Programs

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Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

He wants to serve you as a "slave" forever. The words alone, "Mistress" and "slave", dominance and submission, maybe ran chills up and down your spine. They conjure up images of dungeons, chains, racks, and whips?of weak, pathetic men getting whipped and tortured by a cold-hearted, leather-clad bitch with whips and thigh high boots.
Perhaps you have discussed this sort of thing before, perhaps you have even taken on roles during sex play, or it could even hit you from the blue. Your reaction can range from, I'm repulsed, isn't this a little weird, your interest maybe piqued for some kinky fun but the hell do you do this? To you've always wanted a slave! Chances are, your reaction is somewhere towards the more conservative extreme. In fact, if you've always been waiting for a man to be your 24 / 7 slave, this program probably isn't for you [although it still may shed a little alternative light on your approach]. This program is targeted to the new Domme just starting out on her journey; the woman who would had never considered her partner to be her submissive.
The quest for a fulfilling Femdom relationship is a journey of many stages. At each level, the next steps seem impossible and unattainable.
All you have to do is, with no training or preparation; step into role culture has taught you is wrong. You have to deal with his male fantasy. Even though he is the one who wants you to do this, you need to lead him to a place neither of your know exists. When you do that, you will then have to maintain it.
We can understand just how you are feeling, overwhelmed at not knowing where to start out! But you can do it, if you wish to pursue this further, and you can enjoy the process. It is possible to travel together to places of which you may never have dreamed existed when you know the steps. We can help you with the steps in your journey towards a Femdom relationship. Such as planning your first scene and more.
What we have tried to present here in this program is a combination of the basic psychological aspects and the basic physical skills and knowledge needed for a Femdom love style in a user-friendly format. We hope that as you finish this program one of the things you have come away with is a stronger sense of the personal power and eroticism you carry inside of you, That power is just waiting to be tapped into and let out.
Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: Program directors Team
Cyber Entertainment Programs

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and Special Guests

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch
Programs Under Development
- Finding your Mistress (both online and realtime)
We will discuss what you personally want from Femdom, what dominants want - and you want from a dominant. We will explore where to find dominants, how to get yourself noticed by them, how to initiate contact with them, and ways to deal with the stresses of searching.
Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: TBA
- How to Play Online - for submissives
Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch
- How to Play Online - for dominants
Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch
- Going Real Time
Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: TBA (under devolopment)
Like To Direct Your Own Program
- Have an idea you would like to share?
If you would like to be a director CollarNcuffs and studyBDSM and share some of your knowledge and experiences with the community why not drop us a line with your suggestions. BDSM and Femdom is highly personalized lifestyle. We all have different needs and desires for information.
There are a myriad other ways to volunteer for helping out at CNC, some of which we?re sure we have not even thought of yet! If you are passionate about helping to create a safe space for area to explore BDSM and alternative sexual lifestyles, please contact us and share some of your ideas or even just your enthusiasm via the contact tab.
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