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 Finger play and fisting - Stimulating the anus with fingers, although desirable all by itself, causes very relaxing feelings when done carefully, and is mainly foreplay to something else: either anal intercourse or anal fisting. If anal play is new to someone, they may have trouble relaxing the anal sphincter muscle. To break through this mostly mental block, they may require gentle massage and training to open up. (For information on fisting use the link provided later). Finger play and fisting - Stimulating the anus with fingers, although desirable all by itself, causes very relaxing feelings when done carefully, and is mainly foreplay to something else: either anal intercourse or anal fisting. If anal play is new to someone, they may have trouble relaxing the anal sphincter muscle. To break through this mostly mental block, they may require gentle massage and training to open up. (For information on fisting use the link provided later).
  
-**Toys** {{  :butt_plug.jpg|  }}+**Toys** {{  :plugshapes.jpg|  }}
  
 Toys are mainly used as devices to train the anus for further play. To avoid all sorts of unwanted mishaps, please only use specially designed toys   (like butt plugs) for this purpose and not, for example vibrators. Apart from this, vibrators and dildos are usually too stiff for the anus. Toys for anal play should be very flexible, made from latex or silicone (which is a different type of silicone than used for plastic breast surgery). Toys are mainly used as devices to train the anus for further play. To avoid all sorts of unwanted mishaps, please only use specially designed toys   (like butt plugs) for this purpose and not, for example vibrators. Apart from this, vibrators and dildos are usually too stiff for the anus. Toys for anal play should be very flexible, made from latex or silicone (which is a different type of silicone than used for plastic breast surgery).
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 When penetrating a partner you do not know well, use a double or even a triple condom and do buy condoms designed for anal play (GaySafe for example). When penetrating a partner you do not know well, use a double or even a triple condom and do buy condoms designed for anal play (GaySafe for example).
  
-Item number two in any form of anal play is lubricant. Lots of it. Don't be shy about using lubricant! Be as generous as you can and add repeatedly, especially during finger play and fisting. Always use water based lubricant only. Oil based lubricants, as well as butter (don't laugh, this is still frequently used) will ruin latex and render your protection useless.+Item number two in any form of anal play is lubricant. Lots of it. Don't be shy about using [[lube]]! Be as generous as you can and add repeatedly, especially during finger play and fisting. Always use water based lubricant only. Oil based lubricants, as well as butter (don't laugh, this is still frequently used) will ruin latex and render your protection useless.
  
 Rimming without dental dams is outright unsafe unless you have been married or lived together for a long time and have had sex only with each other. Rimming without dental dams is outright unsafe unless you have been married or lived together for a long time and have had sex only with each other.
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