Contracts, Negotiations and Rights


How to techniques, guides & advice

D/s Contracts – What are D/s contracts? and how do D/s contracts work?

When it comes to contracts, negotiations, and rights play a crucial role in ensuring a fair and mutually beneficial agreement. Whether you are an owner or simply someone looking to protect your interests, understanding the techniques and guides involved in this process is essential. In these posts, we will explore the key aspects of contracts, negotiations, and rights, providing you with valuable insights to navigate these areas successfully.

When drafting or reviewing a contract, it is important to pay attention to the following elements:

Offer and Acceptance: Both parties must agree to the terms of the contract. This can be done through a written or verbal agreement. Here we have provided some examples as food for thought.
Consideration: There must be something of value exchanged between the parties on both sides of relationship. One must give of self in order to “get”
Capacity: All parties involved must have the capacity to enter into a contract, meaning they must be of legal age and mentally competent. While we would love for contracts to be legal unfortunately they are not legal in a court of law.
Purpose: The contract must be for a purpose and formed within a safe, sane and consensual relationship.

Negotiations are a crucial part of the contract process, allowing parties to discuss and reach mutually agreeable terms. Here are some techniques and guides to help you navigate the negotiation process:

Contract Sample 1 

An example of a simple D/s contract. just remember BDSM contacts are not legally binding in a court of law

Contract Sample 2 

A more complicated example of a M/s contract

Contract Sample 3

An example of a temporary BDSM poly contract.

BDSM Rights 

Know your rights with a Femdom relationship.


Do you know your safe word with your Mistress/submissive?


Safe, sane and consensual V’s Risk-Aware Consensual Kink

Limits & negotiations

Both Dominants and submissives can express limits. What are your partners?

Partner check list

When it comes to engaging in BDSM activities, communication and consent are key. One effective tool that can help facilitate this is a BDSM partner checklist. This checklist is a comprehensive list of activities, preferences, limits, and boundaries that each partner can fill out and discuss together. It serves as a starting point to get to know your partner on a deeper level and establish open lines of communication.

Abuse and P.E 

Abuse and erotic power exchange, know the dangers. A contract is a (non legal) binding agreement between two or more parties that outlines the rights and obligations of each party involved. It establishes the terms and conditions of the agreement or relationship, ensuring that all parties are aware of their responsibilities and the consequences of not fulfilling them.

Explicit Implicit 

Explicit Consent / Implicit consent Play considerately and consensually. Prepare and Research: Before entering into negotiations, it is essential to gather information about the other party, their needs, and their expectations. This will help you formulate a strong position and understand potential areas of compromise.
Set Clear Objectives: Clearly define your goals and priorities for the negotiation. This will help you stay focused and avoid getting sidetracked during the process.
Active Listening: Pay close attention to the other party’s concerns and interests. By actively listening, you can identify common ground and find solutions that meet both parties’ needs.
Flexibility: Be open to compromise and alternative solutions. Negotiations often involve give and take, and being flexible can lead to a more successful outcome.

Contracts, negotiations, and rights are essential components of any D/s transaction. By understanding the techniques and guides involved in these areas, you can navigate the process with confidence, ensuring that your interests are protected. Remember to carefully review contracts, negotiate effectively, and be aware of your rights throughout the process. With these tools in hand, you can approach contracts, negotiations, and rights with a sense of trust and assurance that they will serve you well .

Want some printable contracts and helpful negotiation forms? We have many downloads within the 100% Free community walls covering many different areas and styles.
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