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 +====== BDSM What is Maledom? ======
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 +The world of BDSM has several roles that are played by people. Basically, [[BDSM]] is an acronym for Bondage, Dominance, Submission
 +and Mastery. Some people consider the S and M to be acronyms for [[Sadism and Masochism]],​ while some consider it to be Submission and
 +Mastery. One important role in the realm is the Male dominant, known as the maledom. The maledom basically is a male who plays a dominant role in the relationship.\\
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 +Being Maledom is not a bed or roses. There are several responsibilities that Maledom should keep in mind. For one, because the maledom is the dominant in the relationship,​ it is he who has the controlling aspect in the relationship. Since the Maledom is the controller in the relationship,​ it is his responsibility to ensure that the submissive or slave gets the satisfaction that a submissive or slave can derive from being a slave or submissive in a relationship. ​
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 +**Here are some of the responsibilities of Maledom:**
 +
 +====== Physical Protection and Care ======
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 +This may be the most important type of responsibility that maledom has as regards the submissive or the slave. Being a maledom means that the person should ensure that the submissive or the slave is always safe in a physical manner.\\
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 +Of course, some relationships in BDSM have the discipline and punishment factor, but the dominant should keep in mind that the submissive or slave does not have any injuries inflicted during a discipline or punishment session.\\
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 +Along with this, the dominant should also keep in mind that he is responsible for the general care and protection of the submissive or slave. For example, if the dominant has taken the submissive or slave for a BDSM meet, or even a disco where there are other BDSMers and non lifestyle following members, the dominant should consider it to be his responsibility that the submissive or slave is safe and has a good time.\\
 +
 +====== Mental Protection and Care ======
 +\\
 +Some submissives and slaves are more sentimental and sensitive than others, and even a mild rebuke can have damning effects on their mindsets and psyches. Therefore, it is the dominant'​s responsibilities that the submissive or slave does not undergo unnecessary or unneeded mental stress due to their relationship. Some dominants may also use mental discipline like rebuking, or a talking down to in lieu of physical discipline.\\
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 +====== Mental Satisfaction ======
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 +Any relationship has the satisfaction criteria attached to it.\\
 +There have been several situations where people have undergone depression and other unhealthy aspects due to their non satisfaction with their relationships. As a person who has a greater say in the relationship,​ the dominant should make sure that there are no mental trauma and irritation that the submissive goes through due to their relationship.\\
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 +====== Enhancement of Growth of the Submissive ======
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 +Everyone has their own learning process. Being a submissive does not mean that a person does not or should not have a professional life, or a career or even a personal life beyond the realms of BDSM and the lifestyle. The dominant should therefore ensure that him as well as his submissive has the relevant exposure to the outside world too.\\
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 +====== About the author ======
 +
 +William Morris writes for [[http://​www.Kinkycohorts.com|KinkyCohorts.com]], ​ for alternate lifestylers to meet and interact.(c) CollarNcuffs.com
  
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