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 If I become interested in someone, and they don't have a web cam, I let them know that will hinder any progress in our D/s relationship. There is just no way I am going to get emotionally involved with someone and then find out they aren't who they say they are. Besides, I have met hundreds of people that are more than willing to just turn it on so I can watch their facial movements as we speak. If a particular person is absolutely dead set against it, no worries. There are a million people out there with web cams.  If I become interested in someone, and they don't have a web cam, I let them know that will hinder any progress in our D/s relationship. There is just no way I am going to get emotionally involved with someone and then find out they aren't who they say they are. Besides, I have met hundreds of people that are more than willing to just turn it on so I can watch their facial movements as we speak. If a particular person is absolutely dead set against it, no worries. There are a million people out there with web cams. 
  
-There have been a  very slim few that have scened ​with me on cam, usually they also watch me as well, but I am kind of picky. I know that I suddenly sound like a webcam snob, or shallow, or what not. I've just had some bad times with liars and cheats and fakes. I'm done with that!!! ​+There have been a  very slim few that have scene'​d ​with me on cam, usually they also watch me as well, but I am kind of picky. I know that I suddenly sound like a webcam snob, or shallow, or what not. I've just had some bad times with liars and cheats and fakes. I'm done with that!!! ​
  
 **Quiet a few in online Femdom world also have this idea that web cams are  somehow going to expose your session to the world or something?​** **Quiet a few in online Femdom world also have this idea that web cams are  somehow going to expose your session to the world or something?​**
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 (Also, if I may, the biggest PRO to cam sessions is in the truest essence of BDSM - power exchange in a safe, sane and consensual way. If a submissive male finds themselves in a situation or task that they feel may be unsafe or a hard limit, in an online situation they may simply say that. If the Dominant in question is unable or unwilling to listen to and/or address their concerns, then the submissive also has they ability to '​switch off' the camera, thereby ending the session and the perceived danger we have an excellent resource page with more info called [[Dating red flags]] if your in doubt). ​ (Also, if I may, the biggest PRO to cam sessions is in the truest essence of BDSM - power exchange in a safe, sane and consensual way. If a submissive male finds themselves in a situation or task that they feel may be unsafe or a hard limit, in an online situation they may simply say that. If the Dominant in question is unable or unwilling to listen to and/or address their concerns, then the submissive also has they ability to '​switch off' the camera, thereby ending the session and the perceived danger we have an excellent resource page with more info called [[Dating red flags]] if your in doubt). ​
  
-In real time encounters, we use [[safe words]] for extreme play, as the submissive may not be able to physically stop the encounter. Online, it's much more about trust, desire, and the ability to please. ​+In real time encounters, we use [[safewords]] for extreme play, as the submissive may not be able to physically stop the encounter. Online, it's much more about trust, desire, and the ability to please. ​
  
 **Right so what now ?** **Right so what now ?**
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 The addition of the webcam can add to the humiliation and control factor of online play, including the edginess of being discovered by someone walking in on the scene or participating in it from the other side of the camera. The idea of online D/s is always a bit enthralling because your making him do all these things to himself. He's not even being forced so he's basically humiliating and torturing himself voluntarily. ​ The addition of the webcam can add to the humiliation and control factor of online play, including the edginess of being discovered by someone walking in on the scene or participating in it from the other side of the camera. The idea of online D/s is always a bit enthralling because your making him do all these things to himself. He's not even being forced so he's basically humiliating and torturing himself voluntarily. ​
  
-[[www.icebondage.com]] has some good techniques on self-bondage,​ time-release ideas and the like. Just click on the tabs at the top and then go through the tabs along the side.+
  
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