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 The other reason it’s important to know you’re irresistible is that if you’re to control your man completely, he has to know he can’t resist you, and he has to know that you know he knows.It’s actually necessary to demonstrate this to him, as I demonstrated it to Patrick, and to do so repeatedly throughout your relationship. The other reason it’s important to know you’re irresistible is that if you’re to control your man completely, he has to know he can’t resist you, and he has to know that you know he knows.It’s actually necessary to demonstrate this to him, as I demonstrated it to Patrick, and to do so repeatedly throughout your relationship.
  
-It might not be all that obvious that Patrick was trying to resist me.He certainly made no great show of it, but that’s because if he had, he would have been all the more embarrassed when the inevitable finally overtook him, and he knew from the outset that it would.+It might not be all that obvious that Patrick was trying to resist me.He certainly made no great show of it, but that’s because if he had, he would have been all the more embarrassed when the inevitable finally overtook him, and he knew from the outset that it would.\\
 Patrick was trying not to come for several reasons, all of which I had given him for the purpose of creating resistance that I would defeat.One was that I was going to continue playing with his cock, in its state of sensitivity,​ until he promised to be my love slave.Continued stimulation would be distressing.Being forced to submit and make the promise would be embarrassing in itself, and it would also open up the possibility that I might use his sensitivity again in the future, either coercively as I used it that afternoon, or simply as a toy.He had never before had a lover who was aware of that possibility,​ much less interested in it, and it made him feel terribly vulnerable. Patrick was trying not to come for several reasons, all of which I had given him for the purpose of creating resistance that I would defeat.One was that I was going to continue playing with his cock, in its state of sensitivity,​ until he promised to be my love slave.Continued stimulation would be distressing.Being forced to submit and make the promise would be embarrassing in itself, and it would also open up the possibility that I might use his sensitivity again in the future, either coercively as I used it that afternoon, or simply as a toy.He had never before had a lover who was aware of that possibility,​ much less interested in it, and it made him feel terribly vulnerable.
  
-Another reason for his resistance was that I was going to watch him ejaculate, and that embarrassed him too.Sure, he had come in my pussy a dozen times, but I don’t have eyes there.Sure, he’d had other lovers, and it’s certain that some of his previous lovemaking had included manual stimulation that led to orgasm.Sure,​ it was obvious from my age and skill that during my life I’d witnessed the ejaculations of many men, and many times each.Still, on that afternoon, his emotional reality-the scene as it felt to him-was that he’d been tied up by a curious teenage girl who was going to make him have an orgasm so she could watch him ejaculate.And she would tease him about it afterward.+Another reason for his resistance was that I was going to watch him ejaculate, and that embarrassed him too.Sure, he had come in my pussy a dozen times, but I don’t have eyes there.Sure, he’d had other lovers, and it’s certain that some of his previous lovemaking had included manual stimulation that led to orgasm.Sure,​ it was obvious from my age and skill that during my life I’d witnessed the ejaculations of many men, and many times each.Still, on that afternoon, his emotional reality-the scene as it felt to him-was that he’d been tied up by a curious teenage girl who was going to make him have an orgasm so she could watch him ejaculate.And she would tease him about it afterward.\\
 There was yet another reason for Patrick to resist, and it’s the big one:His orgasm would confirm that what I was doing to him was indeed an irresistible turn-on. It would confirm that he was turned on by the idea of being my love slave, by the fantasy of having to stand before me with his cock sticking out, by the expectation of having me watch him come, by the awareness that I knew how sensitive his cock gets after he comes, by my intention to play with that sensitivity.All these things were running through his mind and, because of what I was saying to him, he knew that I knew. There was yet another reason for Patrick to resist, and it’s the big one:His orgasm would confirm that what I was doing to him was indeed an irresistible turn-on. It would confirm that he was turned on by the idea of being my love slave, by the fantasy of having to stand before me with his cock sticking out, by the expectation of having me watch him come, by the awareness that I knew how sensitive his cock gets after he comes, by my intention to play with that sensitivity.All these things were running through his mind and, because of what I was saying to him, he knew that I knew.
  
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 An understanding of the Loop also enables you to feed it optimally-to say and do all the right things to enhance your lover’s perception that you control his body, that you know his most private thoughts and feelings, that he has no place to hide, that he’s intimately exposed to you in every way.Of course!If you want to create the impression that you know a man’s most private thoughts and feelings, nothing could possible help so much as actually knowing them. An understanding of the Loop also enables you to feed it optimally-to say and do all the right things to enhance your lover’s perception that you control his body, that you know his most private thoughts and feelings, that he has no place to hide, that he’s intimately exposed to you in every way.Of course!If you want to create the impression that you know a man’s most private thoughts and feelings, nothing could possible help so much as actually knowing them.
  
-If that were the whole story of the Loop, its potential would be awesome enough, but there’s more. +If that were the whole story of the Loop, its potential would be awesome enough, but there’s more.\\ 
-First, the Loop has a way of getting burned in-it quickly becomes a man’s habitual mode of arousal.If you press your body against his and kiss him, not only does his cock get hard, but he gets embarrassed by knowing that you can feel it.Without additional prompting he gets further excited by his embarrassment,​ by knowing that you know he’s embarrassed,​ and by imagining what you might do with both his hard cock and his embarrassment.Even your smile, by itself, teases him about the secrets you know and becomes a powerful erotic stimulant.+First, the Loop has a way of getting burned in-it quickly becomes a man’s habitual mode of arousal.If you press your body against his and kiss him, not only does his cock get hard, but he gets embarrassed by knowing that you can feel it.Without additional prompting he gets further excited by his embarrassment,​ by knowing that you know he’s embarrassed,​ and by imagining what you might do with both his hard cock and his embarrassment.Even your smile, by itself, teases him about the secrets you know and becomes a powerful erotic stimulant.\\
 Second, the Loop is addictive.Your lover begins to fantasize, even crave, scenarios in which his loss of control turns out to be especially embarrassing.His fantasies keep him turned on, and his awareness that it’s you who transforms fantasies into reality keeps him turned on to you in particular.As a consequence,​ his need for you is much stronger than it would be in an ordinary relationship.Because he needs you, he wants to please you.And his addiction to the Loop (and to you) can sometimes be made to compete with other, destructive addictions he might have, giving you a degree of leverage in getting them under control. Second, the Loop is addictive.Your lover begins to fantasize, even crave, scenarios in which his loss of control turns out to be especially embarrassing.His fantasies keep him turned on, and his awareness that it’s you who transforms fantasies into reality keeps him turned on to you in particular.As a consequence,​ his need for you is much stronger than it would be in an ordinary relationship.Because he needs you, he wants to please you.And his addiction to the Loop (and to you) can sometimes be made to compete with other, destructive addictions he might have, giving you a degree of leverage in getting them under control.
  
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 At the beginning of their relationships with us, men, too, open up and share their secrets.Love involves an exchange of vulnerabilities,​ and a relationship that doesn’t begin with mutual self-disclosure doesn’t get off the ground.Men, though, are raised to seek mastery over everything they encounter, including their women, so they soon find it necessary to erect barriers against us, hide their vulnerabilities,​ and do what they can to control us.In the process they lose the feeling of being in love, and it’s a great loss. At the beginning of their relationships with us, men, too, open up and share their secrets.Love involves an exchange of vulnerabilities,​ and a relationship that doesn’t begin with mutual self-disclosure doesn’t get off the ground.Men, though, are raised to seek mastery over everything they encounter, including their women, so they soon find it necessary to erect barriers against us, hide their vulnerabilities,​ and do what they can to control us.In the process they lose the feeling of being in love, and it’s a great loss.
  
-(Women who are bitter about being downtrodden will argue that men have done immeasurably more harm to women-stripped us of our humanity to a far greater degree-than they’ve injured themselves.I don’t disagree, but the question doesn’t interest me.Men don’t dominate me; I dominate them.And I do it to the good of both and the injury of neither.One of the thoughts with which I nourished my enthusiasm for writing this book was my conviction that few women who take control of their men will be so stupid as to follow the male pattern of depriving themselves of the closeness that initially made their relationships appealing.)+(Women who are bitter about being downtrodden will argue that men have done immeasurably more harm to women-stripped us of our humanity to a far greater degree-than they’ve injured themselves.I don’t disagree, but the question doesn’t interest me.Men don’t dominate me; I dominate them.And I do it to the good of both and the injury of neither.One of the thoughts with which I nourished my enthusiasm for writing this book was my conviction that few women who take control of their men will be so stupid as to follow the male pattern of depriving themselves of the closeness that initially made their relationships appealing.)\\
 The Loop is a vulnerability that your man has to share with you.Unless he goes to the unlikely extreme of ending your sexual relationship,​ he can’t avoid the Loop; you can make it part of any or every sexual encounter.And once you’ve got him turned on, he can’t refuse to share his feelings; even if he’s as reticent as Patrick, his body will tell you everything.When you comment on what it does, even if only by saying, “Mm-hm,​” he’ll know that you know. The Loop is a vulnerability that your man has to share with you.Unless he goes to the unlikely extreme of ending your sexual relationship,​ he can’t avoid the Loop; you can make it part of any or every sexual encounter.And once you’ve got him turned on, he can’t refuse to share his feelings; even if he’s as reticent as Patrick, his body will tell you everything.When you comment on what it does, even if only by saying, “Mm-hm,​” he’ll know that you know.
  
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