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What is studyBDSM

studyBDSM is an online cyber Adult learning environment to 'support' your learning and knowledge of Femdom BDSM topics and practices to work in conjunction with our already freely available resource section and our Community Femdom forum at CollarNcuffs

This section of CollarNcuffs.com was built to serve the purposes of a readily expanding need for Femdom resources and education for those wanting to explore the world of Female Domination via Internet in either a real time experience, or cyber domination and submission training online.

With the introduction of the Internet it has opened the doors to many seeking or exploring their own personal sexually. More and more, adults are discovering they have an interest in Femdom but are unable to obtain the skills and information they needed to incorporate Femdom into their own life.

Due to the nature of dominance and submissive training you don't just want to jump into a scene without knowing more about it. BDSM is dangerous especially with someone who doesn't know anything about it and some one could get seriously hurt if you don't know what you are doing. And yes! to answer your question there have been deaths linked to BDSM activities because proper precautions were not taken. This lifestyle is far more intimate and intimidating then most people ever realize. That's why most people don't get involved because they realize it is just too much for them to handle. Shyness, cost, or distance issues can also often impact on the ability to get to training centers [in person] to obtain much needed skills and resources. Lets face it Cities are bigger, traffic is bad, and we are busier with families and work pursuits than ever before. In this economic climate cost is also increasingly a limiting factor. Pre Internet that used to mean you couldn't learn and become skilled at Femdom BDSM or what ever your kink interest is.

Some in there journey into the BDSM Femdom alternative lifestyle now turn to the Internet for the answers, as it now almost available in every home. Most try to absorb information wherever they can find it. Often the endless Google searches yield little or nothing but porn, or you realize BDSM training was far more complicated then you ever thought it was, or your not quite sure if your paying for a training course that has the content your after. We know there is a lot of information surrounding the Kinky and Femdom lifestyle and even more confusion. Everybody has their opinion. Some people agree on certain subjects others don't. It's hard to tell what's what. Oh there are a few sites around that will give you tiny bits of the puzzle, here and there. But we found NOTHING that would show a complete beginner what they needed to know on the kinky lifestyle.

Our goal at CollarNcuffs.com & studyBDSM.com is to simplify this growing need and make Femdom education, resources and ' Femdom how to' more readily available, all on one site for those that require it. Electronic communication is the way of the future, so we have embraced it and all it has to offer. We ALL can use online activities to deepen our understanding by sharing our ideas with others at much greater distances–others with whom we would not have been able to communicate previously. While we here at studyBDSM would hope that we would never lose sight of the tremendous value of being in a classroom situation or Femdom study/ learning/ skills center, the Internet is providing us with ways and alternative measures of sharing ideas globally and of maintaining contacts (internationally as well as locally) If you would like to explore the world of Female dominance and male submissive / slave relationships at a closer level we may just have your answer with one of our Femdom online skills or entertainment programs; programs that are convenient , free and accessible for adults interested in Femdom pursuits at a beginners or intermediate level.

All programs are on located on CollarNcuffs.com contained within specially prepared private group settings, ran in a friendly relaxed manor, you will never need to leave the site. All programs are totally free with no hidden costs to attend, as is all of CollarNcuffs.com. Thats right not a cent to pay.

  • Every thing is free at CNC.

CollarNcuffs.com believes Femdom education and informational resources shouldn't come at a financial cost. We don't claim to have all the answers but we can make your journey in D/s an easier one.

  • Enjoy the site and all it has to offer!

PROGRAMS

Emerging Domme Newbie 101

So your interested in Femdom but have no idea how to put your dream into motion? In this interactive program we will discuss what you personally want from BDSM, Understanding Femdom practices. How to plan your first scene - We will share some the personal and intimate experiences of how we have incorporated Female Domination into our relationships. Any Femdom (a female dominant) at the beginning of her being involved in BDSM activities does face some problems which prevent her from getting pleasure of what she is doing. Actually any dominant can have her own problems as people differ and have their own psychological peculiarities. However, there are some problems common for any Femdom, such as: fear of not being up to stereotypes, lack of self-confidence and lack of skill in scenario planning. The information provided in this interactive program will let you know more about these problems and the ways these problems can be solved.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

Help my Husband wants me to be his Mistress!

Does this sound a little like your situation?

“Your partner has approached you with a request. You know it is important you see it means a great deal to him, but you have no idea what it could be. He is flushed, excited, nervous, and a little tentative to talk to you. Clearly this is very important to him and most likely then, to you! Then he blurts it out. “I want you to be my Mistress”.

He wants to serve you as a “slave” forever. The words alone, “Mistress” and “slave”, dominance and submission, maybe ran chills up and down your spine. They conjure up images of dungeons, chains, racks, and whips�of weak, pathetic men getting whipped and tortured by a cold-hearted, leather-clad bitch with whips and thigh high boots.

Perhaps you have discussed this sort of thing before, perhaps you have even taken on roles during sex play, or it could even hit you from the blue. Your reaction can range from, I'm repulsed, isn't this a little weird, your interest maybe piqued for some kinky fun but the hell do you do this? To you've always wanted a slave! Chances are, your reaction is somewhere towards the more conservative extreme. In fact, if you've always been waiting for a man to be your 24 / 7 slave, this program probably isn't for you [although it still may shed a little alternative light on your approach]. This program is targeted to the new Domme just starting out on her journey; the woman who would had never considered her partner to be her submissive.

The quest for a fulfilling Femdom relationship is a journey of many stages. At each level, the next steps seem impossible and unattainable. All you have to do is, with no training or preparation; step into role culture has taught you is wrong. You have to deal with his male fantasy. Even though he is the one who wants you to do this, you need to lead him to a place neither of your know exists. When you do that, you will then have to maintain it.

We can understand just how you are feeling, overwhelmed at not knowing where to start out! But you can do it, if you wish to pursue this further, and you can enjoy the process. It is possible to travel together to places of which you may never have dreamed existed when you know the steps. We can help you with the steps in your journey towards a Femdom relationship. Such as planning your first scene and more. What we have tried to present here in this program is a combination of the basic psychological aspects and the basic physical skills and knowledge needed for a Femdom love style in a user-friendly format. We hope that as you finish this program one of the things you have come away with is a stronger sense of the personal power and eroticism you carry inside of you, That power is just waiting to be tapped into and let out.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

Cyber Entertainment Programs

A Taste of cyber submission for single males

You've always wanted to try an online Mistress to submit to. But how do you find one, and what exactly happens when you do?! This two week course will introduce you the world of cyber submission, giving a tantalizing taste of submitting to not one, but two, beautiful and formidable Dommes and providing some basic practical skills that will help you in your search. Light educational content

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

A Taste of cyber submission for partnered males

You've always wanted to try an online Mistress to submit to. What exactly happens when you do?! This two week program will introduce you the world of cyber submission, giving a tantalizing taste of submitting to not one, but two, beautiful and formidable Dommes in a safe non judgmental environment.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

Programs Under development

Finding your Mistress (both online and realtime)

We all face problems in our search for a BDSM partner. It's the ultimate irony that at the same time male subs bemoan their single fate in chat rooms, Many female dominant who simply cannot find a good sub. Something is obviously going very wrong, somewhere!
We will discuss what you personally want from Femdom, what dominants want - and you want from a dominant. We will explore where to find dominants, how to get yourself noticed by them, how to initiate contact with them, and ways to deal with the stresses of searching.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: TBA

How to Play Online - for submissives

For many of us real time kinky play is not a possibility, for many reasons. So we must fulfill our kinky needs online. Lucky then, that cyber play is so much fun! But how do you get started without making a total idiot of yourself?! This course explores the realms of cyber kink and equips you with the skills and confidence to become an active player in forums and chatrooms. We will discuss ways find and choose your cyber partners (including ways to avoid online predators), chatroom etiquette and cyber aftercare - a very important subject for cyber submissives.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

How to Play Online - for dominants

For many of us real time kinky play is not a possibility, for many reasons. So we must fulfill our kinky needs online. Lucky then, that cyber play is so much fun! But how do you get started as an online dominant without making a total idiot of yourself?! This interactive course explores the realms of cyber kink and equips you with the skills and confidence to become an active player in forums and chatrooms. We will discuss ways find and choose your cyber partners (including ways to avoid online predators), chatroom etiquette, cyber aftercare (a very important subject for cyber players) and lots of great ideas for dominating subs online.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

Going Real Time

Sometimes all the fun you have online simply can't fulfill your personal need for real time BDSM. It's like an itch you can't scratch… But how do you actually move into the lifestyle? This program advises you how to locate and contact your local scene, teaches everything you need to know about munches, and provides lots of excellent advice of attending your first BDSM club, workshop or play party. We discuss why all BDSM venues have different rules and etiquette, how to survive and enjoy your first play party, and how to acquire some basic real time skills.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: TBA

Profile Writing for males

one of the questioned we are most asked is how do I attract the attentions of a Dominant Female for either online activities or real time adventures?First, the bad news. In the BDSM Femdom scene, the largest demographic is men who want to submit to women, and the smallest is women interested in dominating men. This means that numerically there is a lot of competition. We can help you stand out with some simple changes to your approach.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
further information and requirements for entry can be found on the studyBDSM tab located at the top of this page
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

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