HOW DO I JOIN A PROGRAM?
To join any program you only need be a member of CollarNcuffs.com Forum and made at least 15 posts and have completed ALL profile details prior to listing your nick/name on the appropriate program thread. If you are not a member you may join HERE
- All courses and programs are free to attend. A full detailed profile and 15 posts are required prior to entry to ALL programs.
WHAT IS THE COST OF THE PROGRAMS?
All programs are totally free, nicks, Grata, zero, zilch and hosted on CollarNcuffs.com in a private and secure atmosphere, adhering to Safe, sane, and consensual accepted standards.
WHY ARE THE PROGRAMS FREE?
There are many people who would like to see the BDSM alternative lifestyle accepted in society. But just like anything else that is different, this is something that a lot of people have a hard time grasping. When it comes down to it, there are many myths surrounding BDSM alternative lifestyles that make people want to avoid it. But with that being said, when properly educated most people will agree that the alternative lifestyle is not that bad.
First and foremost, it is important to know that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is something that a person voluntarily takes on. If they are interested in living like this it should be up to them. If society could somehow see past the negative stereotypes that are associated with BDSM it would be much easier to achieve a higher level of acceptance.
While most people think that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is nothing more than physical abuse, nothing could be further from the truth. The fact of the matter is that abuse is not common with a Femdom lifestyle. This is only the case in extraordinary situations. And remember, abuse is common in other lifestyles as well such as living in a bad marriage.
It is difficult to say if the BDSM will ever be accepted in society. Some people are fine with this as of now, but of course, there are many others who feel that it is not a good idea. The only way that society will ever become comfortable with Femdom is if the myths are put to rest.
Hopefully as more and more information is made available, society as a whole will begin to catch on. We here at CollarNcuffs.com hope to lay some of these myths to rest with freely available resources, guides and information meant as a tool to educate people and to further acceptance of society.
- We are aware that other course and programs hosted else where on the Internet can range in price from $60-$800 for exactly the same as we offer free, often these programs are hosted by sites driven by revenue and numbers, and not by those who practice BDSM/Femdom. We are not running this site to make money, this site is staffed by volunteers who care about Femdom. At CollarNcuffs.com and studyBDSM.com you are not a number to us. We care about what we 'do' ! and live the lifestyle.
DO I NEED ANY THING TO DO A PROGRAM?
Some programs will require you fill out a Questionnaire to see if you are suited to our programs criteria. All Questionnaires are privately assessed by the course director/s and will never be passed on to third parties. Questionnaires allow us to meet your needs as well as our own.
Some additional software may also be required. All additional software available FREE on the Internet. Chances are you will already have it on your computer, if not you will be assisted in locating software at NO hidden cost.
- You will be told if you need to fill out a Questionnaire please do not do so unless asked. Non approved Questionnaires cause delays in processing and delays program dates. Submission of a NON requested Questionnaire will result in you being denied a place.
DO I NEED ANY ADULT TOYS TO DO AN ENTERTAINMENT PROGRAM?
Yes, general adult sex aide toys are needed for the 'Taste of cyber' entertainment programs, plus other low cost household items. Chances are you already own these 'toys'. Taste of cyber programs are for adult entertainment purposes and contain little to no educational material. You will also need access to a digital camera for the 2-3 week period.
Please note no identifying facial images will be called for, but proof of 'tasks' will be required for program completion.
Each program has a separate required list of 'play' equipment, each program is adjusted to suit the needs of its participants so cannot be listed here. Program toy list requirements will be supplied on acceptance in a program [contained within your acceptance notification]. Time will be allowed for purchase of play equipment [if needed].If cost or location laws are an issue with play toys, alternative solutions can be suggested by program Director/s. Please discuss this with program directors if you feel it will be an issue.
- We cannot supply your 'basic' toys, nor will we suggest places to purchase. Where you purchase is up to you. As mentioned earlier we are not in this for the revenue, there is no hidden cost. The amount you spend on toys is up to you, just as long as you have the toys we require, we are happy.
HOW LONG DO THE PROGRAMS RUN FOR?
All programs run for approximately two-three weeks. Unfortunately commencement dates can not give in advance, as all courses are ran on a demand and supply principal. So the more people requesting a program the sooner it will be ran.
WILL I BE NOTIFIED OF A PLACE?
Yes if your application is successful you will be notified at least two weeks prior to your program commencing. As stated previously all programs are ran on a supply and demand principal please be patient Your choice will become available. Our programs due to NO cost are very popular and due to such the demand is high. If for some reason you are unable to attend your selected program, you will be offered an other place in the next available program, if numbers allow. If you no longer require a place, please notify us so we can free up your position for someone else.
HAVE WE ANSWERED YOUR QUESTION?
Please check our Community forum for more information on the course of your interest.
Our community Forum can be located HERE
If you are not already a member you can join HERE
If we have failed to answer any of your question please feel free to contact us via the CONTACT tab located on the page top.
Or alternatively, if you are already a member of our community Forum you may post your question in the appropriate thread, or send a private message to the program director/s.
Please note requests for private one to one programs, or request for program commencement dates will not be answered.
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I don't get to munches or study centers and am pretty much homebound with my submissive hubby, so it does wonders for me to be able to interact with 'real' members of the Femdom community, without the internet, and the access it has given me to such great information, I probably would have never been exposed to Femdom or it's wonderful concepts. This site has truly changed my life and I love it. All made possible by learning online. Thank you MissBonnie and those at CollarNcuffs.com for all your wonderful educational resourses and material. Dame Delights 2008
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