Relationship and Dating hints, tips, articles for R/T & online

How to techniques, guides & advice

Dating red flags 

Meet someone and want to move it to real time, what red flags to watch out for in Femdom relationships.

Beginning real time 

Where do I start? Going to your first munch, what to wear, what to do. what to expect.

Warning signs 

Is it right I’m treated this way? I’m not sure is it supposed to be this way?

Seeking a ProDom 

Advice from a ProDomina on how to find your perfect match. Are you considering seeking the services of a professional dominatrix, commonly known as a ProDomme? Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but it is crucial to approach it with caution and awareness. In this article, we will discuss the highs and lows of engaging with a ProDomme and provide some guidance on what to watch out for and what to do. You’ll find contained within our Community a more in-depth article.

Finding a Domme

Do you need to find Mrs. Right and not just Miss Right now try some of these ideas. with the right advise you’ll it a much easier task.


Spotting fakes and players online in the Femdom world. Learn how to spot fakes and players in the online Femdom community. Follow these tips to ensure a safer and more enjoyable experience. Trust your instincts, do your research, and seek community support. Prioritize your safety and well-being in the online Femdom world.

D/s & Children 

How can I do this with children?

kink and kids

What do I tell my children? Should I even tell them? I don’t know what to do

Online Cyber 

How to find an online cyber Domme. In the world of BDSM, finding a compatible Domme for online cyber domination can be an exciting and fulfilling experience. This article provides steps to help you find the perfect match, including researching your own interests, joining online communities, utilizing online domination websites, attending virtual events and workshops, and establishing clear communication and boundaries. Take the time and patience to find a Domme who aligns with your desires and enjoy a fulfilling journey of online cyber domination.

Cam play

Cam play pros and cons, hints and tips for Femdom and BDSM

Sell Yourself

How To Write An Attractive Online Dating Profile. Learn how to write an attractive online dating profile that captures attention and gets results. Follow these tips to sell yourself effectively, showcase your interests, use positive language, be specific, show instead of telling, keep it concise, and update regularly. Your online dating profile is your chance to make a great first impression. Good luck! Still having no luck we have a complete Free eLearning program called “Help me find your Domme” located in t he community

Dating site terms

A starting point in trying to figure them out

BDSM break ups

Break ups can become messy, Femdom relations are no exceptions

New partners

Before Playing With Someone New in Femdom do you know what your looking for or how to keep safe?

Civility N Incivility

Civility and Incivility in the BDSM Scene. Not everyone gets along in the scene nor do they always agree. There is only one thing we all should agree on and that is safety within play.

Poly Relationships

An Introduction to Polyamorous Relationships. Explore the dynamics and opportunities of polyamorous relationships within the context of Femdom. Learn about the benefits, personal growth, and self-discovery that come with embracing consensual non-monogamy. Discover the importance of communication and consent in navigating these unique relationships. Find out how polyamory can create diverse and meaningful connections while maintaining the power dynamic of Femdom.

Cams for Couples 

Webcams are not only for individuals. Cam play can be a wonderful way for couples to safely explore together the world of Poly.

Exploring Fantas

Exploring Sexual Fantasy for Couples: Using the Internet as Training Wheels

Love At First Site 

Match-making has come of age.

Ethnic Differences

Negotiating Racial and Ethnic Differences Online

Online Affairs 

Online Affairs Are They Real? Are they wrong?

Online Sexuality

Online sexuality a place to grow


Recovering After an Erotic Line is crossed. Exploring one’s sexuality can be a fulfilling and exhilarating experience. However, there are times when boundaries may be crossed, leaving individuals feeling violated or uncomfortable. Recovering from such an experience is crucial for one’s emotional and mental well-being.

Online play 

Sexual Fantasy Online: Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

Flirting Online 

The Art of Flirting For the Social Networker: How to Transition from Online To Real Time

Social Media 

The New Social Media and Relationship

BDSM Munches 

How do I find my local scene in the USA. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, coffee shop, or other public setting. A munch organizer usually reserves a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing and meeting like-minded individuals. Munches are intended as opportunities for those who are curious about kink to meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed.

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