a basic two column tie that is great for starting out.
Basic Hair Tie (Video) Ever wanted to tie up hair but didn't know the proper way to do it?
Pocket Sling (Video) Midori joins Monk to teach a simple tie she calls "the pocket sling"
Face Bondage (Video) Monk's partner, Tambo, teaches a her sexy and simple to learn facial bondage.
Chest and Arm Tie (Video) A quick and simple tie to immobilize the arms/upper body in only seconds.
Rope Panties (Video) Tie Rope Panties by Two Knotty Boys.
Dragonfly Sleeve (Video) TKB The Dragonfly Sleeve by Two Knotty Boys. Tutorial.
Foot Bender (Video) The Foot Bender by the Two Knotty Boys. Bondage tutorial.
Basic Wrap (Video) The Basic Wrap by Two Knotty Boys.
Corselet Harness (Video) Two Knotty Boys - Corselet Harness
Rope Cuffs (Video) Prisioner Rope cuffs, no getting away this time!
Arm Gauntlet (Video) The Arm Gauntlet by TKB learn how
Zip Snare (Video) How to Ti the Zip Snare by TKB.
Head Cage (Video) The Head Cage by TKB
Arm Shackle (Video) The French Bowline Arm Shackle by TKB.
How to 's & Techniques, & Guides.
How to techniques, guides & advice for Femdom practices
Anal play How to do anal femdom play.. less daunting and less stressful for all concerned
cbt what's the thrill of CBT ? what's the dangers of CBT ?
Hair removal Hate hair no excuses now. Here is a way for everyone!
Wax play Femdom Wax play without burning down the house.
Wax melting temps Burn the wax not the sub how to get it right first time every time.
Mummification How too and what to watch out for
Breath play A starting point.
capnolagnia Smoking fetish ideas for scenes
safe sex practices Safe sex practice
unsafe sex practices Unsafe Femdom practices
Eating Pussy 101 How to get it right every time
depersonalization Depersonalization, long name, easy to do
Sensual massage How to give a great massage.
CBT Cock and ball torture ideas, suggestions and hints.
P spot Milking Locating and Milking the male P spot
tease,Humilate, Want your boy begging for more? Some ideas and suggestions to build on.
Edge play What is edge play, how do I do it?
Electro play The basics, hints, tips, scene ideas
fire play Make fire not burns
Figging The art of Ginger root play
Genitorture 20 CBT techniques, hints and tips (NEW JUNE 09)
Sexual denial The Erotic art sexual denial (NEW JUNE 09)
Sex Toys and Equipment uses
A selection of "How to 's" of sex toys and Femdom equipment uses, articles, & reviews
Anal beads 101 Ok, I have anal beads, what now, how do I use Anal beads?
first anal toy I want to buy my first toy, but what ?
Harness Happiness How to use and find the perfect Harness/strapon.
lube 101 what lube for what occasion?
cockrings 101 Do i need a Cock ring, how do they work, should I watch for warnings
benwah balls 101 How do you use these benwah thingies?
Cleaning sex toys Looking after your toys and safety
Gags Safety and ideas on gag use with BDSM play.
Clothes pegs/pins A simple guide to uses
Clips clamps How long can I wear nipple clamps? what kind? where to use clamps?
silicone toys What materials are better for toys
Disabilities&toys Ideas, hints, tips, resources for disabilities.
Chastity Devices history of use, hints, tips and ideas.(NEW JUNE 09)
Spanking, Whips, Floggers, Impact play
A selection of 'how to 's, articles & reviews, how to spank, How to use a whip in Femdom, how to use a flogger, Femdom impact play
Floggers How to use a flogger and get it right.
Different strokes Different strokes, for different folks.
A tale to tell Flogger designs and materials
whip breaking Whip care & breaking in a new whip.
Spanking Spanking know how.
Whipping guide A general guide to whip play.
Bull whip safety A general guide.
Melanoma &SM play know the dangers.
Canes How to use a cane the right way
Florentine flogging Florentine flogging is a two-handed style of flagellation.
Synchronized flogging (Video) instruction to Synchronized flogging (NEW JUNE 09)
Intro to flogging (Video) intro and instruction to flogging (NEW JUNE 09 )
General resources, Articles and Reviews..
Buyers guide Buyer beware, a guide to making Adult purchases on line
Basic D/s terms Just what the name implies, the basic terms of Femdom.
Links A collection of Femdom links to other sites and reference materials or sites of interest.
Dictionary of terms Talk like the lifestylers all the terms you need to know.
Our emblem Want others to know your kinky here's how! (works for MissB)
fakers Spotting fakes and players online
Fantasies We all have fantasies.so what is normal?
BDSM A term which describes a number of related patterns of human sexual behavior.
Gorean A short brief page on its origin.
Aftercare What to do after your scene/play ends ?
subspace What is it? (also in sub resources)
sub space drop Understand what it is.(also in sub resources)
Emergency training Emergencies how will you respond
sub V's slave Differences between sub and slave (also in sub resources)
Sexual fetishism The sexual attraction to material and terrestrial objects
Parties Etiquette BDSM Parties Etiquette
Corsets All about corset the wonderful garment worn to mold and shape the torso
The Corset A Symbol Of Powerful Female Expression
Leather Lingerie How to Have a Great Experience
Protocols 4 D/s Protocols in Dominant/Submissive Relationships
S&M This article is about sadism and masochism as aspects of BDSM
Submissive resources, Articles and Reviews
How to techniques, guides & advice for submissive men and slaves
Collar meanings BDSM Collars mean different things to different people...make sure you know what it means to you!
Chivalry or weakness Submissive traits, chivalry or weakness?
10 commandments Subs if you can do this your Mistress will be pleased.
subspace What is it?
sub space drop Understand what it is.
degrees of sub Food for thought, where do you see yourself and your submission.
sub V's slave Differences between sub and slave
starting out sub You're submissive, so what now?
D/s Marrage How do I introduce my vanilla wife to D/s and start a Femdom marrage.
multi-orgasmic Any man can become "multi-orgasmic"
On Being Submissive does Erotic submission and desires undermine their masculinity? (NEW JUNE 09)
Dominant resources, Articles and Reviews
How to train a slave or submissive techniques, guides & advice for the New Domme or Mistress
Resources A good list of resource material (ladies Miss Bonnie has heaps more send an Email)
sexual power Women A complete E-book with 20 chapters. In which the reader is invited to take an inventory of herself for the
purpose of gauging how well female domination might suit her.
Aftercare What to do after your scene/play ends ?
10 commandments Dommes keep your subbie happy.
Top hints and tricks Need new ideas or just a little help with Domination skills.
Mistress primer Want to be the best Mistress?
fledgling Dommes I think I'm a Domme, how can I find my way? How to become a Mistress answers?
starting out Domme You're domme so what now ? How to start out Femdom relationships.
sub husband help So you've just found out your husband is submissive, where do you go from here
Punishment How do I punish? What should I do? What do you punish?
First steps Femdom beginner taking the first steps..How do I do this!
sex talk It is a well-known fact that particular voice can arouse even more than actual stimulation
Diffidence Fear of not being up to stereotypes, lack of self-confidence and lack of skill in scenario planning
BBWs Men Who Love BBWs Admirers or Fetishists? (NEW JUNE 09)
Inner Mistress Waking up your inner Mistress (NEW JUNE 09)
Switch resources, Articles and Reviews..
How to techniques, guides & advice fo switches in Femdom / BDSM
switching Don't box me in !!, i'm a BDSM switch
successful switching Can switching be done in BDSM?
Switches&BDSM So whats this BDSM switching thing?
Relationship and Dating hints,tips,articles for R/T & online
How to techniques, guides & advice
Dating red flags Meet someone and want to move it to real time, what to watch out for in femdom relationships.
Beginning real time Where do I start? Going to your first munch, what to wear, what to do.
Warning signs Is it right I'm treated this way?
Seeking a ProDom Advice from a ProDomina on how to find your perfect match.
Finding a Domme Do you need to find Mrs. Right and not just Miss Rightnow try some of these ideas.
fakers Spotting fakes and players online in the Femdom world.
D/s & Children How can I do this with children?
kink and kids What do I tell my children?
Online Cyber How to find an online cyber Domme.
Cam play Cam play pros and cons, hints and tips for Femdom and BDSM
Sell Yourself How To Write An Attractive Online Dating Profile
Dating site terms A starting point in trying to figure them out
BDSM break ups Break ups can become messy, femdom relations are no exceptions
New partners Before Playing With Someone New in Femdom
Civility N Incivility Civility and Incivility in the BDSM Scene
Poly Relationships An Introduction to Polyamorous Relationships (NEW JUNE 09)
Cams for Couples Webcams are not only for individuals; (NEW JUNE 09)
Exploring Fantasy Exploring Sexual Fantasy for Couples: Using the Internet as Training Wheels(NEW JUNE 09)
Kitchen kink Home made 'sex toys' for Femdom online activities.repeated in Pervertibles & Craft ideas (NEW JUNE 09)
Love At First Site Match-making has come of age. (NEW JUNE 09)
Ethnic Differences Negotiating Racial and Ethnic Differences Online (NEW JUNE 09)
Online Affairs Online Affairs Are They Real? Are they wrong? (NEW JUNE 09)
online sexuality Online sexuality a place to grow (NEW JUNE 09)
Recovering Recovering After an Erotic Line is crossed (NEW JUNE 09)
Online play Sexual Fantasy Online: Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?(NEW JUNE 09)
FlirtingOnline The Art of Flirting For the Social Networker: How to Transition from Online To Real Time (NEW JUNE 09)
social media The New Social Media and Relationship (NEW JUNE 09)
BDSM Munches How do I find my local scene in the USA (NEW AUG 09)
Contracts,Negotiations, Rights
D/s Contracts What are D/s contracts? and how do D/s contracts work?
Sample 1 An example of a simple D/s contract.
sample 2 A more complicated example of a M/s contract
Sample 3 An example of a temporary BDSM paly contract.
BDSM Right Know your rights with a Femdom relationship.
Safewords Do you know your safe word with your Mistress/submissive ?
SSC v's RACK Safe, sane and consensual V's Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
Limits & negotiations Both Dominants and submissives can express limits. What are your partners ?
Partner check list A list a great place to start to get to know your partner or open up communication channel.
Abuse and P.E Abuse and erotic power exchange, know the dangers.
Explicit Implicit Explicit Consent / Implicit concent Play considerately and consensually. (NEW JUNE 09)
Dungeon & Playroom Furniture
A frame Bondage Chair Cages spiders web Bondage wheel Queening stool
Smoother box St Andrews cross Whipping post Pillroy the Rack Sawhorse
Spanking bench Stocks Yokes &Fiddles
Pervertibles & Craft ideas, Building Plans and Resources
Key ring (chain) A kinky easy craft idea to let others know your kinky side.
pervertibles I can't affordBDSM toys, what can I do ?
Craft Ideas some times you want something a little more personal to use, what better than a play item you constructed.
Craft Ideas2 Embarrassed to purchase in a sex shop, no credit card to buy online (save money too) .. perfect for you!
Shrews fiddle Building plans for a shrews fiddle.
saw horse Building plans for a femdom horse.
Canes Building instructions to making canes for BDSM play
Rubber cat of 9 How to make a rubber cat of nine tails.
Bugle Cord (Video) How to Make a Military Bugle Cord TKB
Rope Flogger (Video) How to Make a Rope Flogger
Rope Web (Video) How to Build a Rope Web by TKB
Rope Bit Gag (Video) The Bit Gag by TKB
Spreader Bar (Video) How to Rope Wrap a Spreader Bar by Two Knotty Boys
Rope Collar (Video) collar with Rope by Two Knotty Boys
Rope ladder (Video) Make a rope ladder
Rope Blindfold (Video) How to make a Rope Blindfold by Two Knotty Boys.
fist ball gag (Video) Monkey fist ball gag. Tutorial
rope whip (Video) How to make a rope whip
Ball Gag (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Ball Gag
Bone Bit Gag (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Bone Bit Gag
Mini flogger (Video) Bondage Toys -- Making a Breast and Genital Flogger
Vamp Fingers (Video) Bondage Toys -- Vampire Fingers
Kitchen kink Home made 'sex toys' for Femdom online activities.repeated in relationship real time and online (NEW JUNE 09)
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