USA BDSM Munches
This is a work in progress..it might always be in progress! This is a listing of places, organizations, clubs, etc, all with useful information and where you can find and get involved with your local scene. Listings include both pansexual and exclusive groups.
Note–PLEASE do not send listings of professional dungeons, pro doms, or BDSM-related businesses.This page is simply a guide to where people can meet and get involved.
Helpful hint–I'll list them if you send them, but Yahoo discussion groups, pages on Geocities, Angelfire, etc, have a brief life span due to the growing anti-adult censorship of those web communities. You're better off having your page hosted by an adult friendly (or at least indifferent) provider.
Also, please do not send date-specific listings of anything that'll expire–trying to keep this page a resource for ongoing groups/organizations.
NOTE:Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of Geocities etc, we apologize for the inconvenience. We will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.
National: General Resources
Acme BDSM: no, not what Wile E Coyote did with the Roadrunner! This is a web resource and discussion page for the BDSM community.
Aggressive AIDS Prevention: nonprofit corporation dedicated to raising awareness of HIV/AIDS, encouraging HIV antibody testing, and promoting HIV Negative maintenance through Media.
The BDSM Events Page: lists time-sensitive information on events and a few international listings--very good resource
BDSM Partner Registry: An idea long overdue--an online gift registry for those of us in the lifestyle!
Black Beat Inc: an independent, non-profit, social organization founded by African American members of the D/s, BDSM and Leather community nationwide. Black BEAT strives to cultivate safe, sane, consenting adults (21 years and older) with alternative lifestyle and sexuality interests via culture, education, development, support, and event planning.
Bound: branches in Washington, DC as well as Baltimore MD, Tampa, FL, Richmond, VA, New Haven, CT. (NYC, Chicago, Philadelphia, San Francisco and Seattle by Oct 1998). *European* branches: Reykjavik, Iceland, Stockholm Sweden, and Prague CZ.
BDSM Events: mailing lists of local BDSM events, also has international listings
BDSM Travelers: BDSM Travelers is a directory of friendly, travel-loving people in the BDSM lifestyle who offer each other the gift of hospitality in their homes. Members from around the world offer their hospitality to other members at no charge. These hosts, in turn, are received when they travel.
BDSM Village: an online cyber 'village' & resource center, but supports RL events and workshops as well in various locations.
The Beacon E-Zine: Online bi-monthly newsletter and calendar of BDSM events for the SE US. Covers Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Florida, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina and Tennessee.
Chamber Door; good article/educational resource
Dom sub Lifestyle: online bi-monthly newsletter and international calendar of BDSM events, groups, and group listings.
DS Kiosk Power Exchange Resource Center
The Fetish Alliance: education & support resource
Immediate Family: an Alternative Lifestyle Safehouse/Rescue project with affiliate houses throughout the US, Canada and the UK.
International Deaf Leather; P.O. Box 30286, Columbus OH 43230.
The Fireside Society: network for women and couples into BDSM in NC, SC, VA, and GA
Kink Aware Professionals
The Kinky Lawyer: legal resource page, as it applies to us kinky folk.
Kinky Tax: A kink friendly tax lawyer to help with the non-consential sadism practiced by the IRS.
National Leather Association
International Association of Rubberists
The Kinky Links Directory: I don't list 'professional' Dominants or Dungeons on this page, but this guide is an excellent resource to that part of the scene.
Lifestyle Choices Legal Resources Center: an organization to assist those who live an alternative BDSM lifestyle, whose lifestyle is being made an issue in a court of Law, on the job or
at home.
Romantic Hotels: a directory of Romantic, Adult and Theme Room Hotels in the US and Canada for romantic getaway spots. Decent resource for kinky folks travelling, or for those who arent into the dungeon/play party scene but still want to do something a little different for a scene.
SM Sex--Safely: the STOP
AIDS Project. Targets gay and bisexual men, but this BDSM resource has material
that is appropriate for anyone involved in BDSM/kink practices.
Submissive Women Speak: Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.
Subs For Dommes: The largest BDSM community in the world exclusive to Female Dommes and male/female subs and slaves dedicated to Female Domination. The site is free to all lifestyle Dommes,subs,slaves, switches. It is unique in design and membership includes email, access to all chatrooms, blogs, forums, profiles and every part of the site. The site also offers flash chatrooms, 3D chatrooms and a virtual city.
Sweet Surrender: online adult BDSM education site
AlabamaFemDom-Malesub; play parties, social gatherings, and demonstrations.
Bound for Pleasure; North Alabama PanSexual Group devoted to the education and support of the BDSM Lifestyle.
Birmingham: Birmingham Leather/Fetish Society; A Pansexual lifestyle group promoting Leather solidarity and activism in Central Alabama and around the region.
The Red Chair; adult pan-sexual BDSM education, discussion and social group. Email rdchair@aol.comfor info.
Huntville: NASSA; North Alabama Spanking and Social Alternatives, pansexual support, education, & munch group.
Alabama Daddies/Girls Club(1ADGC); Group dedicated to educating and learning everything that can be shared between consenting adults concerning the Daddy/littlegirl concept.
Binding Ties; personal ad/discussion group, also holds RL munches in the Huntsville, Decatur, & Madison areas.
NAPEX; North Alabama Power Exchange
Montgomery: Central Alabama Power Exchange; pansexual, alternative lifestyle group with particular interests in B D S M and D/s and dedicated to Safe, Sane and Consensual aspects of the lifestyle.
Pelham: Steel City Centurions; men's group, email for info.
Sylacauga: DARE; social group
Tuscaloosa: TuscaloosaALG; Alternative Lifestyles Group located in the Tuscaloosa area. Mainly a BDSM & D/s group, but all are welcome.
Anchorage: The Last Frontier (TLFMC)
Glendale: Arizona PEP; 5821 N. 67th Ave., Suite 103-276, Glendale AZ
Phoenix: Arizona Amazons; women's group, Email: azamazon@juno.com
Arizona Women of Leather
Arizona Girls of Leather
APEX; PO Box 67532, Phoenix, AZ 85082 Phone: 602-415-1123
Transgender Harmony; transgender group
Tucson: Desert Dominion; a pansexual, panfetish educational and social organization.
Tucson Power Exchange; pansexual BDSM and D/s resource for people living in or isiting Tucson, Arizona - lists local groups and munches. Email: tan@pobox.com.
Tucson Center for Submissive Women; helps submissive women accept and honor their submissiveness, offers support and education. Email: tan@pobox.com.
The Next Generation: Arizona; pansexual BDSM & alternative lifestyles group
Different Loving of Arkansas
Alternative Lifestyles Leaders Alliance
Central/Western Arkansas: Bad-Cafe; pansexual BDSM educational, social and support group of individuals interested or involved in the lifestyle.
Fayetteville: North West Arkansas S/M; email nwasm_2000@hotmail.com for info
Whips And Chains of Arkansas; pansexual discussion group in northwest AR
Jonesboro: NorthEast Arkansas Dungeon Society; Adult pansexual group in the NE AR area for those into the bdsm lifestyle to meet and share with others.
Little Rock: Lupercalia, (supposedly being re-formed), Email: Misterbill@att.net
Different Loving in Little Rock; holds a monthly munch as well as play parties.
NLA-Arkansas; P.O. Box 1608, Little Rock AR 72115
Leathermen of Arkansas
Russellville: Bound Pleasures of Arkansas, email
Calendar of BDSM California Events
Southern California Munch Group
The Gathering: Southern California socials
SOCalMunch; SoCalMUNCH covers the following areas: Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, & the Westshores of the Salton Sea.
Northern California BDSM: social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality.
Bakersfield: Bakersfield BDSM Group Munch
Berkeley: Womanlink International; women's group, 2124 Kittredge #257, Berkeley CA 94704.
Central California: Chosen Lifestyle
Canoga Park: MP Bands; P.O. Box 2843, Canoga Park, CA 91306
Chico: Chico BDSM Munch
El Cerrito: La Madrona; femdom couple's group, P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito CA 94530.
Fairfield: Munch, first Sunday of each month, email for info.
Los Angeles: Avatar Club
C.C.Inc; BDSM socials, run by the same people behind Conquest and Fetish X. Also weekly BDSM membership only parties at Lair de Sade
Dualities; discussion and munch group for switches
Eagle LA; Formerly The Gauntlet II, the Eagle L.A. is Los Angeles' hottest Levi/Leather bar. Always upholding the Leather/Uniform/Fetish ethic, with the hottest leathermen in town.
MAsT L.A; A support and discussion group for gay men interested in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship.
Lair de Sade; A private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of BDSM lifestylers. Over 6,700 square feet. multiple buildings, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and basement. 30+ playstations with exquisite BDSM furniture and equipment. Outside patio for socializing and smoking features cast iron patio heaters and a firepit.
LA Pups; social group for all human pups/dogs, Handlers/Trainers/Owners of human pups, or anyone that has an interest in human pups. The group is open to all genders and orientations.
Los Angeles boys of leather; a group of submissives who are in service to the local leather community. The term "leatherboy" can refer to people of any age, gender, appearance or sexual orientation who share a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community.
Los Angeles Girls of Leather; LAgoL is a group focused on providing a welcoming space for leathergirls and to provide service to our local Leather/BDSM community. Leather girls are men and women who find joy in being of service to others. We are slaves, submissives, and bottoms with a feminine heart and include service people of all genders and sexual orientations.
LA Leather Coalition; A pansexual coalition of leather and fetish identified businesses and motorcycle, educational, social and uniform organizations. The LALC facilitates communication and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather/fetish-affiliated community, and promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.
Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women; A women's group devoted to the educational and social well-being of the women's BDSM, leather, and fetish communities. LARAWW welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their sexual orientation or preference. We provide high quality educational programs and information, play parties and social gatherings.
NLA-Los Angeles; 7985 Santa Monica Blvd 109-217, West Hollywood CA 90046
PLAY; A social and educational group for leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality; provides spiritual outreach to the leather/fetish community; fosters leather/fetish understanding within the larger spiritual community. PLAY is open to all adults without regard to gender, age, race, religious/spiritual affiliation or sexual orientation.
Trident International; 1064 Myra Avenue, #32, Los Angeles, CA 90026
The Threshold Society; non-profit social & educational organization
Lower Lake: Alternative Lake County CA; online magazine. Also holds BDSM classes and workshops. Contact: jwolf@usa.com
Marina Del Rey: Threshold; 2554 Lincoln Blvd PMB 1004, Marina Del Rey CA 90291 Phone: (818) 782-1160
Lake County Munch
Lompoc: Lompoc Valley Power Exchange; pansexual munch group, email LVPX-owner@yahoogroups.com for info.
Marysville: Marysville Yubacity Munch group. Email: Sierraflowr@comcast.net
Milpitas: MilPitas PlAyers
Modesto: The Modesto Discussion Group
Monterey: Monterey Bay Kinksters; munches in Monterey & Moss Landing.
Stile di vita; Stile di vita (Italian for 'lifestyle') Supports the Male Dominant/female submissive community in California's South Bay providing an intellectual approach to D/s and M/s lifestyles.
North Bay: Munch, third Sunday of each month, email for info.
Orange County: Under Ground Leather Association; private membership association, but holds discussion meetings open to the general public
Orange County Munch Group: Pansexual BDSM Group
Palo Alto/Sunnyvale: The Munch
Petaluma: North Bay Third Sunday Munch
Redding: munch group for northern CA, meets
the last Friday of each month. Email MDW@charter.net for details.
Riverside: Paddlers of Southern California; PSC is a discussion list & munch group for adults in the Southern California area who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
Sacramento: EroticEdge: BDSM discussion group, especially for newcomers.
FemDommes of Sacramento; open to all submissives and Femdommes
Sacramento Valley Leathercorps; gay men's and women's group
"T"ransitions
San Bernardino: Phoenix Alternative; pansexual BDSM education and social organization.
San Diego: Club X; P. O. Box 3092,
San Diego, CA 92163 Phone: (619) 685-5149 Email: info@clubxsd.org
San Diego Social; meets and greets once a month.
San Fernando Valley Munch
San Francisco: Cogent Warriors; women's group, 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114
Constantines of the Bay Area; men's group
Defenders San Francisco; Catholic leather society
El Cerrito Munch; 3rd monday's, 7 pm at Carrow's Restaurant, 6120 Potrero at San Pablo Ave
The Exiles; P.O. Box 31266, San Francisco CA 94131 Phone: (415)487-5170
Fifteen Association; men's group, P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142
The Forum of San Francisco; coalition of motorcycle and leather clubs
Leathermen's Discussion Group: located at EROS, 2051 Market St., near Church St., San Francisco
Links; 207 Gough Street, #58, San Francisco, CA 94102 Phone: (415) 695-7955 or (415) 703-7159
Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness; BDSM online discussion / munch group for People of Color and the people who like them
; classes, discussion groups, and dungeon parties.
; Lists upcoming events for the mens community along with other information, including an overview of the neighborhood for visitors.
San Francisco Girls of Leather; SFgoL provides a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls; educates the community about leathergirls; supports activities within the leather community. Leathergirls are people with a girl's heart, whose primary self-identity is girl. The girl identity is not limited by bio sex, gender, or sexual orientation.
Service of Mankind Church; P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito, CA 94530 Phone: (510) 232-1369
The Stampede; The Bay Area Human Animal Roleplay Society
Power Exchange Sex Clubs
San Francisco Leather Online; listing of leather clubs and events
Society of Janus; P.O. Box 411523, San Francisco, CA 94141 Email: janus@soj.org
San Jose: Santa Clara County Leather Association, email mssccla2000@leatherspace.com
Edges; play space, also hosts play parties
Leather WISDOM; women's group, P.O. Box 2519, Santa Clara CA 95055.
SM Odyssey; Pansexual organization that holds educational classes every month, Includes the San Jose Munch, mens/women/pansexual discussion groups and Play Parties.
Southern Cross
Santa Clarita: Santa Clarita Munch
Santa Cruz: Santa Crux Munch
Studio City: Shadow Lane
Vacaville/Fairfield: Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch
Vallejo: The Overlook; offers
a monthly event as well as provides event listings in the Northern California area.
Boulder: Boulder County Pervs; social and play party group
Denver: COPE, 1015 S Gaylord St. #200, Denver, CO 80209
Denver Bound; dinner & play group
Defenders-Denver; Catholic leather society, P O Box 3072, Denver, CO 80202
The Denver Harbour; educational, support, & social group.
The Enclave; Alternative lifestyle (bdsm, fetish) social club.
The Fold
MORE-Denver; all male BDSM/fetish, social, educational and play party for guys 21 and above.
Pansexual United Nubile Kinksters: pansexual, non-profit discussion group dedicated to providing a safe, friendly environment for younger members of the Denver BDSM community. (18-30 year olds)
PEP-Denver
Uncommon Ground; P O Box 2037, Woodland Park, CO 80866 Email: membership@uncommon-ground.org
WICK'D: Women In Control of Kink; forum for female dominants and those who serve them.
Pueblo: The Triskele Club
Hartford: Bound Hartford; dance club catering to the Goth/Industrial/Fetish crowd.
The Group; male dom/fem sub group
The Society; pansexual, support, social and educational group for the 21 years and older BDSM community in the Connecticut area and beyond.
East Hartford: United Leatherfolk of Connecticut; PO Box 281172, East Hartford, CT
New Haven: Connecticut BDSM Munch; pansexual group
Stamford: Stamford Munch
Westchester County: Westchester Munch
Northern Delaware DS: contact MasterStevestami@aol.com
Milford: Delmarva D/S
Wilmington: Delaware Area Lifestyle Society (DEALS)
; non-profit social support group for those with an interest in Dominance and submission, sadomasochism and other related fetishes
Wilmington Munch; held the third Thurs of every month, email Curiusnomore@yahoo.com for info.
The DS Castle; pansexual discussion group
BDSM Florida: an excellent site for the ever-changing world of BDSM in the Sunshine State.
Sir Kane's Florida BDSM News: excellent source for Florida BDSM info.
Brandon: City Limits; fetish night every Tuesday. Email for info.
Brevard County: Brevard Munch
Space Coast Munch
South Florida Munch
Clearwater/Largo: Clearwater Munch; also home to SUN (The Submisisve Unity Network) and DAMM (Dominanta and Masters and Mistress).
Daytona Beach: Daytona-Florida Munch
Florida Fem Dom; social Femdom-malesub group.
Ladies Tea Society of Florida; protocol/manners instruction group to teach male subs
Ft. Lauderdale: Ft. Lauderdale NLA; P.O. Box 4911, Ft. Lauderdale FL 33338
Command Performance; social club and headquarters for the leather community. We offer themed Play-Parties (every Saturday night), private Sessions (by appointment), educational Courses, a thrift Boutique, seminars, workshops and many other unique Events.
The Dungeon Depot: holds parties once a month. Also lists other events going on in the state.
Klub Kink (BDSM club)
Leather University
The Saint; fetish parties
Ft. Myers: Ft Myers Munch; email for info.
Gainesville: Gainesville Munch, email for info.
Gainesville/Ocala: FLOG Socials; monthly socials, parties, demos and educational events for those living in North Florida. Membership is open to anyone living in Florida.
Hernando/Citrus County: NatureCoast Munch
Jacksonville: Florida Area Power Exchange (Jacksonville and NE Florida); FAPE is a support, educational and social group for people whose lifestyles or interests include D/sBDSM. FAPE is a pansexual group and open to adults (over 21) of any gender or sexual orientation. Email: FAPEMunchGroup@yahoo.com & FAPEMunchGroup@aol.com
Chainz; pansexual discussion group
Northeast Florida Spankers; real-time group of spankers and spankees living in or near the Jacksonville, St. Augustine, Gainesville and Daytona area.
Jupiter: Jupiter Munch
Key West: Key West and Florida Keys Munch Group
Key West Wreckers; men's leather/levi club
Ocala: Ocala Power Exchange; pansexual educational, support, and social group. Email: Swetestpet@aol.com.
SMACK; munch group for Sumter, Marion, and Citrus counties.
Orlando: Orlando Power Exchange & Munch
DSSG Orlando; dominant/submissive support group.
Orlando Area Sister's Lunch; casual social event for all women who currently participate or have participated in the BDSM/Ds lifestyle as a submissive or slave as well as "newbies". For information email RoundersSweetTea@aol.com
Miami: Miami Munch
Southern Florida: SPICE; P.O. Box 451837, Sunrise, FL 33345-1837 Email: SPICE561@aol.com
North Florida BDSM Mailing List; information about bdsm in Jacksonville, Pensacola, Mobile, and others in the North Fl area can be had.
Naples: Club FEM--South Florida; Females Enslaving Males. A munch exclusively for dominant Women and submissive men. Meetings in Naples as well as Ft. Lauderdale.
Palm Beach: Palm Beach Munch: private, invitation only event
Panama City: Panama City PEP; email for info.
Pompano Beach: Command Performance; pro-dungeon, but does host fee-based play parties
Port Richey: West Pasco Munch
Port St. Lucie: Port St. Lucie Munch; email for info.
Sarasota: The Sarasota Society
Sebring: Dread BDSM & D/S; meetings and get-togethers the first Wed of the month, email DREADLOCKSKNOTTIE@HOTMAIL.COM for info.
Sebring Munch:contact addictedone@hotmail.com for info.
Spring Hill/Bayport: Nature Coast Munch; lifestyle munch group based out of Hernando and Citrus counties.
St. Augustine: VIPER; (Vilano Intimate Power Exchange Region), pansexual BDSM support group headquartered in Vilano Beach, near St. Augustine, Florida. Contact
BigDaddyVilano@yahoo.com for more information.
Tallahassee: Tallahassee SSC
Tampa: Tampa Munch
Florida Moonshine: private party group for spanking enthusiasts
PM Club; P.O. Box 151604, Tampa FL 33614.
Tampa Bay/Vero Beach: DSSG; PO. Box 30, Valrico, FL 33595 Phone: (813) 689-7999 Email: genebat@gte.net
Tampa Bay/Lutz: Defenders; Catholic leather group, P O Box 201, Lutz, FL 33549
West Palm Beach: Eurotique: Its a fetish store but they do hold parties the 1st Saturday of every month.
Atlanta: 1763; equipped dungeon with both public and members-only events.
Atlanta Corporal Punishment Club; P.O. Box 14904, Atlanta GA 30324.
Atlanta Regional Munch
Atlanta Littles and Adult Babies Munch; Ageplay munch group
Buckhead Munch
Dekalb Munch
Athens Munch
Southeast Atlanta Munch
Atlanta S/M Solidarity; gay organization, P.O. Box 8361, Atlanta, GA 30306.
MD's Naughty Nights; private play party list
McDonough (South Atlanta): The Prison Cell; resource page.
The Secret Room; fetish nightclub
The Tribe; educational community group
WHIMPER Munch
Whippersnappers; educational & social group for 20-30something BDSMer's.
Augusta: Augusta Iron Rose Society
Cherokee County: Cherokee Munch
Cobb County: Cobb Dinner Munch
Columbus: CUFF-Columbus Munch
Gainesville: Lanier Munch
Gwinnett County: Gwinnett Munch
Macon: Macon Georgia BDSM
Savannah: Kinky In Savannah
Honolulu: PEP Paradise; c/o Mistress Athena, PO Box 22959, Honolulu, HI 96826
Hawaii Pacific Alternative Lifestyles; confidential group open to all kinks by consenting adults
BDSM Idaho; discussion & education list. Also lists a couple of other Idaho lists/groups/clubs.
North Idaho Fetish Enthusiasts: This group is for folks in the North Idaho, Eastern Washington and surrounding areas to meet, exchange ideas, and plan events. This group is for people with real life experience and to discuss the variety of styles of BDSM activities in the real world.
North Idaho BDSMS
Boise: Boise BDSM Society; education & social group
Boise Kink
Boise Black Rose Society: educational and support group for all
members of the BDSM lifestyle.
Idaho Falls: Idalho Friends; social munch group
Spokane: Spokane/Idaho Panhandle Alternative Listings
Central Illinois: Leatherpalooza; BDSM education and events.
Chicago: Chicago Leather Club; pansexual organization that provides a supportive, social, and educational environment for the Levi/leather, BDSM, and fetish communities.
Chicago Far North Shore Munch Group
Chicago Hellfire Club; men's group, P.O. Box 5426, Chicago, IL 60680
Crimson Moon Ltd: spanking resource & party site
Dedicated and Safe: membership pansexual group, hosts seminars, parties
Galleria Domain; BDSM membership club
Leather Archives; "Our Mission: The compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather lifestyle and related lifestyles [including but not limited to the Gay and Lesbian communities], history, archives and memorabilia for historical, educational and research purposes."
Leather United-Chicago; P.O. Box 81288, Chicago, IL 60681-1288 Phone: 773-486-5499 Email: LeatherUN@aol.com
Leather SINS Social Club; Leather SINS is Leather Social Interaction of the North Shore, a Chicago area Dinner Group which meets twice monthly as well as presenting other functions throughout the year.
BDSM Chicago; Features CRAM (Chicago rope and mummification group) and CHISM (Chicago BDSM community calendar).
LRA BDSM Leather Club; welcomes alternative lifestyles in Chicagoland and suburbs whatever your orientation: heterosexual bisexual homosexual or interest: Dominant submissive Master slave Top bottom spanking fetish.
Midwest Submissive Discussion Group
Submission Of Love; submissive's support group
Decatur: BCI Pearls of Wisdom; A pansexual discussion group for people 21 years and older to discuss the realtime lifestyle of D/s and b/d/s/m living in central illinois and the surrounding areas. Monthly Munches.
Moline-Rock Island: Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM
Rockford: REALM --Rockford and Extended Area Lifestyle Munch
Springfield: L.I.N.K.S; Like-minded Individuals Networking for Knowledge and Satisfaction. We meet on the third Saturday of every month for a munch/social in a local restaurant. Members host their own private play parties and are by invitation only.
Northern Indiana: Northern Indiana Power Exchange: lifestyle group based in Northern Indiana and welcomes others from areas near by including Ohio, Michigan amd Illinois.
Northern Indiana Kink
Club Fem Indy; a N/P social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female dominant/male submissive relationships.
Bloomington: Headspace; pansexual group, serving IU students and the rest of the community
Evansville: Evansville Munch Bunch
Common Grounds; pansexual social & educational group
Fort Wayne: Fort Wayne Munch; bi-monthly munches, monthly play parties, and feature a submissive's group that meets monthly, and a Dominant's group that hasn't begun to have meetings yet.
NEILA; North East Indiana Leather Association
Summit City Munch
Indianapolis: Andromeda; social and educational group for lesbians, butches/femmes, gender queers, bisexuals, and transsexual/transgender persons* in the Central Indiana area who are interested in kink, B/D, D/S, S/M, etc.
IMAS (Indiana Masters and slaves/submissives/switches) ; munch group
NLA Indianapolis: 1310 Oakland Ave., Indianapolis IN 46201
The Indy Slosh; informal BDSM group
NLA Indianapolis
Sweet Misery, P O Box 11690, Indianapolis, IN 46201-0690
Lafayette: Lafayette Munch
Muncie: Club DOMINION; pansexual fetish nightclub/dungeon (this club seems to be in limbo right now)
Merrillville: Hood and Leash of Indiana; group of Gor and D/s Lifestyle friendly people who like to gather and learn from each other. Bi-monthly meetings.
South Bend: ALM; Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana
ISAB; Iowa Stocks and Bonds
North East Iowa Power Exchange; monthly munches and bimonthly classes, demos, parties and workshops
Ames: Cuffs; official BDSM student organization at Iowa State University
Burlington: The Round Table; 21 and over discussion group, offers bi-monthly meetings
Bettendorf-Davenport: Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM
Des Moines: Des Moines Area Discussion Group
Sioux City: Tristates Power Exchange
Wichita: Wichita First Friday Munch
Kansas City: Alternative Hedonistic Source
MOMunch
Topeka: Kink In Northeast Kansas; monthly munches, demos and play parties soon
Wichita: Twister Temptations Kansas; munches, play parties and demos
First Friday Munches
Covington: Covington Munch Bunch
South Central Kentucky: South Central KY DS List; discussion, educational, and meeting list
Lexington: Kentucky Underground Fetish Society; pansexual social and munch group
Louisville: Louisville Munch; Social and discussion gateway group since 1997 for anyone interested in the BDSM community.
Early Bloomers; A social and discussion group for people ages 18-35 interested in BDSM.
Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
Paducah: Bondage Connection; pansexual West KY munch group
Alexandria: Central Louisiana BDSM mailing list, send email to CenLaBDSM@egroups.com.
Baton Rouge: Red Stick Volunteer Players
Lafayette: Acadiana Power Exchange
Lake Charles: BDSM_Lake_Charles; BDSM support and social group
New Orleans: Club Fem NOLA; Femdom - malesub group
NOBLE; non-profit pansexual support, play and social group
Society les Femdommes; FemDomme group based in southeast Louisiana serving
Female Dominants, male submissives and female submissives.
Shreveport: S_portdungeon; education & support group serving the Shreveport region and all of Northern Louisiana.
Delightful Dungeon; Pansexual D/s, BD S&M group in the Shreveport-Bossier City area.
Different Delights; pansexual 21& over support, education, and social group. Holds monthly munches, educational meetings, and coffee get togethers 3 times a month.
SWORD; Shreveport Women Of Regal Dominance, a fem Domme group and their subs, educating and supporting those in the Fem Dom lifestyle
Maine BDSM
NLA New England
Maine Submissives
Masters and slaves Together; southern Maine
Bangor:Northern Maine Kinksters
Portland:
Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU); New social group in Maine
with the purpose of uniting those involved in alternative lifestyles.
Thorn Society; pansexual BDSM support & social group
BDSM Maine
Harbor Masters; leather/levi social club
Baltimore: Baltimore At Ease; Not-for-profit grassroots advocacy group dedicated to promoting the tolerance of sexual minorities and education about alternative sexual expression.
Baltimore Educational and Social Society; educational and social group for consenting adults with shared interests in BDSM sexuality.
The Baltimore Eagle; gay leather club
D&S Society of Baltimore; P.O. Box 20248, Towson MD 21204.
FIST; women's S/M group
The Power Exchange
Shipmates; gay leather club
Trident International Baltimore
Laurel: Dragon Ladies Limited; social munch group for Dominant Women and those who serve them.
Alston: The K.M. Society; P.O. Box 66, Alston MA 02134.
Boston: Boston Burgermunch; email for info.
New England Dungeon Society
Common Bond; women's group, P.O. Box 390313, Boston MA 02139.
Bound For Pleasure; a New England BDSM social group that firmly believes
in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light.
Defenders Boston: Catholic leather society, 55 E. Springfield St., Boston, MA 02118
New England NLA
One Nation Underground: information/ power exchange group for the BDSM/leather lifestyles
Boston-The Next Generation of Kinksters; pansexual BDSM group for motivated kinky individuals age 18-35 that is dedicated to education, outreach, and an enriching social environment within the leather community.
Braintree: SouthShore Munch; egroups list. Holds a munch 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month.
Cambridge: MOB New England; Women's play and social
group.
Charlestown: Boston United Leather Legion; A gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender group, P.O. Box 287, Charlestown MA 02129.
Hadley: Bound and Determined, women's group, P.O. Box 602, Hadley MA 01035.
Medford: Urania; women's group, P.O. Box 501, Medford MA 02155.
Northampton: East Coast FTM Group; P.O. Box 60585, Florence Station, Northampton, MA 01060
Links: pansexual group, meets monthly at Intimicies in downtown Northampton.
Northampton Alt; adult social group
North Dartmouth: FLAG (Fits Like A Glove); glove fetish organization, predominantly gay male, but it is not limited to men or gay.
Shelix; women's group, P.O. Box 416, Northampton, MA 01060-0416
Randolph: The Esoterica Society; P.O. Box 37, Randolph, MA 02368
Saugus: munch, contact Darkskyfire@aol.com for info
Springfield: The Western Massachusetts Power Exchange
WMPE-The Next Generation; for lifestylers 18-35.
WMPE Submissive Discussions; submissive only support group
Taunton: munch, held the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month. Email Swtchr2@aol.com for info.
Waltham: Northeast Spanking Society; couples only group
Worcester: Worcester Women's Munch
Michigan Munches; an announce-only list to inform subscribers of public BDSM gatherings in or near Michigan.
Michigan Vanguard; pansexual discussion group.
Southeastern Michigan Munch (Ann Arbor/Sterling Heights)
Whipstock: annual fundraising 3 day outdoor pansexual/BDSM event in West MI. Sponsored by Immediate Family.
Ann Arbor: Ann Arbor's Next Generation of Kinksters; a kink and fetish oriented group in Ann Arbor for kinksters up to 35 years old.
Bay City: Leather and Lace Society; P.O. Box 2415, Bay City MI 48707.
Detroit: Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society
Detroit Bondage Club; gay male group
Detroit D/S Dinner Discussion, this group meets monthly and is for those of us
interested in the D/s lifestyle, with emphasis on Master/slave relations. Email: DetroitDsDD@aol.com.
The Mich Chat OHS; (dinner/discussion group)
Michigan Rope; munch and discussion group
Flint: Flint Munch List
Grand Rapids: Grand Rapids BDSM
Grand Rapids Alternative Lifestyle Enlightenment: email grale@migrale.org for info.
West Michigan TNG
Lansing: Lansing BDSM; open, pansexual munch group
Muskegon: Muskegon Area Bd-Ds-SMers
Niles: ALM; Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana
Saginaw: Saginaw Valley Deviant's Munch Page
Traverse City: NorthernMich-BDSM; Northern Michagan Munch
Windsor, Ont: Kink Zone; Just across the border from Detroit, this is a pansexual panfetish BDSM club with monthly munches and parties.
West Central Minnesota/Southeast North Dakota: WCMN Power Exchange
Minneapolis: ATONS; gay leather club
Knights of Leather; pansexual group
Minneapolis-St. Paul Women's Group
Minnesota Kinky Youngsters; munch and play party group for the 18-35 set.
TIES; pansexual BDSM group
Minnesota Stocks, Debentures & Bonds; private, members-only group.
Club Fem North Mississippi; Femdom - malesub group
MsNalt; pansexual discussion group
SMART; pansexual group
Gulfport/Biloxi: Club Fem South Mississippi; Femdom - malesub group
Jackson: Jackson Mississippi Munch Group
Tupelo: Tupelo BDSM Munch Group
Cape Girardeau: BDSM Cape Girardeau; This is a list for people interested in the Lifestyle, who live in, or around the Cape Girardeau, Missouri area. If you are
interested in talking to, or meeting, other Lifestylers in this area, then this is the place!
Columbia: Columbia Erotic Power Exchange
Mid-Missouri Munch
Pandora's Rose; BDSM education & social group.
Farmington: Mineral Area Lifestylers
Kansas City: Alternative Hedonistic Source; PO Box 414545, Kansas City, MO 64141
KC Pioneers; gay/lesbian leather group
Leather Stone
Masters And slaves Together
MoMunch; munch group for Kansas City and surrounding areas
Screams N whispers - Midwest; BDSM social group for the northwest MO and northeast KS area.
Kirksville: NorMAL; Northern Missouri Alternative Lifestyles.
Neosho/Joplin: Leather & Silk; For those who are interested in real time BDSM practice, to meet sincere like-minded individuals contact kaged_kitten@hotmail.com for more information.
Poplar Bluff: Poplar Bluff Lifestylers
Springfield: Springfield Masters And subs/slaves
Southwest BDSM of Missouri; a group that meets and is dedicated to the informing and providing SW Missouri with a safe and sane learning environment for BDSM activities
St. Louis: Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG); pansexual fetish/BDSM social and disscussion group , also has a couple's and women's group
Gynecrocrat Alliance; P.O. Box 13034, St. Louis MO 63122
St.Louis Leather and Lace; Pansexual BDSM organization
St.Louis Munch
PEP--St. Louis
St. Louis Scene Page
Hamilton: Master Wolfen's Bondage Club; new pansexual group in Western Montana.
Missoula: Montana BDSM; email list for Western Montana.
Lincoln: Community Ties
Midwest Alternatives
Omaha: Learning 2 Exchange Power
Las Vegas: Delicious Decadence; egroup that aims to enlighten and introduce interested & curious people from all walks of life into the enticing world of Ds.
CHIX; Women's BDSM egroup, created to unite, connect and address the lifestyle issues, concerns and direction of all women - whatever vocation, sexual preference, orientation, size or inclination.
Dungeon Kink: A private Las Vegas play party group for SSC adults into D/s, BDSM.
Las Vegas BDSM Lifestyle Group: A BDSM Lifestyle Group that values Protocol and Ritual, for the Lifestyler in Las Vegas and surroundings, Singles and Couples alike, who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas; pansexual leather group dedicated to
Education, Socializing, and Community Service.
Pau'Hana - The Club in the Lava Lounge; has a weekly fetish night, located at Hawaiian Marketplace, 3743 S. Las Vegas Blvd, Las Vegas, NV 89109
Polished Collar Society; private association of like-minded individuals sharing in the experience of learning and practicing the ritualistic aspects of BDSM.
Twisted Vanilla; real-life/time BDSM-D/s lifestyle group based in Southern Nevada (Las Vegas/Pahrump), offering support and social activities for those interested in BDSM and D/s lifestyles, and especially those interested protocols, respects and servitudes under the practices of "Old World" Mistresses and Masters. Parties, munches and slave training available to those who are honorable and discrete.
Shibari
Sin City DS Network: egroup for all Las Vegas area individuals at least 21 years of age interested in Dominance and submission, and BD/SM activities for the purpose of meeting and maintaining contact.
Reno: Northern Nevada Free Lifestyles; adult munch and social group.
CUFS (Coastal United Fetish Society); pansexual group
Hampton: Beach Munch; #d/s-NewHampshire, IRC-chat, but holds rl munches every 2nd Saturday of the month.
Keene: Darkstone DS; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
Nashua: New Hampshire Burger Munches; also email estelle@bdsbbs.com
Upper Valley: White Mountains D/S; BDSM group for northern New Hampshire.
North New Jersey: Leather N Rose’s Munch
Atlantic City: Atlantic City D/S
Atlantic Highlands: The Fantasy Chateau; a BDSM BBS & Party Network. PO Box 290, Atlantic Highlands, NJ 07716. Email: partyman@partyman.com
Bordentown: The South Jersey Alternative; holds munches and private play parties. Email Anar_Kisst@hotmail.com for info.
Masters and slaves Together; central New Jersey chapter
Iselin: Knot for Everyone; Knot For Everyone, PO Box 45, Fanwood, NJ 07023 Email: knot4every1@aol.com
Lakewood/Toms River: Toms River Munch Group
Mt Laurel: The Mission; private pansexual BDSM club that operates munches, activities and play parties in Mt Laurel NJ, Ocean NJ, Atlantic City NJ, Bound Brook NJ, and Willow Grove PA.
Passaic: The Couples Club; P.O. Box 325, Passaic NJ 07055.
New Brunswick: PEP New Brunswick; call 908-281-8689.
Somerset: Tri-State; P.O. Box 7205, Somerset NJ 08875.
Trenton: Capitol City Munch
Toms River: Toms River Munch; pansexual group that meets monthly, write for more info.
Williamstown: Temptations Reign; pansexual social group
Albuquerque: Alternative Erotic Lifestyles, P O Box 80676, Albuquerque, NM 87198 Phone: (505) 345-6484 Email:
Leather Wolves; pack-structured fellowship of Gay & Bi identified men who actively pursue fetish & S/M activity with other men.
New Mexico Leathermen's Network; Albuquerque-based online discussion & announcement site for New Mexico's gay leathermen.
New Mexico--TNG; Pansexual organization for people 18-35 years of age (and their partners) who are interested in, curious about or already involved in Leather, polyamorous or kinky relationships.
PEP National Headquarters; Phone: (505)260-1324
Farmington: Four Corners; pansexual munch, support, and party group, serving the four corners area of Az. Co. NM. and Ut.
Silver City: Grant County Power Exchange Group
Albany: Albany Power Exchange (APEX); munches, events and information resource. Also email for more info.
Albany Kink and Party Club; social and educational lifestyler group
Buffalo: BuffaloLINKS; pansexual support group
PEP Buffalo; pansexual support, education, and social group
WNY Lifestyle Society
Hudson Valley: Hudson Valley DS
Ithaca: Ithaca TNG
NYC: APPLEMUNCH
Brooklyn Leather Munch
Defenders NY; Catholic leather society, P O Box 1146, Old Chelsea Station, New York, NY 10011
Conversio Virium; Columbia University
Domina Fetish Club; a social, educational, play and business support group for Dominant Females and submissives of any gender.
DomSubFriends Society; Pansexual BDSM Society, with lectures, demos, e-magazine, and exclusive parties serving NY, NJ, CT and other areas of the East Coast.
DS Desires: D/s & BDSM related parties, workshops and weekend getaways, email dsdesires@dsdesires.com.
The Eulenspiegal Society; P.O. Box 2783, New York, N.Y. 10163-2783 Phone: (212) 388-7022
Fetish Warehouse NY; BDSM club, 117 25th Street, Brooklyn
Gay Male S/M Activists
Lesbian Sex Mafia
Long Island Ravens; women's group, c/o Long Island Eagles, 94 North Clinton, Bay Shore NY 11706.
New York Area S/M Activists
NLA New York; P O Box 488 Triborough Station, New York, NY 10035
New York Bondage Club; PO Box 20064 West Village New York NY 10014, Phone: 212-620-ROPE(7673)
New York Metro D&S Singles; #21 3395 Nostrand Ave. Brooklyn NY 11229.
NY Renegades; (play parties, men's group)
Paddles; clean, friendly BDSM club 250 West 26th Street, NYC (212) 629-1854
Peter Boots' Gay Leather SM Fetish Guide to NYC
Queens BDSM Organization
Staten Island Munch; contact Mazie or call (718) 815-1358
The Vault; (BDSM club) 565 West 23rd Street, Manhattan Phone: (212) 255-6758
The Venom Club: BDSM club in Farmingdale, Long Island
Without Restraint
Long Island Leather N Roses: pansexual weekly discussion group & parties. Contact LI_Leather_N_Roses-subscribe@yahoogroups.com for information.
Rochester: Rochester Kink Society
TrustBound; adult couple's group
Poughkeepsie: Hudson Valley Munch; email Monstie114@aol.com for info
Syracuse: Syracuse DS Society
Utica: Utica Kink Society; twice monthly munch group in central NY.
Northeastern NC: ASKNENC; lifestyle munch group for Northeast NC, as well as Southeast Virginia
Asheville: The Asheville Area Group; pansexual social group. Address: TAAG, PO Box 2372, Leicester, NC 28748.
Charlotte: Charlotte Area
Power Exchange; a not-for-profit pansexual organization in the south central Piedmont area of North Carolina for people who share an interest in BDSM.
Black Garden; pansexual BDSM group w/ weekly get togethers. bi monthly rope suspension 'shows', regular club nights, irregular private play parties, see link and calendar for details
Purgatory; bi-monthly fetish party, with rotating themes
Tradesmen, Inc; men's group, P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte NC 28204.
Tradesman, Inc; P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte, NC 28204
Raleigh-Durham: Safe, Sane, Consensual Network (SSCN); SSCN is a not-for-profit BDSM organization dedicated to providing education, support, and a social network for its contributors in a safe, responsible, and discretion-conscious environment.
Wilmington: Domme Beach; femdom (and admirers!) social group.
WHIP
WINK: private alternative lifestyle group in southeastern North Carolina for Adults who practice SSC bdsm; for discussion, education, support and socializing.
Red River Lifestylers: email WolfsOwn@cableone.net for info
West Central Minnesota/Southeast North Dakota: WCMN Power Exchange
Ohio Leather Festival
Fightclub Ohio
PEER-Group: (formerly PEP-Ohio), email contact@BDSM-PEERGroup.com
Akron: Purple Rose Society; meets on the 2nd and 4th Saturday of every month, at their own playspace/dungeon
Bowling Green: Bowling Green Kink Society; pansexual munch group
Cincinnati: MAsT ( Masters And slaves Together), Cincinnati Chapter, P.O Box 6452 Florence, KY 41022 Phone: 606-283-2731, Email: MAsTCinti@aol.com
CincyMunch
Cleveland: SMART
SMART OhioFemSub Special Interest Group: social and support group for female submissives in Northeast Ohio
The Edge Dungeon; Female submissive support group- Precious Jewels as well as a Dominant female support & friendship group - Orchid Blossoms.
Ohio Lesbian BDSM
B.E.A.T. Productions: sponsors Monthly munches and Midweek munches in the greater Cleveland area.
Columbus: Adventures In Sexuality; pansexual social group
Briar Rose; women's group, P.O. Box 16235, Columbus, OH 43216
CORDs; support D/S group.
The Forum; open D/S lifestyle group
NLA Columbus; National Leather Assoication Columbus, PO Box 2763, Columbus, Ohio, 43216 Phone: (614) 898-6266
Southern Ohio Resource & Educational group (SORE): pansexual social and educational group
Dayton: Dayton BDSM Support Group
S.A.F.E of Dayton
Sterling Shadow Club; pansexual support group
Toledo: Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
Power and Trust
Youngstown: Mahoning Valley Munch
Oklahoma City: OPEP; Oklahoma People's Exchanging Power--pansexual , panfetish BDSM
group.
NLA-OKC
Tribal Fire
Tulsa: Tulsa Dungeon Society; munches and play parties
Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association; T.U.L.S.A. is a place for people interested in leather, uniform and levi lifestyles to meet and socialize.
Eugene: Women in Charge Ore; Femdom discussion group
Portland: Bad Girls; A social and educational bdsm group for women.
Blackout Leather Productions
Chaps; men's group
KATS; Kidz & Adultz Together Sharing, an Ageplay group. For
Adults only. Website with link to mailing list.
Lulu's Pervy Playhouse; women's group
OKPERL; pansexual support/munch group
Oregon Bears; men's group, 625 SW 10th Avenue #153-B, Portland OR 97205.
Portland Leather Alliance; PO Box 5161, Portland, OR 97208 Phone: (503) 727-3148
Portland Leathermen; c/o Blake Walker, 5418 N. Amherst St., Portland OR 97203.
Portland Munches
Rose City Discussion Club
MAsT: Pacific Northwest; Masters and slaves support group for Washington & Oregon
Whipper Snappers; for 18-30 yr olds.
Salem: Salem Munch
Southeast PA: Leather, Bondage & Whips
Central PA: Central Penn Alternative Lifestylers
South Central PA Alternative Lifestyles; includes Altoona, State College, Lewistown, Huntingdon and surrounding areas.
The Poconos: Pocono's Merry Munch
Erie: Erie Power Exchange; email KS for info.
Lake Erie Dungeon Society
Greensburg: The Alpha Group; support and education group based in Westmoreland county.
Hazleton: munch group in development, contact Mistress Dawn.
Indiana: Female Supremacy; P.O. Box 1048, Indiana PA 15701
Lancaster: Alternative Expressions
; Pansexual online/rl support/social organization based in south central Pennsylvania. Holds monthly munches and socials/parties.
Morrisville: PEP New Brunswick; P.O. Box 812, Morrisville, PA 19067 Phone: (215)552-8155
Philadelphia: Dark Sanctuary; pansexual couple's BDSM group.
Alfie's Social
Black Phoenix; dungeon, hosts demos and parties as well.Club FEM Philly
Behind the Scenes; private pansexual BDSM & alternative lifestyles organization. (Apparently closed now, but trying to re-open)
Defender's Philadelphia: catholic gay/lesbian leather group
The Gate Munch
Obzine; free monthly alternative newspaper, also holds parties for different lifestyles, including BDSM.
Female Trouble; women's group, P.O. Box 2284, Philadelphia, PA 19103-0284
PAP; monthly member-only play parties, email papmeeting@hotmail.com for details
PAST; femdom munch group, email for info
Philadelphia Bondage Club; men's group, P.O. Box 40602, Philadelphia PA 19107. Email: philabc@aol.com
Philiadelphia Dungeon Society
MAsT Philladelphia
Philladelphia TNG; The Next Generation is for Kinksters in the age range of 18-35.
The Tannery: private BDSM club
Pocono Warriors; men's group, P.O. Box 54138, Philadelphia, PA 19105
Tribes; femdom private play & meeting group
Pittsburgh: PLAN; Pittsburgh Leather Archives for Newcomers
BurghMunch; pansexual munch group
BDSM Pittsburgh: MSN Group, provides information about local Pgh groups, parties, munches, etc.
Burghermunch: another pansexual munch group
Pittsburgh Bondage Club; P.O. Box 8033, Pittsburgh PA 15216.
Three Rivers Munch; pansexual fetish group with meetings the 2nd Monday of the month.
Tri-State Couples Club; Suite 258 20120-Rte 19, Cranberry Township, Pa 16066
Email: geotscc@sgi.net
Cranberry Meet & Greet; meets once a month, email darkchyldesgirl@hotmail.com for info.
Bartonsville (The Poconos): Masquerade; semi-annual pansexual couples' fetish weekend
Scranton: NE PA Leathermen; PO Box 1492, Scranton, PA 18501
Providence: Aces; P.O. Box 261, Annex Station, Providence RI 02901.
Hathor's Garden; weekly club fetish night
RI Enforcers: leather group for gay men, bi people, TGs and lesbians, dedicated to being a brotherhood/sisterhood in leather and raising funds for local AIDS charities.
Charleston: 3D Munch Group; discussion list & munch group
ChaSM; Education, Parties, SIGs, Social events & discussion list.
Slaves Teaching Slaves; education & support group with RL meetings.
Par-BDSM; discussion list for those challenged with the problems of having children & BDSM in their lives.
Clemson: BDSM on Clemson's Campus; VERY brand-new group forming--help get it off the ground!
Columbia: This Thing That We Do; a pansexual BDSM support and education group serving Columbia, SC and the surrounding area. Subscribe to the e-mail list or e-mail T3WD@hotmail.com
BDSM at the University of South Carolina
; pansexual bdsm discussion group
Greenville: LOCK
KEY
LASH (Lifestyle-Associated Safe Haven); informal, invitation only social group. Write here for info.
Greenwood County: Comp'ny Good Haven; a safe place for folks of Greenwood County, S.C., and the surrounding area, who share a common interest BDSM to come together to share information and ideas.
Myrtle Beach: Myrtle Beach Kink
Tennessee Femdom - malesub
Central TN: Central TN Spankers; email traynedman@traynedman.com for info.
Chattanooga: The Chattanooga Exchange
St. Bethlehem: PEP Tennessee; P O Box 174, St. Bethlehem, TN 37155
Knoxville: Smoky Mountain Power Exchange
Memphis: Memphis Links
The Memphis Munch
Impact
Memphis Power Exchange
Nashville: Nashville Dungeon Society; contact: Jamese@bellsouth.net
NLA Nashville
Nashville Alternative Lifestyle Group; pansexual munch group, meets twice a month. Contact dellicate@hotmail.com, zidestiz@aol.com, or
munch@nla-nashville.org for more info.
GrownUps; GrownUps is a pansexual group with online chat and message boards, Offline events, Dinners, Gathers, and munches for a mix of alternative lifestyles. Eventsare designed for BDSMers, some for swingers, and sometimes we cross-associate, when social is the focus, not playstyles. (such as Dinners out) We host Swing 101 happy hours, BDSM 101 happy hours, and Lifestyle training workshops.
The Mark; private meeting facility and interaction space.
Wykid Rose; resource BDSM site for Texas and Oklahoma.
Austin: The Group With No Name
Austin Crack Addicts; NO, not that kind! This group is for whip enthusiasts!
Austin SM; social munch
Austin subCulture; a submissive support group. Email ascmic@yahoo.com
for info.
Bound By Desire; women's group
NLA Austin
Central Texas-TNG; pansexual support
/discussion /educational/social group for people age 18-35 who are into or interested in BDSM.
SAADE (School for Austin Area Dominants Education); discussion/educational group
Voyagers; a group for the newcomers to the lifestyle
Beaumont: BDSM_Beaumont_TX; BDSM_Beaumont_TX is for anybody interested in BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sado-masochism) in Southeast Texas and Southwest Louisiana (Golden Triangle, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Orange, Jasper, Lake Charles, Livingston, Houston). Learn about local happenings and the local scene!
Bryan/College Station: The Jacobin Society; a pansexual social, educational and support group.
Beaumont: K. Inc; private club for BDSM enthusiasts in southwest Texas and southeast Louisiana. Visit the site or contact by email.
Dallas: Dallas BDSM; good source of bdsm info for the Dallas area.
The Sanctuary for Lifestyle Arts; dungeon facility
Bottoms Up; pansexual munches & play parties
The Bound Rose Society; pansexual BDSM group, also hosts a "Women's Night Out"
Different Strokes; email: board@differentstrokes.org
Fourth Fridays; bdsm happy hour, 4th Friday of every month
Flying W's; women's group, P O Box 345485, Dallas, TX 75234
Knot Just Leather: munch and playparty group
NLA-Dallas; P.O. Box 7597, Dallas TX 75209
PEP-Dallas; Phone: (214) 504-8899 Email: dallaspep@hotmail.com
Southern Room Munch; monthly social group
WICK'D: Women In Control of Kink--Dallas; femdom and male sub group, meets 2nd saturday of every month.
DFW Metro: Cruel Intentions; for the people who want to play rougher, louder, or closer to the edge.
El Paso: Le Courtesan; holds fetish socials and parties every two months.
El Paso Coffee Munch; email elpasomunch-owner@yahoogroups.com for info
El Paso Society
Southwest Texas and Southern New Mexico BDSM-Lifestyle Group
Houston: Club Fem
Crystal Rose Society; seminars, discussions and play parties
Eden Social Club; private social & party club
Eros; Erotic Rose Society
Life after the Cross: monthly group discussion
Houston People Exchanging Power
NLA-Houston: P.O. Box 66553, Houston TX 77266
Third Friday: dinner events, with a playful evening afterwards
McAllen-Brownsville-Harlingen area: Rio Grande Munch; email SirHam@aol.com for information or call (956)686-6436
Pasadena: Gulf Coast Power Exchange Group
Rio Grande Valley: Southern Jade; email southern74@xanadu2.net
San Antonio: San Antonio S/Munch
Darkest Desires; pan-fetish, pansexual social & support group
Fit to be Tied; rope bondage group
SA Doms; Dominant discussion group
SASSY; San Antonio Spanking Society
San Antonio subs; submissive discussion group
Tyler/Longview: Tyler/Longview BDSM
Tyler BDSM
Waco: Whips and Chains of Texas; pansexual social group, hosts munches and private parties.
West Texas: Permian Basin BDSM
Wichita Falls: Wichita Falls BDSM; This list provides announcements for local events in the area of Wichita Falls, Texas. Pansexual, all orientations welcome.
Salt Lake City:
The Path; friendly pansexual group that delivers organised "how to" BDSM lectures and classes
Utah Power Exchange (UPEX);
pansexual r/t group
Wasatch Leathermen; men's group, P.O. Box 1311, Salt Lake City, UT 84110
Brattleboro/Keene NH: Darkstoneds; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
Rose & Thorn Northern Vermont BDSM Parties; This is a friendly gathering of people who are active in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. This is an opportunity to meet friends (and singles) who are on the same page. This is NOT a "play" party but an
opportunity to build a community of like-minded people.
Vermont Society of Kink; holds a Soiree the First Friday of each month as well as a popular online discussion group.
Arlington: Black Rose; a pansexual educational, support, and social group.
Charlottesville: CUFF
Blacksburg Munch; email for info
NoVA Munch; Northern Virginia Munches, email for info
Hampton Roads: Crimson Phoenix; pansexual support & education group
Richmond: Release
Tidewater: The Power Exchange
VA Dommes and male subs; Femdom-malesub group, holds monthly luncheons.
Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination
Tidewater Pride; support group with play parties, chats, munches and demo's every month.
Bellingham: The Triskeli Guild
Mountlake Terrace: North End Munch
Olympia: Olympia Leather/SM Group; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
South Sound SM Leatherfolk; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
Seattle: C-Space Educational Forum; P.O. Box 28021, Seattle WA 98118.
The Edge Forum
Evergreen Leather Events; pansexual BDSM conferences
Kinky Couples; 65 Southcenter Mall, Seattle, WA 98188
Knights of Malta Jet Chapter; P.O. Box 21052, Seattle WA 98111.
Northwest Bears; men's group
Northwest Bondage Club; 1122 E. Pike Street #1212, Seattle WA 98122.
Northwest Leather Goddesses; 1122 E. Pike Street, #687, Seattle WA 98122.
Outer Limits; women's group, P.O. Box 22805, Seattle, WA 98122
The Men's Welcoming Committee
Renegade Bears; men's group
Seatac Femdom; for Femdom's and their submissives
Seattle Femme Domme society: holds munches, invitation-only workshops. Contact ms_thorn7@yahoo.com or dosmtrs@yahoo.com
Seattle Men in Leather
Seattle Munch
Sisters in Slavery; sub fem group
Sisters of Sin (SOS)
Southend Social Club; holds munches in Auburn and Tacoma
Center For Sex Positive Culture; community center, has men's, women's, and pansexual events
The Women's Welcoming Committee
Spokane: SPeX & Co. BDSM; pansexual BDSM munches
Spokane BDSM
Tacoma: Tacoma Munch; email Petpeekin@aol.com for info.
Townsend: New World Rubbermen; 1602 Lincoln, Townsend WA 98368.
Tri-Cities: F.R.E.E; Five Rivers Energy Exchange, pansexual organization that encompasses all facets of the BDSM lifestyle as well as other alternative lifestyles offering munches, seminars, and workshops.
MAsT: Pacific Northwest; Masters and slaves support group for Washington & Oregon
Wenatchee: BDSM In Wenatchee; new group forming.
Vancouver USA Munch
Black Rose; PO Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210-1161. Phone: (202) 686-5880
Bound: fetish, Goth, Industrial club, light BDSM play and lots of fetish gear and vendors. Locations in DC and Baltimore, home base is in DC.
Club Salo: fetish event for gays and lesbians (and those that like to play with them!)
The Crucible: BDSM nightclub, email or call 202-310-2100
DC Spanking; pansexual email list
Defenders; Catholic Leather Group, P O Box 33098, Washington, DC 20033
First of the Month Munch; email for info.
The Men of Discipline; PO Box 21090, Washington, DC 20009
PEP-Washington DC; P.O. Box 1160, Arlington VA 22210
The Power Exchange
The Resource Pool; education and discussion group for the DC, VA, and MD area. Also holds workshops.
SIGMA; men's leather/bdsm/bondage social group, call (202)728-7589 for the Hotline, or email Sigmadc@aol.com
for more info.
West Virginia Femdom: NEW, so new that you can still smell the paint, Femdom-oriented support group just trying to get off the ground.
Beckley: SMACK; for individuals in the Beckley, WV and surrounding areas who have a sincere interest in BD, D/s, and/or M/s relationships.
Clarksburgh/Bridgeport: WELTS; pansexual munch & support group
Glengary: WHIP; educational and social pansexual leather group
Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
Weirton: Tri State Munch; pansexual support & social group
Wheeling: WV Meet and greet, email bbw4urcmnd@aol.com for info.
Spank Festival; annual outdoors BDSM festival.
Eau Claire: Chippewa Valley Alternative Lifestyles Support Group
Green Bay: N.E.W.D.s. (North Eastern Wisconsin Dom sub)
; pansexual BDSM munch group
Kenosha-Racine: Kenosha-Racine munch, email for info.
Madison: Satyricon
Milwaukee: DAMES; women's group, P O Box 1272, Milwaukee, WI 98122
Milwaukee Munch
Wausau: Mid State Munch; bdsm/ds support group with no restrictions as regards race, creed, sexual orientation or alternative lifestyle.
Cheyenne: Cheyenne BDSM Munch Club
Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of geosites and yahoo free pages we apologize for the inconvenience we will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.
