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 ====== Chapter 8 ====== ====== Chapter 8 ======
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-In which we consider the logistics of bondage +In which we consider the logistics of bondage Comfort, food, drink and drugs**
-Comfort, food, drink and drugs**+
  
-The main reason for tying a man up before subjecting him to sexual stimulation is to keep him from physically resisting you.This presupposes that if you make physical resistance impossible, everything will go as you like.That’s not always the case.Circumstances can inhibit a man’s sexual responses, and sometimes (three hours after his last orgasm, for example) psychological resistance is easy.If everything is conspiring against you, bondage is futile.Postpone your plans until a day when physical resistance is your only potential problem.+The main reason for tying a man up before subjecting him to sexual stimulation is to keep him from physically resisting you.This presupposes that if you make physical resistance impossible, everything will go as you like.That’s not always the case.Circumstances can inhibit a man’s sexual responses, and sometimes (three hours after his last orgasm, for example) psychological resistance is easy.If everything is conspiring against you, bondage is futile.Postpone your plans until a day when physical resistance is your only potential problem.\\
 Before you set about restraining your lover, be sure he’s horny-very horny.He should be comfortable too, not ill nor in pain, and not troubled by allergies that will keep him sneezing or itching.His bladder and rectum should be empty and you should have a reasonable expectation that neither will fill soon. Before you set about restraining your lover, be sure he’s horny-very horny.He should be comfortable too, not ill nor in pain, and not troubled by allergies that will keep him sneezing or itching.His bladder and rectum should be empty and you should have a reasonable expectation that neither will fill soon.
  
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 Besides being an aphrodisiac,​ chocolate is food and chocolate is fuel.If a man is hungry, but a meal will inhibit his responses, a dose of chocolate will relieve his hunger enough so he isn’t distracted, but it won’t fill him up.It will also warm him as it’s metabolized,​ decreasing the likelihood that he’ll be turned off by cold or fear. Besides being an aphrodisiac,​ chocolate is food and chocolate is fuel.If a man is hungry, but a meal will inhibit his responses, a dose of chocolate will relieve his hunger enough so he isn’t distracted, but it won’t fill him up.It will also warm him as it’s metabolized,​ decreasing the likelihood that he’ll be turned off by cold or fear.
  
-An ounce of dark chocolate will make a significant difference in the sexual responsiveness of a man of average size.Two ounces will make a big difference.It’s hard to get someone to eat more than that unless he’s very hungry.+An ounce of dark chocolate will make a significant difference in the sexual responsiveness of a man of average size.Two ounces will make a big difference.It’s hard to get someone to eat more than that unless he’s very hungry.\\
 Cannabis, whether in the form of marijuana, hashish, hash oil, space cakes or whatever, has one major drawback:​it’s illegal in the United States, though less so in some states than others.Despite its illegality, it’s so readily available that its usefulness as an aphrodisiac is worth examining. Cannabis, whether in the form of marijuana, hashish, hash oil, space cakes or whatever, has one major drawback:​it’s illegal in the United States, though less so in some states than others.Despite its illegality, it’s so readily available that its usefulness as an aphrodisiac is worth examining.
  
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 My favorite is tubular nylon webbing.I became acquainted with it when I took up rock climbing, and its suitability for bondage was immediately apparent.It’s like nylon rope, but flat.Then again, it’s different from flat webbing too.Flat webbing is truly flat and isn’t used much in climbing; it’s made into the belts and straps found on knapsacks and heavy-duty dollies.Tubular webbing is shaped like a drinking straw that’s been flattened.It’s softer and more flexible than flat webbing, and it’s readily available in stores that sell climbing gear, as well as by mail. It tends to be colorful and comes in a variety of widths; the most convenient for bondage is one inch.It’s easy to work with, and if tied correctly it’s quite comfortable and doesn’t cut into the skin at all. My favorite is tubular nylon webbing.I became acquainted with it when I took up rock climbing, and its suitability for bondage was immediately apparent.It’s like nylon rope, but flat.Then again, it’s different from flat webbing too.Flat webbing is truly flat and isn’t used much in climbing; it’s made into the belts and straps found on knapsacks and heavy-duty dollies.Tubular webbing is shaped like a drinking straw that’s been flattened.It’s softer and more flexible than flat webbing, and it’s readily available in stores that sell climbing gear, as well as by mail. It tends to be colorful and comes in a variety of widths; the most convenient for bondage is one inch.It’s easy to work with, and if tied correctly it’s quite comfortable and doesn’t cut into the skin at all.
  
-I buy it in twelve-foot lengths. Twelve feet is long for most purposes, but just right for others, and if I have to cut someone out of it in an emergency, I still have a length I can use.When you buy it, it’s cut by being pulled across a red-hot wire. If you have to cut it yourself, it’s a good idea to use a hot knife so that the filaments melt together to prevent unraveling.Use a worthless knife that you’re never going to use for any other purpose, because heating will discolor it and you’ll never get it clean.Alternatively you can cut the webbing with a cold sharp knife or a pair of scissors and either let it unravel or try to seal the frayed end by holding it over a candle or stovetop burner.The end may or may not seal correctly, but it’s sure to release a cloud of noxious gas which will somehow aim itself directly at your nose.I think it’s still worth it; bondage is truly a labor of love.+I buy it in twelve-foot lengths. Twelve feet is long for most purposes, but just right for others, and if I have to cut someone out of it in an emergency, I still have a length I can use.When you buy it, it’s cut by being pulled across a red-hot wire. If you have to cut it yourself, it’s a good idea to use a hot knife so that the filaments melt together to prevent unraveling.Use a worthless knife that you’re never going to use for any other purpose, because heating will discolor it and you’ll never get it clean.Alternatively you can cut the webbing with a cold sharp knife or a pair of scissors and either let it unravel or try to seal the frayed end by holding it over a candle or stovetop burner.The end may or may not seal correctly, but it’s sure to release a cloud of noxious gas which will somehow aim itself directly at your nose.I think it’s still worth it; bondage is truly a labor of love.\\
 If you want to use the sort of material that has to be tied but you don’t know much about knots, get a book on the subject, study it, and practice.Also study the descriptions I’m about to give of my own favorite knots and practice those.Use your own ankles to substitute for your man’s wrists. If you want to use the sort of material that has to be tied but you don’t know much about knots, get a book on the subject, study it, and practice.Also study the descriptions I’m about to give of my own favorite knots and practice those.Use your own ankles to substitute for your man’s wrists.
  
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 If I want to tie a man’s wrists together, I start by tying one of them as if I were going to tie it to the leg of a bed.I run the long end of the webbing back and forth between his wrists in a moderately tight figure eight, then wrap a few loops of webbing around the middle of the figure eight in the third dimension, and finally tie the loose end with a couple of half hitches. If I want to tie a man’s wrists together, I start by tying one of them as if I were going to tie it to the leg of a bed.I run the long end of the webbing back and forth between his wrists in a moderately tight figure eight, then wrap a few loops of webbing around the middle of the figure eight in the third dimension, and finally tie the loose end with a couple of half hitches.
  
-There are alternatives to learning how to tie knots.One is plastic wrap, which sticks to itself so well that you don’t need good knots.Because multiple layers are needed, it’s best tied using techniques that rely on its tendency to cling, and such techniques are easy to improvise.(Quite the opposite of nylon webbing!)Since plastic wrap can’t be reused, you can cut it when you’re done and not feel wasteful; indeed you probably won’t be able to undo it any other way.+There are alternatives to learning how to tie knots.One is [[mummification|plastic wrap]], which sticks to itself so well that you don’t need good knots.Because multiple layers are needed, it’s best tied using techniques that rely on its tendency to cling, and such techniques are easy to improvise.(Quite the opposite of nylon webbing!)Since plastic wrap can’t be reused, you can cut it when you’re done and not feel wasteful; indeed you probably won’t be able to undo it any other way.
  
 Another option is the purchase of ready-made restraints, either at your neighborhood adult boutique or by mail.I don’t use them.First, I don’t need to; I’m proficient with webbing.Second,​ webbing feels natural to me, probably because I handled so much of it during my rock climbing days, while ready-made restraints feel alien and would seem to be intruding into my lovemaking.Third,​ I don’t want to spook a new lover with hardware that’s likely to remind him of that mean dominatrix in the fetish magazines. Another option is the purchase of ready-made restraints, either at your neighborhood adult boutique or by mail.I don’t use them.First, I don’t need to; I’m proficient with webbing.Second,​ webbing feels natural to me, probably because I handled so much of it during my rock climbing days, while ready-made restraints feel alien and would seem to be intruding into my lovemaking.Third,​ I don’t want to spook a new lover with hardware that’s likely to remind him of that mean dominatrix in the fetish magazines.
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