We all face problems in our search for a BDSM partner. It’s the ultimate irony that at the same time male subs bemoan their single fate in chat rooms, Many female Dominant who simply cannot find a good sub. Something is obviously going very wrong, somewhere!
In the “help me find my Domme” Free eLearning course we will discuss what you personally want from Femdom, what dominants want – and you want from a dominant. We will explore where to find dominants, how to get yourself noticed by them, how to initiate contact with them, and ways to deal with the stresses of searching.
One of the questions we are most asked is how do I attract the attentions of a Dominant Female for either online activities or real time adventures? First, the bad news. In the BDSM Femdom scene, the largest demographic is men who want to submit to women, and the smallest is women interested in dominating men. This means that numerically there is a lot of competition. We can help you stand out with some simple changes to your approach.
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Program Directors:
non profiled: MissBitch, SubSimon, Oz(subhub)
Target audiences
- Those having trouble finding a Domme and that want to try something new.
Requirements
- Designed for Male Submissives. Those not male will be removed
Curriculum
- 16 Sections
- 16 Lessons
- 8 Weeks
- Introduction lesson to Help me find my DommeIntroduction How you present yourself in your profiles and contacting a mistress is perhaps the most crucial part of establishing yourself for a Femdom relationship, attracting a potential partner, and being seen as ~ a worthy submissive for a Domme to own, is a process. Just like any process, this program needs to seen through from beginning to end.1
- Lesson 1: Establishing Your PresenceLesson One: Establishing Your Presence Name Choice Choosing A Scene Name What’s Appropriate Why Can’t I Use What I Want?1
- Lesson 2: Establishing Your PresenceLesson Two: Dangers Protecting your identity Using a correct Email address Establishing privacy to safely explore the cyber/online world1
- Lesson 3: Establishing Your PresenceLesson Three: Avatar choices Slashie speak and Caps What’s appropriate Steps to making yourself known Avatar selection Netiquette Capitalizing Names There are a number of things that are pretty much exclusive to the online world. Nothing wrong with learning a lot about this lifestyle online before diving into it with your skin bare to the lash. However, it’s good to be aware that there are a lot of things you learn online that you aren’t going to hear much about in real life.1
- Lesson 4: Establishing Your PresenceLesson Four: Establishing Your Presence What are you? self recognition Knowing what you want What are you seeking, online or real time Roles of submission, where do you fit in Understanding your own personal desires, needs, and requirements. what are you looking for in partner? What kind of personality are you?1
- Lesson 5: Establishing Your PresenceLesson Five: Establishing Your Presence. Profile Do’s and dont’s How to create an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile You have just joined this site and you are excited. There are lots of others like you in this world and suddenly you do not feel quite as alone anymore. You just seen the competition, and maybe panic has set in.1
- Lesson 6: Establishing Your PresenceLesson Six: Establishing Your Presence Pictures Do’s and Do Not’s1
- Lesson 7: Exploring the world of online DominationLesson Seven: Exploring the world of online Domination. Finding the right Chatroom. Exploring Online Cyber submissio.n Finding The Right Partner What To Expect Exploring Other Online Options1
- Lesson 8: Part One: Communicating effectively with the opposite sex.Lesson Eight: Part One: communicating effectively with the opposite sex. Writing ~ contacting Where to begin / How to communicate effectively with the opposite sex Waiting /she replies what to do /dealing with rejection How to see the RED FLAGS and spot the bad. The signs of an unavailable person, scammer, professional collar collector, money or Pay for play dominant. She replies, what to do and what not to do Where to begin1
- Lesson 9: Part Two Communicating effectively with the opposite sex.Lesson Nine: Part two. communicating effectively with the opposite sex Waiting And Dealing With Rejection Why Don’t They Ever Reply? Poor fellow, you’ve emailed countless Dommes and none of them write back. What is wrong with them? You’ve expressed your willingness to do “anything.” What more could they ask? Really the question is what is wrong with you or at least your presentation of yourself1
- Lesson 10: First Meeting Realities And TransitionsLesson Ten: First Meeting Realities And Transitions. First meeting realities How to date SAFELY online What will you give to get it? What You Can Do Or Practice To Improve Your Odds Of Being A Successful Match. The Art of Flirting For The Social Networker: How To Transition From Online To Real Time1
- Lesson 11: Negotiating the relationshipLesson Eleven: Negotiating the relationship.1
- Lesson 12: Desperate MeasuresLesson Twelve : Desperate Measures: None of this worked? So everything is failing, you can’t find that Domme of your dreams? You evaluated yourself and find your desires and wants in a partner realistic, you’ve contacted hundreds, if not thousands only to be rejected..so what now? Do you just give up?1
- Help: Dealing With StalkersHelp: Dealing With Stalkers. Additional Supporting Articles. Cyber stalking can be as terrifying as physical stalking, but often harder to prove and more difficult to control. The anonymity of the Internet works for the stalker, but there are safety procedures to help1
- Help: The rules of conduct for BDSM world-wide webThe rules of conduct for BDSM world-wide web. Additional supporting Articles. Interactions and Netiquette The rules of conduct for BDSM world wide web If your chosen medium for exploring Femdom is the Internet, the chances are at one time or another you will be drawn into the world of message boards, chat rooms, and online D/s… being as you are at this site, you already have begun experiencing the latter. Like any other culture, the online Femdom community has its own protocols and ‘ethics’ that it follows. These rules of conduct are in addition to, not in place of, basic social skills and graces.1
- Help: A complete guide to seeing a Prodomme .Help: A complete guide to seeing a Prodomme A complete guide to seeking and seeing and proDomme. If you are curious about exploring the world of BDSM and domination, seeing a professional dominatrix, also known as a prodomme, can be an exciting and fulfilling experience. However, it is important to approach this journey with caution and respect. Here is a complete guide to help you navigate the process of seeking and seeing a prodomme.1
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WOW thank you MissB and others. I just got my first Domme. i'm so excited. I'm sure i will be back with many questions . i cant believe i wasted so much time with things that didnt work fo rme