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 ====== Chapter 6 ====== ====== Chapter 6 ======
  
-In which we explore the advantages a man may find in being a woman’s love slave+**In which we explore the advantages a man may find in being a woman’s love slave** 
 If a man doesn’t want to be your love slave, he can avoid it; and if he doesn’t want to be any woman’s love slave, he can avoid that too.In extreme cases, the costs of refusal may be prohibitive,​ but extreme cases are rare.I’ve sexually enslaved a fair number of men, and my friends, among them, have enslaved a large number.Almost every one of those men made a voluntary choice to remain in a relationship where he knew he would be controlled by his partner.They stayed because of what the relationships offered them. If a man doesn’t want to be your love slave, he can avoid it; and if he doesn’t want to be any woman’s love slave, he can avoid that too.In extreme cases, the costs of refusal may be prohibitive,​ but extreme cases are rare.I’ve sexually enslaved a fair number of men, and my friends, among them, have enslaved a large number.Almost every one of those men made a voluntary choice to remain in a relationship where he knew he would be controlled by his partner.They stayed because of what the relationships offered them.
  
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 **Sexual excitement** **Sexual excitement**
  
-The most obvious advantage of sexual slavery is that it’s tremendously exciting. +The most obvious advantage of sexual slavery is that it’s tremendously exciting.\\ 
-After a while, a man in an ordinary relationship becomes sexually bored with his partner and comes to regard lovemaking as more duty than pleasure.If he’s not committed to the relationship,​ he seeks a new and therefore more exciting partner, then repeats the pattern until he makes a commitment before getting bored.When he gets bored with a partner to whom he’s committed, he stops making love.If his libido was weak to begin with, he becomes impotent.More commonly, he delivers brief, mechanical sexual performances devoid of emotion.+After a while, a man in an ordinary relationship becomes sexually bored with his partner and comes to regard lovemaking as more duty than pleasure.If he’s not committed to the relationship,​ he seeks a new and therefore more exciting partner, then repeats the pattern until he makes a commitment before getting bored.When he gets bored with a partner to whom he’s committed, he stops making love.If his libido was weak to begin with, he becomes impotent.More commonly, he delivers brief, mechanical sexual performances devoid of emotion.\\
 Many women blame themselves when this happens.Some blame their partners.In actuality, blame is inappropriate.Men are wired to lose interest in a partner who’s always available.They can’t help it.Fortunately they’re also wired to turn on to the techniques of female domination; they can’t help that either.And the power of these techniques to excite is far greater than the tendency of monogamy to bore.If your man can’t have you whenever he wants, if he gets to experience that yummy little thrill only on your terms, boredom never sets in.He remains always a bit insecure, always eager to please you, always horny for you. Many women blame themselves when this happens.Some blame their partners.In actuality, blame is inappropriate.Men are wired to lose interest in a partner who’s always available.They can’t help it.Fortunately they’re also wired to turn on to the techniques of female domination; they can’t help that either.And the power of these techniques to excite is far greater than the tendency of monogamy to bore.If your man can’t have you whenever he wants, if he gets to experience that yummy little thrill only on your terms, boredom never sets in.He remains always a bit insecure, always eager to please you, always horny for you.
  
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 **Love** **Love**
  
-Like sexual excitement, being in love is a delicious feeling.Men,​ control freaks that the are, rarely seek it; they seek sexual flings instead.Nevertheless men do fall in love early in their relationships and feel a loss when they assert dominion over their partners and the feeling goes away.Eventually a man reaches a point in his life where he becomes aware that he’s no longer in love with the woman he married and, unless he ends or at least risks his marriage, he’s doomed to live out his days without ever experiencing that feeling again.Grim.+Like sexual excitement, being in love is a delicious feeling.Men,​ control freaks that the are, rarely seek it; they seek sexual flings instead.Nevertheless men do fall in love early in their relationships and feel a loss when they assert dominion over their partners and the feeling goes away.Eventually a man reaches a point in his life where he becomes aware that he’s no longer in love with the woman he married and, unless he ends or at least risks his marriage, he’s doomed to live out his days without ever experiencing that feeling again.Grim.\\
 Female domination saves a man from that.A love slave is, first and foremost, in love with his partner, and the feeling doesn’t go away.Many factors contribute to this, among them the same insecurity that keeps him sexually excited, her sharing of his vulnerability with respect to the Loop, and his eidetic recollections of her teasing. Female domination saves a man from that.A love slave is, first and foremost, in love with his partner, and the feeling doesn’t go away.Many factors contribute to this, among them the same insecurity that keeps him sexually excited, her sharing of his vulnerability with respect to the Loop, and his eidetic recollections of her teasing.
  
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 As the relationship matures, he feels obliged to control it.The necessity of confronting his partner as an adversary when they have differences (for that’s how he sees it!) now makes self-disclosure impossible.The enemy might learn something she could use against him.This is war, and he has to win-has to expand and consolidate his control. As the relationship matures, he feels obliged to control it.The necessity of confronting his partner as an adversary when they have differences (for that’s how he sees it!) now makes self-disclosure impossible.The enemy might learn something she could use against him.This is war, and he has to win-has to expand and consolidate his control.
  
-From her point of view, the most appealing aspects of his personality have disappeared behind an impenetrable wall.From his point of view, he’s involved in a relationship recognized as the ultimate in intimacy by his friends, colleagues, church and state, and he’s emotionally isolated.+From her point of view, the most appealing aspects of his personality have disappeared behind an impenetrable wall.From his point of view, he’s involved in a relationship recognized as the ultimate in intimacy by his friends, colleagues, church and state, and he’s emotionally isolated.\\
 Sexual slavery makes it easier for a man to talk openly with his partner about matters of emotional significance.It does this in several ways. Sexual slavery makes it easier for a man to talk openly with his partner about matters of emotional significance.It does this in several ways.
  
-If she uses her sexual power to take control of all aspects of the relationship,​ making whatever decisions there are to be made, he doesn’t have to be ready for battle.There isn’t going to be a battle, so there’s no tactical disadvantage in having a history of intimacy.+If she uses her sexual power to take control of all aspects of the relationship,​ making whatever decisions there are to be made, he doesn’t have to be ready for battle.There isn’t going to be a battle, so there’s no tactical disadvantage in having a history of intimacy.\\
 If she considers his needs in making her decisions-and she would be foolish not to-he’ll learn that it’s in his best interest to let her know what those needs are.He’ll learn to prioritize them honestly as well.Some things matter to him a great deal, others only a little.There are preferences he might insist upon in an ordinary relationship that aren’t his at all, but represent instead what he thinks he owes his family or what he hopes will impress his buddies.If she considers his stated needs in good faith, her decisions will suit him best if he’s been honest with her.Intimate self-disclosure thus becomes a way of getting what he needs and wants. If she considers his needs in making her decisions-and she would be foolish not to-he’ll learn that it’s in his best interest to let her know what those needs are.He’ll learn to prioritize them honestly as well.Some things matter to him a great deal, others only a little.There are preferences he might insist upon in an ordinary relationship that aren’t his at all, but represent instead what he thinks he owes his family or what he hopes will impress his buddies.If she considers his stated needs in good faith, her decisions will suit him best if he’s been honest with her.Intimate self-disclosure thus becomes a way of getting what he needs and wants.
  
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 **Avoidance of performance anxiety** **Avoidance of performance anxiety**
  
-A man in a conventional relationship often falls into the worry that his partner will be horny when he’s not, and that she’ll react unpleasantly if he’s unable to fuck her on demand.This worry kills what little desire he might have had, setting up a loop that can lead to chronic impotence.+A man in a conventional relationship often falls into the worry that his partner will be horny when he’s not, and that she’ll react unpleasantly if he’s unable to fuck her on demand.This worry kills what little desire he might have had, setting up a loop that can lead to chronic impotence.\\
 A love slave doesn’t have that problem-not unless his partner is foolish enough to demand sexual arousal from him.Instead he has the opposite problem-that he’ll be embarrassed by his inability to keep his arousal under control-and that mind-set precludes performance anxiety. A love slave doesn’t have that problem-not unless his partner is foolish enough to demand sexual arousal from him.Instead he has the opposite problem-that he’ll be embarrassed by his inability to keep his arousal under control-and that mind-set precludes performance anxiety.
  
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 Since we always had ropes and webbing at hand, our lovemaking was kinky from the start, and I quickly discovered that once Dave had been drained of come, his cock would go into that wonderful state of sensitivity I’m so fond of.Just as quickly, Dave discovered how much I enjoy playing with that sensitivity,​ and what a tease I am.One evening, a couple of weeks after we had first made love, I tied him down in my usual fashion and wondered aloud whether, if I kept playing with him long enough, he’d get past the sensitivity and come a second time.He told me he wouldn’t, that it would just hurt, and I told him I intended to find out. He pleaded with me not to, so I said that if it was going to be so terrible for him, he should just not let himself come the first time and I’d quit trying after about twenty minutes; but if he came once-and I told him I knew he would-I was going to try for twice.Actually I didn’t expect to be able to make him come twice; I wasn’t even going to make a genuine attempt.I just wanted to show him he couldn’t resist me and then make him squirm long enough so he’d make a serious effort to resist again next time. Since we always had ropes and webbing at hand, our lovemaking was kinky from the start, and I quickly discovered that once Dave had been drained of come, his cock would go into that wonderful state of sensitivity I’m so fond of.Just as quickly, Dave discovered how much I enjoy playing with that sensitivity,​ and what a tease I am.One evening, a couple of weeks after we had first made love, I tied him down in my usual fashion and wondered aloud whether, if I kept playing with him long enough, he’d get past the sensitivity and come a second time.He told me he wouldn’t, that it would just hurt, and I told him I intended to find out. He pleaded with me not to, so I said that if it was going to be so terrible for him, he should just not let himself come the first time and I’d quit trying after about twenty minutes; but if he came once-and I told him I knew he would-I was going to try for twice.Actually I didn’t expect to be able to make him come twice; I wasn’t even going to make a genuine attempt.I just wanted to show him he couldn’t resist me and then make him squirm long enough so he’d make a serious effort to resist again next time.
  
-I used both hands on his cock and occasionally bent down to suck his nipple.Soon he was at the edge of orgasm, looking into my eyes with an expression that begged me to stop. +I used both hands on his cock and occasionally bent down to suck his nipple.Soon he was at the edge of orgasm, looking into my eyes with an expression that begged me to stop.\\ 
-“Georgeann,​ you’re really doing it to me!” +“Georgeann,​ you’re really doing it to me!”\\ 
-I felt his cock stiffen.I was about to say something, but- +I felt his cock stiffen.I was about to say something, but-\\ 
-“Georgeann,​ noooooooo!” +“Georgeann,​ noooooooo!”\\ 
-His hips lifted into the air and the first spurt went flying before he had quite finished his protest.He was still looking into my eyes.I couldn’t look away even to watch my toy. +His hips lifted into the air and the first spurt went flying before he had quite finished his protest.He was still looking into my eyes.I couldn’t look away even to watch my toy.\\ 
-“Georgeann,​ that’s me you’re seeing!O, my!That’s all me!You know me!” +“Georgeann,​ that’s me you’re seeing!O, my!That’s all me!You know me!”\\ 
-It was all happening at once.He said it as he came, and he started to cry as he said it. +It was all happening at once.He said it as he came, and he started to cry as he said it.\\ 
-I started to cry too. +I started to cry too.\\ 
-“It’s okay,” I said. +“It’s okay,” I said.\\ 
-I continued stroking his cock for as long as I knew he really wanted it. +I continued stroking his cock for as long as I knew he really wanted it.\\ 
-I let go. +I let go.\\ 
-“It’s okay,” I repeated. +“It’s okay,” I repeated.\\ 
-Still crying, both of us. +Still crying, both of us.\\ 
-“Beautiful man!”+“Beautiful man!”\\
 I untied him as quickly as I could and we lay together and talked.He told me what I already knew:I had revealed, to Dave and to myself together, the same person he sought to know through his climbing-the real Dave, who had been born, who would die, who held on to life in the form of a little nubbin of rock when holding on was impossible but there was no alternative.By motivating him to resist his sexual responses, I drove a wedge between those aspects of his adult personality that thought they were capable of such resistance, and the real Dave, who wasn’t. I untied him as quickly as I could and we lay together and talked.He told me what I already knew:I had revealed, to Dave and to myself together, the same person he sought to know through his climbing-the real Dave, who had been born, who would die, who held on to life in the form of a little nubbin of rock when holding on was impossible but there was no alternative.By motivating him to resist his sexual responses, I drove a wedge between those aspects of his adult personality that thought they were capable of such resistance, and the real Dave, who wasn’t.
  
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