How to ‘s & Techniques, & Guides for Femdom Styled Play

The beginners guide to oral sex

it would be a cause for celebration if we were born with the intuitive set of sexual skills that we all pretend we have. Without stating it outright, our culture—via our parents, the media, and our peers—implies that sex and sexual skills should come naturally, with all but the most advanced techniques being somehow instinctive. You’d never expect someone to hit a perfect tennis serve without lessons and practice or to play a beautiful sonata on an instrument they’ve only touched a couple of times, yet somehow, most of us come to maturity with the expectation that sexual skills will magically develop in the presence of our naked lover, that this lover will likewise experience a spontaneous onset of spectacular proficiency, and that it will all unfurl as smoothly as a movie montage.

Fist Aid 

Most who partake in Femdom (especially the emerging or optimists ) don’t think twice about ‘after play’ or do I have all the ‘medical needs’ I require should an emergency arise. You more than likely can tell me how much lube is left in the bottle/tube but do you know if your cupboards medical supplies are fully stocked?

How to pleasure a woman’s breast

This might seem a strange topic to post in a Femdom site but, it amazes me the amount of men that get this wrong

Melanoma Cautions

Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. When looking for Melanoma it is frequently found on the back – a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of “manipulation”) definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.

Anal play 

Dispelling the myths on Anal Femdom play making it less daunting and less stressful for all concerned. Learning the basics of entry.

CBT

what’s the thrill of CBT ? what’s the dangers of CBT ?

Hair removal 

Hate hair no excuses now. Here is a way for everyone!

Wax play 

Femdom Wax play without burning down the house. Wax play is a form of temperature play practiced in a BDSM context, in which wax from a candle is dripped onto a person’s naked skin, in order to introduce a slight burning sensation to the skin.

Wax melting temperature

Burn the wax not the sub how to get it right first time every time.

Mummification

How too and what to watch out for. mummification is the wrapping the full body in a manner that prevents movement.

Breath play

A starting point. The world of BDSM is a diverse one. One area of it is known as “breath-play.” Breath-play involves the restriction of oxygen to increase erotic play or to intensify an orgasm or sexual experience. This can either be achieved through solo-play  (autoerotic asphyxiation) or through partner play, in which the submissive is the one who’s airflow is restricted.

Capnolagnia

Smoking fetish ideas for scenes. Smoking fetishism (capnolagnia) is a sexual fetish consisting of the fetishization of the smoking of tobacco and marijuana. Among heterosexual men, the fetish is often associated with oral fixations and fellatio

Safe sex practices 

Safe sex practice. Establishing Safe sex is the use of condoms and water based lubricant during anal or vaginal intercourse. Safe sex can: prevent HIV transmission, prevent pregnancy, help prevent most STIs.

Unsafe sex practices 

Unsafe Femdom practices. Safe sex can: prevent HIV transmission, prevent pregnancy, help prevent most STIs.

Condoms 

dedicated to the prevention of AIDS/HIV.

Depersonalization 

Depersonalization, long name, easy to do

Sensual massage 

How to give a great massage.

CBT Ideas

Cock and ball torture ideas, suggestions and hints.

P spot Milking

Locating and Milking the male P spot, hints and tips for success

Prostrate Milking 

Hints and tips: Key elements of a successful prostate massage

How to Give an Enema for a BDSM Femdom Anal Scene

Preparing for the Enema: Essential Steps and Safety Considerations

tease, Humiliate 

Want your boy begging for more? ideas and suggestions to build on. As published by MissBonnie in German Bondage Guide.

Edge play

What is edge play, how the heck do I do it?

Electro play

The basics, hints, tips, scene ideas

Fire play

Make fire not burns

Figging

The art of Ginger root play

Genitorture 

20 CBT techniques, hints and tips

Sexual denial 

The Erotic art sexual denial

Golden Showers

Golden Showers (GS) (also known as Watersports (WS)) is a quite often mentioned and many questions are asked about it, esp. concerning health issues.

*please note: We have many more ideas such as CBT how to videos, resources which are located in Free Femdom Community

Exploring Extreme Edge play

When it comes to BDSM, there is a wide spectrum of practices and preferences that cater to different individuals’ desires and fantasies. One particular aspect of BDSM that often sparks curiosity and controversy is the use of extreme terminology in humiliation play. It is important to note, however, that the use of racist and homophobic language, references to Nazism, or any form of glorification of slavery are abhorrent and completely unacceptable.

Pet Play

Pet play within femdom is a unique form of BDSM role-playing where one partner takes on the role of a pet, such as a dog or cat, while the other assumes the role of the caretaker or Domme. This dynamic explores power, trust, and emotional connection through behaviors like barking, purring, or trotting. It offers escapism, deepens emotional bonds, and enhances intimacy.

The Art and History of Bastinado: A Comprehensive Guide for Beginners

Bastinado, also known as foot whipping, is a form of corporal punishment that has been employed across numerous cultures for centuries. The term “bastinado” derives from the Spanish word “bastón,” meaning “stick” or “cane,” reflecting the primary instrument used in this practice. Historically, bastinado has been a method of discipline and punishment, its applications ranging from judicial penalties to military discipline.

Femdom Play Party Etiquette: A Comprehensive Guide for Newcomers

When attending a Femdom play party, it is crucial to understand the importance of Etiquette.

BDSM Branding: What You Need to Know

BDSM branding is a niche but significant practice within the broader BDSM community. At its core, branding involves marking the skin with a symbol or design, often using heat, to create a permanent or semi-permanent mark. While the concept of branding has historical roots in various cultures as a means of denoting ownership, status, or affiliation, its adoption in BDSM practices carries unique implications and meanings.

Exploring Sexual Degradation in BDSM: Psychology and Practice
Introduction to Sexual Degradation in BDSM

Sexual degradation in BDSM is a nuanced and complex practice that involves consensual activities where one partner may use language, behavior, or scenarios to degrade the other. This practice is rooted in power dynamics, where one partner, often referred to as the dominant, exerts control over the submissive partner. It is crucial to understand that, within the context of BDSM, all actions are consensual and negotiated beforehand to ensure that the experience is safe and enjoyable for everyone involved.

Understanding Dollification: The Art and Psychology of Becoming a Human Doll

Dollification is a unique and often misunderstood practice that involves the transformation of a person into a ‘doll.’ This transformation can be mental, physical, or a combination of both. The roots of dollification can be traced back to various cultural and historical contexts, where dolls have often symbolized ideals of beauty, perfection, and control. Over time, this fascination has evolved into a subculture with its own set of practices and rituals

Exploring Castration Play: Verbal and Physical Dynamics

Castration play, a distinctive niche within the broader BDSM spectrum, revolves around the theme of castration, entailing the imagined or symbolic removal or deactivation of the testicles. This form of play can manifest through various verbal and physical dynamics, each adding unique layers of psychological and emotional intensity. Understanding castration play requires a nuanced comprehension of its intricacies, as well as the socio-cultural implications that accompany such activities.

Pain-Free Ways to Play with Femdom Masochist Male Submissive: Beyond Impact Play

Introduction to Pain-Free Femdom Play: In the diverse and intricate world of BDSM, impact play often takes center stage for many couples exploring dominant and submissive dynamics. However, it is essential to recognize that there are myriad ways to engage in femdom masochist play that do not necessarily involve physical pain. Pain-free BDSM activities offer a unique and equally fulfilling avenue for those interested in exploring dominance and submission (D/s) without the use of impact implements such as paddles, whips, or floggers.

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