USA BDSM Munches

This is a work in progress..it might always be in progress! This is a listing of places, organizations, clubs, etc, all with useful information and where you can find and get involved with your local scene. Listings include both pansexual and exclusive groups.

Note–PLEASE do not send listings of professional dungeons, pro doms, or BDSM-related businesses.This page is simply a guide to where people can meet and get involved.

Helpful hint–I'll list them if you send them, but Yahoo discussion groups, pages on Geocities, Angelfire, etc, have a brief life span due to the growing anti-adult censorship of those web communities. You're better off having your page hosted by an adult friendly (or at least indifferent) provider.

Also, please do not send date-specific listings of anything that'll expire–trying to keep this page a resource for ongoing groups/organizations.

NOTE:Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of Geocities etc, we apologize for the inconvenience. We will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.


National: General Resources

  • Acme BDSM: no, not what Wile E Coyote did with the Roadrunner! This is a web resource and discussion page for the BDSM community.
  • Aggressive AIDS Prevention: nonprofit corporation dedicated to raising awareness of HIV/AIDS, encouraging HIV antibody testing, and promoting HIV Negative maintenance through Media.
  • The BDSM Events Page: lists time-sensitive information on events and a few international listings--very good resource
  • BDSM Partner Registry: An idea long overdue--an online gift registry for those of us in the lifestyle!
  • Black Beat Inc: an independent, non-profit, social organization founded by African American members of the D/s, BDSM and Leather community nationwide. Black BEAT strives to cultivate safe, sane, consenting adults (21 years and older) with alternative lifestyle and sexuality interests via culture, education, development, support, and event planning.
  • Bound: branches in Washington, DC as well as Baltimore MD, Tampa, FL, Richmond, VA, New Haven, CT. (NYC, Chicago, Philadelphia, San Francisco and Seattle by Oct 1998). *European* branches: Reykjavik, Iceland, Stockholm Sweden, and Prague CZ.
  • BDSM Events: mailing lists of local BDSM events, also has international listings
  • BDSM Travelers: BDSM Travelers is a directory of friendly, travel-loving people in the BDSM lifestyle who offer each other the gift of hospitality in their homes. Members from around the world offer their hospitality to other members at no charge. These hosts, in turn, are received when they travel.
  • BDSM Village: an online cyber 'village' & resource center, but supports RL events and workshops as well in various locations.
  • The Beacon E-Zine: Online bi-monthly newsletter and calendar of BDSM events for the SE US. Covers Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Florida, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina and Tennessee.
  • Chamber Door; good article/educational resource Dom sub Lifestyle: online bi-monthly newsletter and international calendar of BDSM events, groups, and group listings.
  • DS Kiosk Power Exchange Resource Center
  • The Fetish Alliance: education & support resource
  • Immediate Family: an Alternative Lifestyle Safehouse/Rescue project with affiliate houses throughout the US, Canada and the UK.
  • International Deaf Leather; P.O. Box 30286, Columbus OH 43230.
  • The Fireside Society: network for women and couples into BDSM in NC, SC, VA, and GA
  • Kink Aware Professionals
  • The Kinky Lawyer: legal resource page, as it applies to us kinky folk.
  • Kinky Tax: A kink friendly tax lawyer to help with the non-consential sadism practiced by the IRS.
  • National Leather Association
  • International Association of Rubberists
  • The Kinky Links Directory: I don't list 'professional' Dominants or Dungeons on this page, but this guide is an excellent resource to that part of the scene.
  • Lifestyle Choices Legal Resources Center: an organization to assist those who live an alternative BDSM lifestyle, whose lifestyle is being made an issue in a court of Law, on the job or at home.
  • Romantic Hotels: a directory of Romantic, Adult and Theme Room Hotels in the US and Canada for romantic getaway spots. Decent resource for kinky folks travelling, or for those who arent into the dungeon/play party scene but still want to do something a little different for a scene.
  • SM Sex--Safely: the STOP AIDS Project. Targets gay and bisexual men, but this BDSM resource has material that is appropriate for anyone involved in BDSM/kink practices.
  • Submissive Women Speak: Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.
  • Subs For Dommes: The largest BDSM community in the world exclusive to Female Dommes and male/female subs and slaves dedicated to Female Domination. The site is free to all lifestyle Dommes,subs,slaves, switches. It is unique in design and membership includes email, access to all chatrooms, blogs, forums, profiles and every part of the site. The site also offers flash chatrooms, 3D chatrooms and a virtual city.
  • Sweet Surrender: online adult BDSM education site

    Alabama

  • AlabamaFemDom-Malesub; play parties, social gatherings, and demonstrations.
  • Bound for Pleasure; North Alabama PanSexual Group devoted to the education and support of the BDSM Lifestyle.
  • Birmingham: Birmingham Leather/Fetish Society; A Pansexual lifestyle group promoting Leather solidarity and activism in Central Alabama and around the region.
  • The Red Chair; adult pan-sexual BDSM education, discussion and social group. Email rdchair@aol.comfor info.
  • Huntville: NASSA; North Alabama Spanking and Social Alternatives, pansexual support, education, & munch group.
  • Alabama Daddies/Girls Club(1ADGC); Group dedicated to educating and learning everything that can be shared between consenting adults concerning the Daddy/littlegirl concept.
  • Binding Ties; personal ad/discussion group, also holds RL munches in the Huntsville, Decatur, & Madison areas.
  • NAPEX; North Alabama Power Exchange
  • Montgomery: Central Alabama Power Exchange; pansexual, alternative lifestyle group with particular interests in B D S M and D/s and dedicated to Safe, Sane and Consensual aspects of the lifestyle.
  • Pelham: Steel City Centurions; men's group, email for info.
  • Sylacauga: DARE; social group
  • Tuscaloosa: TuscaloosaALG; Alternative Lifestyles Group located in the Tuscaloosa area. Mainly a BDSM & D/s group, but all are welcome.

    Alaska

  • Anchorage: The Last Frontier (TLFMC)

    Arizona

  • Glendale: Arizona PEP; 5821 N. 67th Ave., Suite 103-276, Glendale AZ
  • Phoenix: Arizona Amazons; women's group, Email: azamazon@juno.com
  • Arizona Women of Leather
  • Arizona Girls of Leather
  • APEX; PO Box 67532, Phoenix, AZ 85082 Phone: 602-415-1123
  • Transgender Harmony; transgender group
  • Tucson: Desert Dominion; a pansexual, panfetish educational and social organization.
  • Tucson Power Exchange; pansexual BDSM and D/s resource for people living in or isiting Tucson, Arizona - lists local groups and munches. Email: tan@pobox.com.
  • Tucson Center for Submissive Women; helps submissive women accept and honor their submissiveness, offers support and education. Email: tan@pobox.com.
  • The Next Generation: Arizona; pansexual BDSM & alternative lifestyles group

    Arkansas

  • Different Loving of Arkansas
  • Alternative Lifestyles Leaders Alliance
  • Central/Western Arkansas: Bad-Cafe; pansexual BDSM educational, social and support group of individuals interested or involved in the lifestyle.
  • Fayetteville: North West Arkansas S/M; email nwasm_2000@hotmail.com for info
  • Whips And Chains of Arkansas; pansexual discussion group in northwest AR
  • Jonesboro: NorthEast Arkansas Dungeon Society; Adult pansexual group in the NE AR area for those into the bdsm lifestyle to meet and share with others.
  • Little Rock: Lupercalia, (supposedly being re-formed), Email: Misterbill@att.net
  • Different Loving in Little Rock; holds a monthly munch as well as play parties.
  • NLA-Arkansas; P.O. Box 1608, Little Rock AR 72115
  • Leathermen of Arkansas
  • Russellville: Bound Pleasures of Arkansas, email

    California

  • Calendar of BDSM California Events
  • Southern California Munch Group
  • The Gathering: Southern California socials
  • SOCalMunch; SoCalMUNCH covers the following areas: Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, & the Westshores of the Salton Sea.
  • Northern California BDSM: social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality.
  • Bakersfield: Bakersfield BDSM Group Munch
  • Berkeley: Womanlink International; women's group, 2124 Kittredge #257, Berkeley CA 94704.
  • Central California: Chosen Lifestyle
  • Canoga Park: MP Bands; P.O. Box 2843, Canoga Park, CA 91306
  • Chico: Chico BDSM Munch
  • El Cerrito: La Madrona; femdom couple's group, P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito CA 94530.
  • Fairfield: Munch, first Sunday of each month, email for info.
  • Los Angeles: Avatar Club
  • C.C.Inc; BDSM socials, run by the same people behind Conquest and Fetish X. Also weekly BDSM membership only parties at Lair de Sade
  • Dualities; discussion and munch group for switches
  • Eagle LA; Formerly The Gauntlet II, the Eagle L.A. is Los Angeles' hottest Levi/Leather bar. Always upholding the Leather/Uniform/Fetish ethic, with the hottest leathermen in town.
  • MAsT L.A; A support and discussion group for gay men interested in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship.
  • Lair de Sade; A private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of BDSM lifestylers. Over 6,700 square feet. multiple buildings, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and basement. 30+ playstations with exquisite BDSM furniture and equipment. Outside patio for socializing and smoking features cast iron patio heaters and a firepit.
  • LA Pups; social group for all human pups/dogs, Handlers/Trainers/Owners of human pups, or anyone that has an interest in human pups. The group is open to all genders and orientations.
  • Los Angeles boys of leather; a group of submissives who are in service to the local leather community. The term "leatherboy" can refer to people of any age, gender, appearance or sexual orientation who share a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community.
  • Los Angeles Girls of Leather; LAgoL is a group focused on providing a welcoming space for leathergirls and to provide service to our local Leather/BDSM community. Leather girls are men and women who find joy in being of service to others. We are slaves, submissives, and bottoms with a feminine heart and include service people of all genders and sexual orientations.
  • LA Leather Coalition; A pansexual coalition of leather and fetish identified businesses and motorcycle, educational, social and uniform organizations. The LALC facilitates communication and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather/fetish-affiliated community, and promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.
  • Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women; A women's group devoted to the educational and social well-being of the women's BDSM, leather, and fetish communities. LARAWW welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their sexual orientation or preference. We provide high quality educational programs and information, play parties and social gatherings.
  • NLA-Los Angeles; 7985 Santa Monica Blvd 109-217, West Hollywood CA 90046
  • PLAY; A social and educational group for leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality; provides spiritual outreach to the leather/fetish community; fosters leather/fetish understanding within the larger spiritual community. PLAY is open to all adults without regard to gender, age, race, religious/spiritual affiliation or sexual orientation.
  • Trident International; 1064 Myra Avenue, #32, Los Angeles, CA 90026
  • The Threshold Society; non-profit social & educational organization
  • Lower Lake: Alternative Lake County CA; online magazine. Also holds BDSM classes and workshops. Contact: jwolf@usa.com
  • Marina Del Rey: Threshold; 2554 Lincoln Blvd PMB 1004, Marina Del Rey CA 90291 Phone: (818) 782-1160
  • Lake County Munch
  • Lompoc: Lompoc Valley Power Exchange; pansexual munch group, email LVPX-owner@yahoogroups.com for info.
  • Marysville: Marysville Yubacity Munch group. Email: Sierraflowr@comcast.net
  • Milpitas: MilPitas PlAyers
  • Modesto: The Modesto Discussion Group
  • Monterey: Monterey Bay Kinksters; munches in Monterey & Moss Landing.
  • Stile di vita; Stile di vita (Italian for 'lifestyle') Supports the Male Dominant/female submissive community in California's South Bay providing an intellectual approach to D/s and M/s lifestyles.
  • North Bay: Munch, third Sunday of each month, email for info.
  • Orange County: Under Ground Leather Association; private membership association, but holds discussion meetings open to the general public
  • Orange County Munch Group: Pansexual BDSM Group
  • Palo Alto/Sunnyvale: The Munch
  • Petaluma: North Bay Third Sunday Munch
  • Redding: munch group for northern CA, meets the last Friday of each month. Email MDW@charter.net for details.
  • Riverside: Paddlers of Southern California; PSC is a discussion list & munch group for adults in the Southern California area who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
  • Sacramento: EroticEdge: BDSM discussion group, especially for newcomers.
  • FemDommes of Sacramento; open to all submissives and Femdommes
  • Sacramento Valley Leathercorps; gay men's and women's group
  • "T"ransitions
  • San Bernardino: Phoenix Alternative; pansexual BDSM education and social organization.
  • San Diego: Club X; P. O. Box 3092, San Diego, CA 92163 Phone: (619) 685-5149 Email: info@clubxsd.org
  • San Diego Social; meets and greets once a month.
  • San Fernando Valley Munch
  • San Francisco: Cogent Warriors; women's group, 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114
  • Constantines of the Bay Area; men's group
  • Defenders San Francisco; Catholic leather society
  • El Cerrito Munch; 3rd monday's, 7 pm at Carrow's Restaurant, 6120 Potrero at San Pablo Ave
  • The Exiles; P.O. Box 31266, San Francisco CA 94131 Phone: (415)487-5170
  • Fifteen Association; men's group, P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142
  • The Forum of San Francisco; coalition of motorcycle and leather clubs
  • Leathermen's Discussion Group: located at EROS, 2051 Market St., near Church St., San Francisco
  • Links; 207 Gough Street, #58, San Francisco, CA 94102 Phone: (415) 695-7955 or (415) 703-7159
  • Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness; BDSM online discussion / munch group for People of Color and the people who like them
  • ; classes, discussion groups, and dungeon parties.
  • ; Lists upcoming events for the mens community along with other information, including an overview of the neighborhood for visitors.
  • San Francisco Girls of Leather; SFgoL provides a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls; educates the community about leathergirls; supports activities within the leather community. Leathergirls are people with a girl's heart, whose primary self-identity is girl. The girl identity is not limited by bio sex, gender, or sexual orientation.
  • Service of Mankind Church; P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito, CA 94530 Phone: (510) 232-1369
  • The Stampede; The Bay Area Human Animal Roleplay Society
  • Power Exchange Sex Clubs
  • San Francisco Leather Online; listing of leather clubs and events
  • Society of Janus; P.O. Box 411523, San Francisco, CA 94141 Email: janus@soj.org
  • San Jose: Santa Clara County Leather Association, email mssccla2000@leatherspace.com
  • Edges; play space, also hosts play parties
  • Leather WISDOM; women's group, P.O. Box 2519, Santa Clara CA 95055.
  • SM Odyssey; Pansexual organization that holds educational classes every month, Includes the San Jose Munch, mens/women/pansexual discussion groups and Play Parties.
  • Southern Cross
  • Santa Clarita: Santa Clarita Munch
  • Santa Cruz: Santa Crux Munch
  • Studio City: Shadow Lane
  • Vacaville/Fairfield: Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch
  • Vallejo: The Overlook; offers a monthly event as well as provides event listings in the Northern California area.

    Colorado

  • Boulder: Boulder County Pervs; social and play party group
  • Denver: COPE, 1015 S Gaylord St. #200, Denver, CO 80209
  • Denver Bound; dinner & play group
  • Defenders-Denver; Catholic leather society, P O Box 3072, Denver, CO 80202
  • The Denver Harbour; educational, support, & social group.
  • The Enclave; Alternative lifestyle (bdsm, fetish) social club.
  • The Fold
  • MORE-Denver; all male BDSM/fetish, social, educational and play party for guys 21 and above.
  • Pansexual United Nubile Kinksters: pansexual, non-profit discussion group dedicated to providing a safe, friendly environment for younger members of the Denver BDSM community. (18-30 year olds)
  • PEP-Denver
  • Uncommon Ground; P O Box 2037, Woodland Park, CO 80866 Email: membership@uncommon-ground.org
  • WICK'D: Women In Control of Kink; forum for female dominants and those who serve them.
  • Pueblo: The Triskele Club

    Connecticut

  • Hartford: Bound Hartford; dance club catering to the Goth/Industrial/Fetish crowd.
  • The Group; male dom/fem sub group
  • The Society; pansexual, support, social and educational group for the 21 years and older BDSM community in the Connecticut area and beyond.
  • East Hartford: United Leatherfolk of Connecticut; PO Box 281172, East Hartford, CT
  • New Haven: Connecticut BDSM Munch; pansexual group
  • Stamford: Stamford Munch
  • Westchester County: Westchester Munch

    Delaware

  • Northern Delaware DS: contact MasterStevestami@aol.com
  • Milford: Delmarva D/S
  • Wilmington: Delaware Area Lifestyle Society (DEALS) ; non-profit social support group for those with an interest in Dominance and submission, sadomasochism and other related fetishes
  • Wilmington Munch; held the third Thurs of every month, email Curiusnomore@yahoo.com for info.
  • The DS Castle; pansexual discussion group

    Florida

  • BDSM Florida: an excellent site for the ever-changing world of BDSM in the Sunshine State.
  • Sir Kane's Florida BDSM News: excellent source for Florida BDSM info.
  • Brandon: City Limits; fetish night every Tuesday. Email for info.
  • Brevard County: Brevard Munch
  • Space Coast Munch
  • South Florida Munch
  • Clearwater/Largo: Clearwater Munch; also home to SUN (The Submisisve Unity Network) and DAMM (Dominanta and Masters and Mistress).
  • Daytona Beach: Daytona-Florida Munch
  • Florida Fem Dom; social Femdom-malesub group.
  • Ladies Tea Society of Florida; protocol/manners instruction group to teach male subs
  • Ft. Lauderdale: Ft. Lauderdale NLA; P.O. Box 4911, Ft. Lauderdale FL 33338
  • Command Performance; social club and headquarters for the leather community. We offer themed Play-Parties (every Saturday night), private Sessions (by appointment), educational Courses, a thrift Boutique, seminars, workshops and many other unique Events.
  • The Dungeon Depot: holds parties once a month. Also lists other events going on in the state.
  • Klub Kink (BDSM club)
  • Leather University
  • The Saint; fetish parties
  • Ft. Myers: Ft Myers Munch; email for info.
  • Gainesville: Gainesville Munch, email for info.
  • Gainesville/Ocala: FLOG Socials; monthly socials, parties, demos and educational events for those living in North Florida. Membership is open to anyone living in Florida.
  • Hernando/Citrus County: NatureCoast Munch
  • Jacksonville: Florida Area Power Exchange (Jacksonville and NE Florida); FAPE is a support, educational and social group for people whose lifestyles or interests include D/sBDSM. FAPE is a pansexual group and open to adults (over 21) of any gender or sexual orientation. Email: FAPEMunchGroup@yahoo.com & FAPEMunchGroup@aol.com
  • Chainz; pansexual discussion group
  • Northeast Florida Spankers; real-time group of spankers and spankees living in or near the Jacksonville, St. Augustine, Gainesville and Daytona area.
  • Jupiter: Jupiter Munch
  • Key West: Key West and Florida Keys Munch Group
  • Key West Wreckers; men's leather/levi club
  • Ocala: Ocala Power Exchange; pansexual educational, support, and social group. Email: Swetestpet@aol.com.
  • SMACK; munch group for Sumter, Marion, and Citrus counties.
  • Orlando: Orlando Power Exchange & Munch
  • DSSG Orlando; dominant/submissive support group.
  • Orlando Area Sister's Lunch; casual social event for all women who currently participate or have participated in the BDSM/Ds lifestyle as a submissive or slave as well as "newbies". For information email RoundersSweetTea@aol.com
  • Miami: Miami Munch
  • Southern Florida: SPICE; P.O. Box 451837, Sunrise, FL 33345-1837 Email: SPICE561@aol.com
  • North Florida BDSM Mailing List; information about bdsm in Jacksonville, Pensacola, Mobile, and others in the North Fl area can be had.
  • Naples: Club FEM--South Florida; Females Enslaving Males. A munch exclusively for dominant Women and submissive men. Meetings in Naples as well as Ft. Lauderdale.
  • Palm Beach: Palm Beach Munch: private, invitation only event
  • Panama City: Panama City PEP; email for info.
  • Pompano Beach: Command Performance; pro-dungeon, but does host fee-based play parties
  • Port Richey: West Pasco Munch
  • Port St. Lucie: Port St. Lucie Munch; email for info.
  • Sarasota: The Sarasota Society
  • Sebring: Dread BDSM & D/S; meetings and get-togethers the first Wed of the month, email DREADLOCKSKNOTTIE@HOTMAIL.COM for info.
  • Sebring Munch:contact addictedone@hotmail.com for info.
  • Spring Hill/Bayport: Nature Coast Munch; lifestyle munch group based out of Hernando and Citrus counties.
  • St. Augustine: VIPER; (Vilano Intimate Power Exchange Region), pansexual BDSM support group headquartered in Vilano Beach, near St. Augustine, Florida. Contact BigDaddyVilano@yahoo.com for more information.
  • Tallahassee: Tallahassee SSC
  • Tampa: Tampa Munch
  • Florida Moonshine: private party group for spanking enthusiasts
  • PM Club; P.O. Box 151604, Tampa FL 33614.
  • Tampa Bay/Vero Beach: DSSG; PO. Box 30, Valrico, FL 33595 Phone: (813) 689-7999 Email: genebat@gte.net
  • Tampa Bay/Lutz: Defenders; Catholic leather group, P O Box 201, Lutz, FL 33549
  • West Palm Beach: Eurotique: Its a fetish store but they do hold parties the 1st Saturday of every month.

    Georgia

  • Atlanta: 1763; equipped dungeon with both public and members-only events.
  • Atlanta Corporal Punishment Club; P.O. Box 14904, Atlanta GA 30324.
  • Atlanta Regional Munch
  • Atlanta Littles and Adult Babies Munch; Ageplay munch group
  • Buckhead Munch
  • Dekalb Munch
  • Athens Munch
  • Southeast Atlanta Munch
  • Atlanta S/M Solidarity; gay organization, P.O. Box 8361, Atlanta, GA 30306.
  • MD's Naughty Nights; private play party list
  • McDonough (South Atlanta): The Prison Cell; resource page.
  • The Secret Room; fetish nightclub
  • The Tribe; educational community group
  • WHIMPER Munch
  • Whippersnappers; educational & social group for 20-30something BDSMer's.
  • Augusta: Augusta Iron Rose Society
  • Cherokee County: Cherokee Munch
  • Cobb County: Cobb Dinner Munch
  • Columbus: CUFF-Columbus Munch
  • Gainesville: Lanier Munch
  • Gwinnett County: Gwinnett Munch
  • Macon: Macon Georgia BDSM
  • Savannah: Kinky In Savannah

    Hawaii

  • Honolulu: PEP Paradise; c/o Mistress Athena, PO Box 22959, Honolulu, HI 96826
  • Hawaii Pacific Alternative Lifestyles; confidential group open to all kinks by consenting adults

    Idaho

  • BDSM Idaho; discussion & education list. Also lists a couple of other Idaho lists/groups/clubs.
  • North Idaho Fetish Enthusiasts: This group is for folks in the North Idaho, Eastern Washington and surrounding areas to meet, exchange ideas, and plan events. This group is for people with real life experience and to discuss the variety of styles of BDSM activities in the real world.
  • North Idaho BDSMS
  • Boise: Boise BDSM Society; education & social group
  • Boise Kink
  • Boise Black Rose Society: educational and support group for all members of the BDSM lifestyle.
  • Idaho Falls: Idalho Friends; social munch group
  • Spokane: Spokane/Idaho Panhandle Alternative Listings

    Illinois

  • Central Illinois: Leatherpalooza; BDSM education and events.
  • Chicago: Chicago Leather Club; pansexual organization that provides a supportive, social, and educational environment for the Levi/leather, BDSM, and fetish communities.
  • Chicago Far North Shore Munch Group
  • Chicago Hellfire Club; men's group, P.O. Box 5426, Chicago, IL 60680
  • Crimson Moon Ltd: spanking resource & party site
  • Dedicated and Safe: membership pansexual group, hosts seminars, parties
  • Galleria Domain; BDSM membership club
  • Leather Archives; "Our Mission: The compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather lifestyle and related lifestyles [including but not limited to the Gay and Lesbian communities], history, archives and memorabilia for historical, educational and research purposes."
  • Leather United-Chicago; P.O. Box 81288, Chicago, IL 60681-1288 Phone: 773-486-5499 Email: LeatherUN@aol.com
  • Leather SINS Social Club; Leather SINS is Leather Social Interaction of the North Shore, a Chicago area Dinner Group which meets twice monthly as well as presenting other functions throughout the year.
  • BDSM Chicago; Features CRAM (Chicago rope and mummification group) and CHISM (Chicago BDSM community calendar).
  • LRA BDSM Leather Club; welcomes alternative lifestyles in Chicagoland and suburbs whatever your orientation: heterosexual bisexual homosexual or interest: Dominant submissive Master slave Top bottom spanking fetish.
  • Midwest Submissive Discussion Group
  • Submission Of Love; submissive's support group
  • Decatur: BCI Pearls of Wisdom; A pansexual discussion group for people 21 years and older to discuss the realtime lifestyle of D/s and b/d/s/m living in central illinois and the surrounding areas. Monthly Munches.
  • Moline-Rock Island: Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM
  • Rockford: REALM --Rockford and Extended Area Lifestyle Munch
  • Springfield: L.I.N.K.S; Like-minded Individuals Networking for Knowledge and Satisfaction. We meet on the third Saturday of every month for a munch/social in a local restaurant. Members host their own private play parties and are by invitation only.

    Indiana

  • Northern Indiana: Northern Indiana Power Exchange: lifestyle group based in Northern Indiana and welcomes others from areas near by including Ohio, Michigan amd Illinois.
  • Northern Indiana Kink
  • Club Fem Indy; a N/P social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female dominant/male submissive relationships.
  • Bloomington: Headspace; pansexual group, serving IU students and the rest of the community
  • Evansville: Evansville Munch Bunch
  • Common Grounds; pansexual social & educational group
  • Fort Wayne: Fort Wayne Munch; bi-monthly munches, monthly play parties, and feature a submissive's group that meets monthly, and a Dominant's group that hasn't begun to have meetings yet.
  • NEILA; North East Indiana Leather Association
  • Summit City Munch
  • Indianapolis:
  • Andromeda; social and educational group for lesbians, butches/femmes, gender queers, bisexuals, and transsexual/transgender persons* in the Central Indiana area who are interested in kink, B/D, D/S, S/M, etc.
  • IMAS (Indiana Masters and slaves/submissives/switches) ; munch group
  • NLA Indianapolis: 1310 Oakland Ave., Indianapolis IN 46201
  • The Indy Slosh; informal BDSM group
  • NLA Indianapolis
  • Sweet Misery, P O Box 11690, Indianapolis, IN 46201-0690
  • Lafayette: Lafayette Munch
  • Muncie: Club DOMINION; pansexual fetish nightclub/dungeon (this club seems to be in limbo right now)
  • Merrillville: Hood and Leash of Indiana; group of Gor and D/s Lifestyle friendly people who like to gather and learn from each other. Bi-monthly meetings.
  • South Bend: ALM; Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana

    Iowa

  • ISAB; Iowa Stocks and Bonds
  • North East Iowa Power Exchange; monthly munches and bimonthly classes, demos, parties and workshops
  • Ames: Cuffs; official BDSM student organization at Iowa State University
  • Burlington: The Round Table; 21 and over discussion group, offers bi-monthly meetings
  • Bettendorf-Davenport: Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM
  • Des Moines: Des Moines Area Discussion Group
  • Sioux City: Tristates Power Exchange

    Kansas

  • Wichita: Wichita First Friday Munch
  • Kansas City: Alternative Hedonistic Source
  • MOMunch
  • Topeka: Kink In Northeast Kansas; monthly munches, demos and play parties soon
  • Wichita: Twister Temptations Kansas; munches, play parties and demos
  • First Friday Munches

    Kentucky

  • Covington: Covington Munch Bunch
  • South Central Kentucky: South Central KY DS List; discussion, educational, and meeting list
  • Lexington: Kentucky Underground Fetish Society; pansexual social and munch group
  • Louisville: Louisville Munch; Social and discussion gateway group since 1997 for anyone interested in the BDSM community.
  • Early Bloomers; A social and discussion group for people ages 18-35 interested in BDSM.
  • Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
  • Paducah: Bondage Connection; pansexual West KY munch group

    Louisiana

  • Alexandria: Central Louisiana BDSM mailing list, send email to CenLaBDSM@egroups.com.
  • Baton Rouge: Red Stick Volunteer Players
  • Lafayette: Acadiana Power Exchange
  • Lake Charles: BDSM_Lake_Charles; BDSM support and social group
  • New Orleans: Club Fem NOLA; Femdom - malesub group
  • NOBLE; non-profit pansexual support, play and social group
  • Society les Femdommes; FemDomme group based in southeast Louisiana serving Female Dominants, male submissives and female submissives.
  • Shreveport: S_portdungeon; education & support group serving the Shreveport region and all of Northern Louisiana.
  • Delightful Dungeon; Pansexual D/s, BD S&M group in the Shreveport-Bossier City area.
  • Different Delights; pansexual 21& over support, education, and social group. Holds monthly munches, educational meetings, and coffee get togethers 3 times a month.
  • SWORD; Shreveport Women Of Regal Dominance, a fem Domme group and their subs, educating and supporting those in the Fem Dom lifestyle

    Maine

  • Maine BDSM
  • NLA New England
  • Maine Submissives
  • Masters and slaves Together; southern Maine
  • Bangor:Northern Maine Kinksters
  • Portland:
  • Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU); New social group in Maine with the purpose of uniting those involved in alternative lifestyles.
  • Thorn Society; pansexual BDSM support & social group
  • BDSM Maine
  • Harbor Masters; leather/levi social club

    Maryland

  • Baltimore: Baltimore At Ease; Not-for-profit grassroots advocacy group dedicated to promoting the tolerance of sexual minorities and education about alternative sexual expression.
  • Baltimore Educational and Social Society; educational and social group for consenting adults with shared interests in BDSM sexuality.
  • The Baltimore Eagle; gay leather club
  • D&S Society of Baltimore; P.O. Box 20248, Towson MD 21204.
  • FIST; women's S/M group
  • The Power Exchange
  • Shipmates; gay leather club
  • Trident International Baltimore
  • Laurel: Dragon Ladies Limited; social munch group for Dominant Women and those who serve them.

    Massachusetts

  • Alston: The K.M. Society; P.O. Box 66, Alston MA 02134.
  • Boston: Boston Burgermunch; email for info.
  • New England Dungeon Society
  • Common Bond; women's group, P.O. Box 390313, Boston MA 02139.
  • Bound For Pleasure; a New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light.
  • Defenders Boston: Catholic leather society, 55 E. Springfield St., Boston, MA 02118
  • New England NLA
  • One Nation Underground: information/ power exchange group for the BDSM/leather lifestyles
  • Boston-The Next Generation of Kinksters; pansexual BDSM group for motivated kinky individuals age 18-35 that is dedicated to education, outreach, and an enriching social environment within the leather community.
  • Braintree: SouthShore Munch; egroups list. Holds a munch 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month.
  • Cambridge: MOB New England; Women's play and social group.
  • Charlestown: Boston United Leather Legion; A gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender group, P.O. Box 287, Charlestown MA 02129.
  • Hadley: Bound and Determined, women's group, P.O. Box 602, Hadley MA 01035.
  • Medford: Urania; women's group, P.O. Box 501, Medford MA 02155.
  • Northampton: East Coast FTM Group; P.O. Box 60585, Florence Station, Northampton, MA 01060
  • Links: pansexual group, meets monthly at Intimicies in downtown Northampton.
  • Northampton Alt; adult social group
  • North Dartmouth: FLAG (Fits Like A Glove); glove fetish organization, predominantly gay male, but it is not limited to men or gay.
  • Shelix; women's group, P.O. Box 416, Northampton, MA 01060-0416
  • Randolph: The Esoterica Society; P.O. Box 37, Randolph, MA 02368
  • Saugus: munch, contact Darkskyfire@aol.com for info
  • Springfield: The Western Massachusetts Power Exchange
  • WMPE-The Next Generation; for lifestylers 18-35.
  • WMPE Submissive Discussions; submissive only support group
  • Taunton: munch, held the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month. Email Swtchr2@aol.com for info.
  • Waltham: Northeast Spanking Society; couples only group
  • Worcester: Worcester Women's Munch

    Michigan

  • Michigan Munches; an announce-only list to inform subscribers of public BDSM gatherings in or near Michigan.
  • Michigan Vanguard; pansexual discussion group.
  • Southeastern Michigan Munch (Ann Arbor/Sterling Heights)
  • Whipstock: annual fundraising 3 day outdoor pansexual/BDSM event in West MI. Sponsored by Immediate Family.
  • Ann Arbor: Ann Arbor's Next Generation of Kinksters; a kink and fetish oriented group in Ann Arbor for kinksters up to 35 years old.
  • Bay City: Leather and Lace Society; P.O. Box 2415, Bay City MI 48707.
  • Detroit: Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society
  • Detroit Bondage Club; gay male group
  • Detroit D/S Dinner Discussion, this group meets monthly and is for those of us interested in the D/s lifestyle, with emphasis on Master/slave relations. Email: DetroitDsDD@aol.com.
  • The Mich Chat OHS; (dinner/discussion group)
  • Michigan Rope; munch and discussion group
  • Flint: Flint Munch List
  • Grand Rapids: Grand Rapids BDSM
  • Grand Rapids Alternative Lifestyle Enlightenment: email grale@migrale.org for info.
  • West Michigan TNG
  • Lansing: Lansing BDSM; open, pansexual munch group
  • Muskegon: Muskegon Area Bd-Ds-SMers
  • Niles: ALM; Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana
  • Saginaw: Saginaw Valley Deviant's Munch Page
  • Traverse City: NorthernMich-BDSM; Northern Michagan Munch
  • Windsor, Ont: Kink Zone; Just across the border from Detroit, this is a pansexual panfetish BDSM club with monthly munches and parties.

    Minnesota

  • West Central Minnesota/Southeast North Dakota: WCMN Power Exchange
  • Minneapolis: ATONS; gay leather club
  • Knights of Leather; pansexual group
  • Minneapolis-St. Paul Women's Group
  • Minnesota Kinky Youngsters; munch and play party group for the 18-35 set.
  • TIES; pansexual BDSM group
  • Minnesota Stocks, Debentures & Bonds; private, members-only group.

    Mississippi

  • Club Fem North Mississippi; Femdom - malesub group
  • MsNalt; pansexual discussion group
  • SMART; pansexual group
  • Gulfport/Biloxi: Club Fem South Mississippi; Femdom - malesub group
  • Jackson: Jackson Mississippi Munch Group
  • Tupelo: Tupelo BDSM Munch Group

    Missouri

  • Cape Girardeau: BDSM Cape Girardeau; This is a list for people interested in the Lifestyle, who live in, or around the Cape Girardeau, Missouri area. If you are interested in talking to, or meeting, other Lifestylers in this area, then this is the place!
  • Columbia: Columbia Erotic Power Exchange
  • Mid-Missouri Munch
  • Pandora's Rose; BDSM education & social group.
  • Farmington: Mineral Area Lifestylers
  • Kansas City: Alternative Hedonistic Source; PO Box 414545, Kansas City, MO 64141
  • KC Pioneers; gay/lesbian leather group
  • Leather Stone
  • Masters And slaves Together
  • MoMunch; munch group for Kansas City and surrounding areas
  • Screams N whispers - Midwest; BDSM social group for the northwest MO and northeast KS area.
  • Kirksville: NorMAL; Northern Missouri Alternative Lifestyles.
  • Neosho/Joplin: Leather & Silk; For those who are interested in real time BDSM practice, to meet sincere like-minded individuals contact kaged_kitten@hotmail.com for more information.
  • Poplar Bluff: Poplar Bluff Lifestylers
  • Springfield: Springfield Masters And subs/slaves
  • Southwest BDSM of Missouri; a group that meets and is dedicated to the informing and providing SW Missouri with a safe and sane learning environment for BDSM activities
  • St. Louis: Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG); pansexual fetish/BDSM social and disscussion group , also has a couple's and women's group
  • Gynecrocrat Alliance; P.O. Box 13034, St. Louis MO 63122
  • St.Louis Leather and Lace; Pansexual BDSM organization
  • St.Louis Munch
  • PEP--St. Louis
  • St. Louis Scene Page

    Montana

  • Hamilton: Master Wolfen's Bondage Club; new pansexual group in Western Montana.
  • Missoula: Montana BDSM; email list for Western Montana.

    Nebraska

  • Lincoln: Community Ties
  • Midwest Alternatives
  • Omaha: Learning 2 Exchange Power

    Nevada

  • Las Vegas: Delicious Decadence; egroup that aims to enlighten and introduce interested & curious people from all walks of life into the enticing world of Ds.
  • CHIX; Women's BDSM egroup, created to unite, connect and address the lifestyle issues, concerns and direction of all women - whatever vocation, sexual preference, orientation, size or inclination.
  • Dungeon Kink: A private Las Vegas play party group for SSC adults into D/s, BDSM.
  • Las Vegas BDSM Lifestyle Group: A BDSM Lifestyle Group that values Protocol and Ritual, for the Lifestyler in Las Vegas and surroundings, Singles and Couples alike, who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
  • Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas; pansexual leather group dedicated to Education, Socializing, and Community Service.
  • Pau'Hana - The Club in the Lava Lounge; has a weekly fetish night, located at Hawaiian Marketplace, 3743 S. Las Vegas Blvd, Las Vegas, NV 89109
  • Polished Collar Society; private association of like-minded individuals sharing in the experience of learning and practicing the ritualistic aspects of BDSM.
  • Twisted Vanilla; real-life/time BDSM-D/s lifestyle group based in Southern Nevada (Las Vegas/Pahrump), offering support and social activities for those interested in BDSM and D/s lifestyles, and especially those interested protocols, respects and servitudes under the practices of "Old World" Mistresses and Masters. Parties, munches and slave training available to those who are honorable and discrete.
  • Shibari
  • Sin City DS Network: egroup for all Las Vegas area individuals at least 21 years of age interested in Dominance and submission, and BD/SM activities for the purpose of meeting and maintaining contact.
  • Reno: Northern Nevada Free Lifestyles; adult munch and social group.

    New Hampshire

  • CUFS (Coastal United Fetish Society); pansexual group
  • Hampton: Beach Munch; #d/s-NewHampshire, IRC-chat, but holds rl munches every 2nd Saturday of the month.
  • Keene: Darkstone DS; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
  • Nashua: New Hampshire Burger Munches; also email estelle@bdsbbs.com
  • Upper Valley: White Mountains D/S; BDSM group for northern New Hampshire.

    New Jersey

  • North New Jersey: Leather N Rose’s Munch
  • Atlantic City: Atlantic City D/S
  • Atlantic Highlands: The Fantasy Chateau; a BDSM BBS & Party Network. PO Box 290, Atlantic Highlands, NJ 07716. Email: partyman@partyman.com
  • Bordentown: The South Jersey Alternative; holds munches and private play parties. Email Anar_Kisst@hotmail.com for info.
  • Masters and slaves Together; central New Jersey chapter
  • Iselin: Knot for Everyone; Knot For Everyone, PO Box 45, Fanwood, NJ 07023 Email: knot4every1@aol.com
  • Lakewood/Toms River: Toms River Munch Group
  • Mt Laurel: The Mission; private pansexual BDSM club that operates munches, activities and play parties in Mt Laurel NJ, Ocean NJ, Atlantic City NJ, Bound Brook NJ, and Willow Grove PA.
  • Passaic: The Couples Club; P.O. Box 325, Passaic NJ 07055.
  • New Brunswick: PEP New Brunswick; call 908-281-8689.
  • Somerset: Tri-State; P.O. Box 7205, Somerset NJ 08875.
  • Trenton: Capitol City Munch
  • Toms River: Toms River Munch; pansexual group that meets monthly, write for more info.
  • Williamstown: Temptations Reign; pansexual social group

    New Mexico

  • Albuquerque: Alternative Erotic Lifestyles, P O Box 80676, Albuquerque, NM 87198 Phone: (505) 345-6484 Email:
  • Leather Wolves; pack-structured fellowship of Gay & Bi identified men who actively pursue fetish & S/M activity with other men.
  • New Mexico Leathermen's Network; Albuquerque-based online discussion & announcement site for New Mexico's gay leathermen.
  • New Mexico--TNG; Pansexual organization for people 18-35 years of age (and their partners) who are interested in, curious about or already involved in Leather, polyamorous or kinky relationships.
  • PEP National Headquarters; Phone: (505)260-1324
  • Farmington: Four Corners; pansexual munch, support, and party group, serving the four corners area of Az. Co. NM. and Ut.
  • Silver City: Grant County Power Exchange Group

    New York

  • Albany: Albany Power Exchange (APEX); munches, events and information resource. Also email for more info.
  • Albany Kink and Party Club; social and educational lifestyler group
  • Buffalo: BuffaloLINKS; pansexual support group
  • PEP Buffalo; pansexual support, education, and social group
  • WNY Lifestyle Society
  • Hudson Valley: Hudson Valley DS
  • Ithaca: Ithaca TNG
  • NYC: APPLEMUNCH
  • Brooklyn Leather Munch
  • Defenders NY; Catholic leather society, P O Box 1146, Old Chelsea Station, New York, NY 10011
  • Conversio Virium; Columbia University
  • Domina Fetish Club; a social, educational, play and business support group for Dominant Females and submissives of any gender.
  • DomSubFriends Society; Pansexual BDSM Society, with lectures, demos, e-magazine, and exclusive parties serving NY, NJ, CT and other areas of the East Coast.
  • DS Desires: D/s & BDSM related parties, workshops and weekend getaways, email dsdesires@dsdesires.com.
  • The Eulenspiegal Society; P.O. Box 2783, New York, N.Y. 10163-2783 Phone: (212) 388-7022
  • Fetish Warehouse NY; BDSM club, 117 25th Street, Brooklyn
  • Gay Male S/M Activists
  • Lesbian Sex Mafia
  • Long Island Ravens; women's group, c/o Long Island Eagles, 94 North Clinton, Bay Shore NY 11706.
  • New York Area S/M Activists
  • NLA New York; P O Box 488 Triborough Station, New York, NY 10035
  • New York Bondage Club; PO Box 20064 West Village New York NY 10014, Phone: 212-620-ROPE(7673)
  • New York Metro D&S Singles; #21 3395 Nostrand Ave. Brooklyn NY 11229.
  • NY Renegades; (play parties, men's group)
  • Paddles; clean, friendly BDSM club 250 West 26th Street, NYC (212) 629-1854
  • Peter Boots' Gay Leather SM Fetish Guide to NYC
  • Queens BDSM Organization
  • Staten Island Munch; contact Mazie or call (718) 815-1358
  • The Vault; (BDSM club) 565 West 23rd Street, Manhattan Phone: (212) 255-6758
  • The Venom Club: BDSM club in Farmingdale, Long Island
  • Without Restraint
  • Long Island Leather N Roses: pansexual weekly discussion group & parties. Contact LI_Leather_N_Roses-subscribe@yahoogroups.com for information.
  • Rochester: Rochester Kink Society
  • TrustBound; adult couple's group
  • Poughkeepsie: Hudson Valley Munch; email Monstie114@aol.com for info
  • Syracuse: Syracuse DS Society
  • Utica: Utica Kink Society; twice monthly munch group in central NY.

    North Carolina

  • Northeastern NC: ASKNENC; lifestyle munch group for Northeast NC, as well as Southeast Virginia
  • Asheville: The Asheville Area Group; pansexual social group. Address: TAAG, PO Box 2372, Leicester, NC 28748.
  • Charlotte: Charlotte Area Power Exchange; a not-for-profit pansexual organization in the south central Piedmont area of North Carolina for people who share an interest in BDSM.
  • Black Garden; pansexual BDSM group w/ weekly get togethers. bi monthly rope suspension 'shows', regular club nights, irregular private play parties, see link and calendar for details
  • Purgatory; bi-monthly fetish party, with rotating themes
  • Tradesmen, Inc; men's group, P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte NC 28204.
  • Tradesman, Inc; P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte, NC 28204
  • Raleigh-Durham: Safe, Sane, Consensual Network (SSCN); SSCN is a not-for-profit BDSM organization dedicated to providing education, support, and a social network for its contributors in a safe, responsible, and discretion-conscious environment.
  • Wilmington: Domme Beach; femdom (and admirers!) social group.
  • WHIP
  • WINK: private alternative lifestyle group in southeastern North Carolina for Adults who practice SSC bdsm; for discussion, education, support and socializing.

    North Dakota

  • Red River Lifestylers: email WolfsOwn@cableone.net for info
  • West Central Minnesota/Southeast North Dakota: WCMN Power Exchange

    Ohio

  • Ohio Leather Festival
  • Fightclub Ohio
  • PEER-Group: (formerly PEP-Ohio), email contact@BDSM-PEERGroup.com
  • Akron: Purple Rose Society; meets on the 2nd and 4th Saturday of every month, at their own playspace/dungeon
  • Bowling Green: Bowling Green Kink Society; pansexual munch group
  • Cincinnati: MAsT ( Masters And slaves Together), Cincinnati Chapter, P.O Box 6452 Florence, KY 41022 Phone: 606-283-2731, Email: MAsTCinti@aol.com
  • CincyMunch
  • Cleveland: SMART
  • SMART OhioFemSub Special Interest Group: social and support group for female submissives in Northeast Ohio
  • The Edge Dungeon; Female submissive support group- Precious Jewels as well as a Dominant female support & friendship group - Orchid Blossoms.
  • Ohio Lesbian BDSM
  • B.E.A.T. Productions: sponsors Monthly munches and Midweek munches in the greater Cleveland area.
  • Columbus: Adventures In Sexuality; pansexual social group
  • Briar Rose; women's group, P.O. Box 16235, Columbus, OH 43216
  • CORDs; support D/S group.
  • The Forum; open D/S lifestyle group
  • NLA Columbus; National Leather Assoication Columbus, PO Box 2763, Columbus, Ohio, 43216 Phone: (614) 898-6266
  • Southern Ohio Resource & Educational group (SORE): pansexual social and educational group
  • Dayton: Dayton BDSM Support Group
  • S.A.F.E of Dayton
  • Sterling Shadow Club; pansexual support group
  • Toledo: Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
  • Power and Trust
  • Youngstown: Mahoning Valley Munch

    Oklahoma

  • Oklahoma City: OPEP; Oklahoma People's Exchanging Power--pansexual , panfetish BDSM group.
  • NLA-OKC
  • Tribal Fire
  • Tulsa: Tulsa Dungeon Society; munches and play parties
  • Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association; T.U.L.S.A. is a place for people interested in leather, uniform and levi lifestyles to meet and socialize.

    Oregon

  • Eugene: Women in Charge Ore; Femdom discussion group
  • Portland: Bad Girls; A social and educational bdsm group for women.
  • Blackout Leather Productions
  • Chaps; men's group
  • KATS; Kidz & Adultz Together Sharing, an Ageplay group. For Adults only. Website with link to mailing list.
  • Lulu's Pervy Playhouse; women's group
  • OKPERL; pansexual support/munch group
  • Oregon Bears; men's group, 625 SW 10th Avenue #153-B, Portland OR 97205.
  • Portland Leather Alliance; PO Box 5161, Portland, OR 97208 Phone: (503) 727-3148
  • Portland Leathermen; c/o Blake Walker, 5418 N. Amherst St., Portland OR 97203.
  • Portland Munches
  • Rose City Discussion Club
  • MAsT: Pacific Northwest; Masters and slaves support group for Washington & Oregon
  • Whipper Snappers; for 18-30 yr olds.
  • Salem: Salem Munch

    Pennsylvania

  • Southeast PA: Leather, Bondage & Whips
  • Central PA: Central Penn Alternative Lifestylers
  • South Central PA Alternative Lifestyles; includes Altoona, State College, Lewistown, Huntingdon and surrounding areas.
  • The Poconos: Pocono's Merry Munch
  • Erie: Erie Power Exchange; email KS for info.
  • Lake Erie Dungeon Society
  • Greensburg: The Alpha Group; support and education group based in Westmoreland county.
  • Hazleton: munch group in development, contact Mistress Dawn.
  • Indiana: Female Supremacy; P.O. Box 1048, Indiana PA 15701
  • Lancaster: Alternative Expressions ; Pansexual online/rl support/social organization based in south central Pennsylvania. Holds monthly munches and socials/parties.
  • Morrisville: PEP New Brunswick; P.O. Box 812, Morrisville, PA 19067 Phone: (215)552-8155
  • Philadelphia: Dark Sanctuary; pansexual couple's BDSM group.
  • Alfie's Social
  • Black Phoenix; dungeon, hosts demos and parties as well.
  • Club FEM Philly
  • Behind the Scenes; private pansexual BDSM & alternative lifestyles organization. (Apparently closed now, but trying to re-open)
  • Defender's Philadelphia: catholic gay/lesbian leather group
  • The Gate Munch
  • Obzine; free monthly alternative newspaper, also holds parties for different lifestyles, including BDSM.
  • Female Trouble; women's group, P.O. Box 2284, Philadelphia, PA 19103-0284
  • PAP; monthly member-only play parties, email papmeeting@hotmail.com for details
  • PAST; femdom munch group, email for info
  • Philadelphia Bondage Club; men's group, P.O. Box 40602, Philadelphia PA 19107. Email: philabc@aol.com
  • Philiadelphia Dungeon Society
  • MAsT Philladelphia
  • Philladelphia TNG; The Next Generation is for Kinksters in the age range of 18-35.
  • The Tannery: private BDSM club
  • Pocono Warriors; men's group, P.O. Box 54138, Philadelphia, PA 19105
  • Tribes; femdom private play & meeting group
  • Pittsburgh: PLAN; Pittsburgh Leather Archives for Newcomers
  • BurghMunch; pansexual munch group
  • BDSM Pittsburgh: MSN Group, provides information about local Pgh groups, parties, munches, etc.
  • Burghermunch: another pansexual munch group
  • Pittsburgh Bondage Club; P.O. Box 8033, Pittsburgh PA 15216.
  • Three Rivers Munch; pansexual fetish group with meetings the 2nd Monday of the month.
  • Tri-State Couples Club; Suite 258 20120-Rte 19, Cranberry Township, Pa 16066 Email: geotscc@sgi.net
  • Cranberry Meet & Greet; meets once a month, email darkchyldesgirl@hotmail.com for info.
  • Bartonsville (The Poconos): Masquerade; semi-annual pansexual couples' fetish weekend
  • Scranton: NE PA Leathermen; PO Box 1492, Scranton, PA 18501

    Rhode Island

  • Providence: Aces; P.O. Box 261, Annex Station, Providence RI 02901.
  • Hathor's Garden; weekly club fetish night
  • RI Enforcers: leather group for gay men, bi people, TGs and lesbians, dedicated to being a brotherhood/sisterhood in leather and raising funds for local AIDS charities.

    South Carolina

  • Charleston: 3D Munch Group; discussion list & munch group
  • ChaSM; Education, Parties, SIGs, Social events & discussion list.
  • Slaves Teaching Slaves; education & support group with RL meetings.
  • Par-BDSM; discussion list for those challenged with the problems of having children & BDSM in their lives.
  • Clemson: BDSM on Clemson's Campus; VERY brand-new group forming--help get it off the ground!
  • Columbia: This Thing That We Do; a pansexual BDSM support and education group serving Columbia, SC and the surrounding area. Subscribe to the e-mail list or e-mail T3WD@hotmail.com
  • BDSM at the University of South Carolina ; pansexual bdsm discussion group
  • Greenville: LOCK
  • KEY
  • LASH (Lifestyle-Associated Safe Haven); informal, invitation only social group. Write here for info.
  • Greenwood County: Comp'ny Good Haven; a safe place for folks of Greenwood County, S.C., and the surrounding area, who share a common interest BDSM to come together to share information and ideas.
  • Myrtle Beach: Myrtle Beach Kink

    South Dakota

    Tennessee

  • Tennessee Femdom - malesub
  • Central TN: Central TN Spankers; email traynedman@traynedman.com for info.
  • Chattanooga: The Chattanooga Exchange
  • St. Bethlehem: PEP Tennessee; P O Box 174, St. Bethlehem, TN 37155
  • Knoxville: Smoky Mountain Power Exchange
  • Memphis: Memphis Links
  • The Memphis Munch
  • Impact
  • Memphis Power Exchange
  • Nashville: Nashville Dungeon Society; contact: Jamese@bellsouth.net
  • NLA Nashville
  • Nashville Alternative Lifestyle Group; pansexual munch group, meets twice a month. Contact dellicate@hotmail.com, zidestiz@aol.com, or munch@nla-nashville.org for more info.
  • GrownUps; GrownUps is a pansexual group with online chat and message boards, Offline events, Dinners, Gathers, and munches for a mix of alternative lifestyles. Eventsare designed for BDSMers, some for swingers, and sometimes we cross-associate, when social is the focus, not playstyles. (such as Dinners out) We host Swing 101 happy hours, BDSM 101 happy hours, and Lifestyle training workshops.
  • The Mark; private meeting facility and interaction space.

    Texas

  • Wykid Rose; resource BDSM site for Texas and Oklahoma.
  • Austin: The Group With No Name
  • Austin Crack Addicts; NO, not that kind! This group is for whip enthusiasts!
  • Austin SM; social munch
  • Austin subCulture; a submissive support group. Email ascmic@yahoo.com for info.
  • Bound By Desire; women's group
  • NLA Austin
  • Central Texas-TNG; pansexual support /discussion /educational/social group for people age 18-35 who are into or interested in BDSM.
  • SAADE (School for Austin Area Dominants Education); discussion/educational group
  • Voyagers; a group for the newcomers to the lifestyle
  • Beaumont: BDSM_Beaumont_TX; BDSM_Beaumont_TX is for anybody interested in BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sado-masochism) in Southeast Texas and Southwest Louisiana (Golden Triangle, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Orange, Jasper, Lake Charles, Livingston, Houston). Learn about local happenings and the local scene!
  • Bryan/College Station: The Jacobin Society; a pansexual social, educational and support group.
  • Beaumont: K. Inc; private club for BDSM enthusiasts in southwest Texas and southeast Louisiana. Visit the site or contact by email.
  • Dallas: Dallas BDSM; good source of bdsm info for the Dallas area.
  • The Sanctuary for Lifestyle Arts; dungeon facility
  • Bottoms Up; pansexual munches & play parties
  • The Bound Rose Society; pansexual BDSM group, also hosts a "Women's Night Out"
  • Different Strokes; email: board@differentstrokes.org
  • Fourth Fridays; bdsm happy hour, 4th Friday of every month
  • Flying W's; women's group, P O Box 345485, Dallas, TX 75234
  • Knot Just Leather: munch and playparty group
  • NLA-Dallas; P.O. Box 7597, Dallas TX 75209
  • PEP-Dallas; Phone: (214) 504-8899 Email: dallaspep@hotmail.com
  • Southern Room Munch; monthly social group
  • WICK'D: Women In Control of Kink--Dallas; femdom and male sub group, meets 2nd saturday of every month.
  • DFW Metro: Cruel Intentions; for the people who want to play rougher, louder, or closer to the edge.
  • El Paso: Le Courtesan; holds fetish socials and parties every two months.
  • El Paso Coffee Munch; email elpasomunch-owner@yahoogroups.com for info
  • El Paso Society
  • Southwest Texas and Southern New Mexico BDSM-Lifestyle Group
  • Houston: Club Fem
  • Crystal Rose Society; seminars, discussions and play parties
  • Eden Social Club; private social & party club
  • Eros; Erotic Rose Society
  • Life after the Cross: monthly group discussion
  • Houston People Exchanging Power
  • NLA-Houston: P.O. Box 66553, Houston TX 77266
  • Third Friday: dinner events, with a playful evening afterwards
  • McAllen-Brownsville-Harlingen area: Rio Grande Munch; email SirHam@aol.com for information or call (956)686-6436
  • Pasadena: Gulf Coast Power Exchange Group
  • Rio Grande Valley: Southern Jade; email southern74@xanadu2.net
  • San Antonio: San Antonio S/Munch
  • Darkest Desires; pan-fetish, pansexual social & support group
  • Fit to be Tied; rope bondage group
  • SA Doms; Dominant discussion group
  • SASSY; San Antonio Spanking Society
  • San Antonio subs; submissive discussion group
  • Tyler/Longview: Tyler/Longview BDSM
  • Tyler BDSM
  • Waco: Whips and Chains of Texas; pansexual social group, hosts munches and private parties.
  • West Texas: Permian Basin BDSM
  • Wichita Falls: Wichita Falls BDSM; This list provides announcements for local events in the area of Wichita Falls, Texas. Pansexual, all orientations welcome.

    Utah

  • Salt Lake City:
  • The Path; friendly pansexual group that delivers organised "how to" BDSM lectures and classes
  • Utah Power Exchange (UPEX); pansexual r/t group
  • Wasatch Leathermen; men's group, P.O. Box 1311, Salt Lake City, UT 84110

    Vermont

  • Brattleboro/Keene NH: Darkstoneds; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
  • Rose & Thorn Northern Vermont BDSM Parties; This is a friendly gathering of people who are active in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. This is an opportunity to meet friends (and singles) who are on the same page. This is NOT a "play" party but an opportunity to build a community of like-minded people.
  • Vermont Society of Kink; holds a Soiree the First Friday of each month as well as a popular online discussion group.

    Virginia

  • Arlington: Black Rose; a pansexual educational, support, and social group.
  • Charlottesville: CUFF
  • Blacksburg Munch; email for info
  • NoVA Munch; Northern Virginia Munches, email for info
  • Hampton Roads: Crimson Phoenix; pansexual support & education group
  • Richmond: Release
  • Tidewater: The Power Exchange
  • VA Dommes and male subs; Femdom-malesub group, holds monthly luncheons.
  • Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination
  • Tidewater Pride; support group with play parties, chats, munches and demo's every month.

    Washington

  • Bellingham: The Triskeli Guild
  • Mountlake Terrace: North End Munch
  • Olympia: Olympia Leather/SM Group; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
  • South Sound SM Leatherfolk; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
  • Seattle: C-Space Educational Forum; P.O. Box 28021, Seattle WA 98118.
  • The Edge Forum
  • Evergreen Leather Events; pansexual BDSM conferences
  • Kinky Couples; 65 Southcenter Mall, Seattle, WA 98188
  • Knights of Malta Jet Chapter; P.O. Box 21052, Seattle WA 98111.
  • Northwest Bears; men's group
  • Northwest Bondage Club; 1122 E. Pike Street #1212, Seattle WA 98122.
  • Northwest Leather Goddesses; 1122 E. Pike Street, #687, Seattle WA 98122.
  • Outer Limits; women's group, P.O. Box 22805, Seattle, WA 98122
  • The Men's Welcoming Committee
  • Renegade Bears; men's group
  • Seatac Femdom; for Femdom's and their submissives
  • Seattle Femme Domme society: holds munches, invitation-only workshops. Contact ms_thorn7@yahoo.com or dosmtrs@yahoo.com
  • Seattle Men in Leather
  • Seattle Munch
  • Sisters in Slavery; sub fem group
  • Sisters of Sin (SOS)
  • Southend Social Club; holds munches in Auburn and Tacoma
  • Center For Sex Positive Culture; community center, has men's, women's, and pansexual events
  • The Women's Welcoming Committee
  • Spokane: SPeX & Co. BDSM; pansexual BDSM munches
  • Spokane BDSM
  • Tacoma: Tacoma Munch; email Petpeekin@aol.com for info.
  • Townsend: New World Rubbermen; 1602 Lincoln, Townsend WA 98368.
  • Tri-Cities: F.R.E.E; Five Rivers Energy Exchange, pansexual organization that encompasses all facets of the BDSM lifestyle as well as other alternative lifestyles offering munches, seminars, and workshops.
  • MAsT: Pacific Northwest; Masters and slaves support group for Washington & Oregon
  • Wenatchee: BDSM In Wenatchee; new group forming.
  • Vancouver USA Munch

    Washington D.C.

  • Black Rose; PO Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210-1161. Phone: (202) 686-5880
  • Bound: fetish, Goth, Industrial club, light BDSM play and lots of fetish gear and vendors. Locations in DC and Baltimore, home base is in DC.
  • Club Salo: fetish event for gays and lesbians (and those that like to play with them!)
  • The Crucible: BDSM nightclub, email or call 202-310-2100
  • DC Spanking; pansexual email list
  • Defenders; Catholic Leather Group, P O Box 33098, Washington, DC 20033
  • First of the Month Munch; email for info.
  • The Men of Discipline; PO Box 21090, Washington, DC 20009
  • PEP-Washington DC; P.O. Box 1160, Arlington VA 22210
  • The Power Exchange
  • The Resource Pool; education and discussion group for the DC, VA, and MD area. Also holds workshops.
  • SIGMA; men's leather/bdsm/bondage social group, call (202)728-7589 for the Hotline, or email Sigmadc@aol.com for more info.

    West Virginia

  • West Virginia Femdom: NEW, so new that you can still smell the paint, Femdom-oriented support group just trying to get off the ground.
  • Beckley: SMACK; for individuals in the Beckley, WV and surrounding areas who have a sincere interest in BD, D/s, and/or M/s relationships.
  • Clarksburgh/Bridgeport: WELTS; pansexual munch & support group
  • Glengary: WHIP; educational and social pansexual leather group
  • Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
  • Weirton: Tri State Munch; pansexual support & social group
  • Wheeling: WV Meet and greet, email bbw4urcmnd@aol.com for info.

    Wisconsin

  • Spank Festival; annual outdoors BDSM festival.
  • Eau Claire: Chippewa Valley Alternative Lifestyles Support Group
  • Green Bay: N.E.W.D.s. (North Eastern Wisconsin Dom sub) ; pansexual BDSM munch group
  • Kenosha-Racine: Kenosha-Racine munch, email for info.
  • Madison: Satyricon
  • Milwaukee: DAMES; women's group, P O Box 1272, Milwaukee, WI 98122
  • Milwaukee Munch
  • Wausau: Mid State Munch; bdsm/ds support group with no restrictions as regards race, creed, sexual orientation or alternative lifestyle.

    Wyoming

  • Cheyenne: Cheyenne BDSM Munch Club

    Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of geosites and yahoo free pages we apologize for the inconvenience we will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.

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