Sex Toys and Equipment uses

A selection of “How to ‘s” of sex toys and Femdom equipment uses, articles, & reviews

a collection of sex toys

The Beginner’s Guide to Vibrators

Vibrators do something no human body can. They move faster, more consistently, and for longer periods of time than any fingers ever could and by simply adding extra stimulation to sex play vibrators can be a wonderful addition to sex and Femdom play. Anyone can use a vibrator, they aren’t made for certain genders or certain kinds of bodies, they’re made for a function. If you’re new to vibrators you’ll find answers to common questions about vibrators, tips on how to choose vibrators, vibrator safety tips, and how to use vibrators for male and females, with or with out a Femdom play partner. How to use them internal. what ones to choose and more.

The beginner’s Guide to leather care 

Our bondage sex toys and clothing bring us so much joy. The better we care for them, the longer they’ll give us pleasure. Techniques for you to keep your toys in tip top condition.


The beginners guide condoms, dedicated to the prevention of AIDS/HIV.

Anal beads

Ok, I have anal beads, what now, how do I use Anal beads? Anal beads are a sex toy consisting of multiple balls attached in series. Individual balls are continuously inserted through the anus into the rectum and then removed with varying speeds depending on the desired effect. The main use of anal beads are for sexual stimulation.

first anal toy 

When it comes to buying your first anal plug, it’s important to consider the size that is right for you. The size of the plug can greatly impact your comfort and overall experience. Here are some factors to keep in mind

Strap on Harness 

A strap-on harness is a versatile sex toy that allows individuals to engage in strap-on play. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced user Here we provide some steps to help you use a strap-on harness. How to find the perfect fit for you. What materials you should consider and what system or attachment. Remember, practice makes perfect when it comes to using a strap-on harness. Take your time, explore different positions, and enjoy the experience with your partner. when you engaging in strap-on play, have an open and honest conversation with your partner about their desires, boundaries, and consent. Mutual communication and consent are essential for a pleasurable experience.


what lube for what occasion? there is ALWAYS time for lube!

cock rings 

Do i need a Cock ring, how do they work, should I watch for warnings. How the heck do I pick one to start?

benwah balls

How do you use these benwah thingies?

Cleaning sex toys 

Looking after your toys and safety so they look after you.


Gags are devices that are inserted into the mouth to muffle sound & increase the feeling of helplessness. Gags come in many sizes, shapes & materials. Everything from the ball gag to the penis gags to inflatable gags. Gag and muzzle play is wonderful for a variety of bondage and dungeon scenes or to spice up bedroom fun too. Gags are a very powerful instrument, when used in the correct way and for the right purpose, both from a psychological point of view (usually their main purpose) as well as from a purely physical and practical point of view. Many submissives find that being gagged exacerbates their sense of helplessness within a BDSM / Femdom scene, and desire to be gagged for that reason. Gags also have connotations of punishment and control, and are therefore often also used as a form of humiliation to the wearer.

Clothes pegs/pins  more ideas Clips & clamps –

How long can I wear nipple clamps? what kind? where to use clamps? How do I turn these into a scene.

silicone toys

What materials are better for toys

Disabilities & toys 

Ideas, hints, tips, resources for disabilities. An ongoing resource.

Chastity Devices 

history of use, hints, tips and ideas.

please note: Many more ideas, hints, tips and discussions are located in Free Video and PDF download section within the Free Femdom Community

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