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 Going back to that ‘jumping too quickly’ and ‘needing to belong to someone’ thing, let’s expand a bit. Going back to that ‘jumping too quickly’ and ‘needing to belong to someone’ thing, let’s expand a bit.
 You’ve studied, learned about yourself, and talked to others in the lifestyle. ​ Now you’re ready to find a partner, so you start actively looking. ​ Decide what you DO and DO NOT want in a partner. ​ Both are equally important. You’ve studied, learned about yourself, and talked to others in the lifestyle. ​ Now you’re ready to find a partner, so you start actively looking. ​ Decide what you DO and DO NOT want in a partner. ​ Both are equally important.
-Once you find someone you share an interest with, discover your compatibility. ​ It’s very important to discuss all areas and aspects of the life and type of relationship you might be sharing with your prospective partner. ​ It’s important to know where they stand on the D/s scheme of things. ​ Some of the things you might wish to discuss include, but are not limited to:  Dynamics of the relationship,​ expectations,​ punishment, types of play, limits, safety (including safe sex), safe words, health (mental & physical), etc.+Once you find someone you share an interest with, discover your compatibility. ​ It’s very important to discuss all areas and aspects of the life and type of relationship you might be sharing with your prospective partner. ​ It’s important to know where they stand on the D/s scheme of things. ​ Some of the things you might wish to discuss include, but are not limited to:  Dynamics of the relationship,​ expectations,​ punishment, types of play, limits, ​[[Dating red flags|safety]] (including ​[[Safe sex practices|safe sex]]), [[safewords]], health (mental & physical), etc. We have many of these mentioned resources articles available on CollarNcuffs.com
  
 **However, what about life in general together?** **However, what about life in general together?**
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