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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Edge Play on the road over a Naughty Seven
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My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle.
While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his “manhood” locked in.
Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!
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We’re back from multiple vacations, we’ve battled bad internet, shady bank activity, and a child-filled Uber—and now we’re hitting you with one of the most essential (but least sexy) parts of a Female-Led Relationship: communication.
This week, I dive into a PsychCentral article about Nine Steps to Better Communication—and, surprise!—I have a lot to say about it.
This episode is raw, real, rambling, and right from the gut. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, unheard, or just flat-out confused in your FLR, you’re not alone.
What You’ll Hear Me Rant (lovingly) About:
- Real-life chaos: Vacations, broken internet, kids, and compromised bank accounts
- Surfacy convo vs. real emotional communication—how to spot the difference
- Why “just listening” is harder than it sounds (and yes, I’m guilty)
- Blended families, arguments, and learning to not hyper-focus on the wrong thing
- Tech vs. touch: Is texting about feelings better or worse than saying them out loud?
- Self-awareness, emotional dicklexia, and why I talk with my arms crossed and no eye contact
- The reality that communication isn’t one-size-fits-all—and that’s okay
Krystine’s Take:
“If you can’t be honest with your partner about how you feel—or what you fantasize about—what’s the point of the dynamic?”“You are allowed to feel how you fucking feel. Don’t ever let anyone shame you out of that.”
Episode Vibe:
Warm, slightly chaotic, a little sweary, and full of heart. You’ll laugh, nod, and maybe rethink how you approach serious conversations with your partner—especially when it comes to your dynamic.
Listener Reflection Questions:
- Do you feel emotionally safe enough to tell your partner everything?
- Have you mistaken casual check-ins for actual connection?
- Are you more open through texting, voice, or face-to-face conversations?
- How often do you validate your partner’s feelings (or ask for validation yourself)?
- Are you guilty of bringing up old stuff during current argumen
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Keywords:
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I promise you’ll learn something new about sex and sexuality, and you’ll have fun with it at the same time. Class is in session!
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Let’s talk about sex without penetration! It’s not all about penetrating your partner(s) with a phallus, and in fact you can have really good, very fun queer sex without having to stick a dick or dick stand-in inside anyone’s body.
Learn about frottage, intercural sex, the basics of good oral, some tips on the anatomy of a penis and vulva that can lead to amazing pleasure, and finally, how to locate the prostate (and why you should make a self prostate exam part of your monthly habit).
There are so many ways to practice female dominant sexuality (and male submissive sexuality) that fall outside the tongue-lashing, whip-wielding, leather-suited stereotype. Also, you never have to take yourself too seriously. Listen in as The Gentle Domme and assorted guests discuss different aspects of being, courting, dating, and pleasing a gentle femdom.
In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I also discuss ways to potentially lighten the emotional load for your Domme, and the sexy new outfits I bought in NOLA and now have to find a place to show off. I hope I didn’t lecture too much, unless you like that kind of thing.
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Black-Caribbean Domme/Switch discussing kink as a whole and the kink she lives. Female led relationship, Polyamory, non-monogamy,
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Hi My loves I am back. A lot has happened in the past year but I think its time I revamp the podcast.
Are you In?
