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This is a work in progress..it might always be in progress! This is a listing of places, organizations, clubs, etc, all with useful information and where you can find and get involved with your local scene. Listings include both pansexual and exclusive groups.

Note–PLEASE do not send listings of professional dungeons, pro doms, or BDSM-related businesses.This page is simply a guide to where people can meet and get involved.

Helpful hint–I’ll list them if you send them, but Yahoo discussion groups, pages on Geocities, Angelfire, etc, have a brief life span due to the growing anti-adult censorship of those web communities. You’re better off having your page hosted by an adult friendly (or at least indifferent) provider.

Also, please do not send date-specific listings of anything that’ll expire–trying to keep this page a resource for ongoing groups/organizations.

NOTE:Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of Geocities etc, we apologize for the inconvenience. We will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.

National: General Resources

  • Acme BDSM: no, not what Wile E Coyote did with the Roadrunner! This is a web resource and discussion page for the BDSM community.
  • Aggressive AIDS Prevention: nonprofit corporation dedicated to raising awareness of HIV/AIDS, encouraging HIV antibody testing, and promoting HIV Negative maintenance through Media.
  • The BDSM Events Page: lists time-sensitive information on events and a few international listings–very good resource
  • BDSM Partner Registry: An idea long overdue–an online gift registry for those of us in the lifestyle!
  • Black Beat Inc: an independent, non-profit, social organization founded by African American members of the D/s, BDSM and Leather community nationwide. Black BEAT strives to cultivate safe, sane, consenting adults (21 years and older) with alternative lifestyle and sexuality interests via culture, education, development, support, and event planning.
  • Bound: branches in Washington, DC as well as Baltimore MD, Tampa, FL, Richmond, VA, New Haven, CT. (NYC, Chicago, Philadelphia, San Francisco and Seattle by Oct 1998). *European* branches: Reykjavik, Iceland, Stockholm Sweden, and Prague CZ.
  • BDSM Events: mailing lists of local BDSM events, also has international listings
  • BDSM Travelers: BDSM Travelers is a directory of friendly, travel-loving people in the BDSM lifestyle who offer each other the gift of hospitality in their homes. Members from around the world offer their hospitality to other members at no charge. These hosts, in turn, are received when they travel.
  • BDSM Village: an online cyber ‘village’ & resource center, but supports RL events and workshops as well in various locations.
  • The Beacon E-Zine: Online bi-monthly newsletter and calendar of BDSM events for the SE US. Covers Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Florida, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina and Tennessee.
  • Chamber Door; good article/educational resource Dom sub Lifestyle: online bi-monthly newsletter and international calendar of BDSM events, groups, and group listings.
  • DS Kiosk Power Exchange Resource Center
  • The Fetish Alliance: education & support resource
  • Immediate Family: an Alternative Lifestyle Safehouse/Rescue project with affiliate houses throughout the US, Canada and the UK.
  • International Deaf Leather; P.O. Box 30286, Columbus OH 43230.
  • The Fireside Society: network for women and couples into BDSM in NC, SC, VA, and GA
  • Kink Aware Professionals
  • The Kinky Lawyer: legal resource page, as it applies to us kinky folk.
  • Kinky Tax: A kink friendly tax lawyer to help with the non-consential sadism practiced by the IRS.
  • National Leather Association
  • International Association of Rubberists
  • The Kinky Links Directory: I don’t list ‘professional’ Dominants or Dungeons on this page, but this guide is an excellent resource to that part of the scene.
  • Lifestyle Choices Legal Resources Center: an organization to assist those who live an alternative BDSM lifestyle, whose lifestyle is being made an issue in a court of Law, on the job or at home.
  • Romantic Hotels: a directory of Romantic, Adult and Theme Room Hotels in the US and Canada for romantic getaway spots. Decent resource for kinky folks travelling, or for those who arent into the dungeon/play party scene but still want to do something a little different for a scene.
  • SM Sex–Safely: the STOP AIDS Project. Targets gay and bisexual men, but this BDSM resource has material that is appropriate for anyone involved in BDSM/kink practices.
  • Submissive Women Speak: Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.
  • Subs For Dommes: The largest BDSM community in the world exclusive to Female Dommes and male/female subs and slaves dedicated to Female Domination. The site is free to all lifestyle Dommes,subs,slaves, switches. It is unique in design and membership includes email, access to all chatrooms, blogs, forums, profiles and every part of the site. The site also offers flash chatrooms, 3D chatrooms and a virtual city.
  • Sweet Surrender: online adult BDSM education site

Alabama

  • AlabamaFemDom-Malesub; play parties, social gatherings, and demonstrations.
  • Bound for Pleasure; North Alabama PanSexual Group devoted to the education and support of the BDSM Lifestyle.
  • Birmingham: Birmingham Leather/Fetish Society; A Pansexual lifestyle group promoting Leather solidarity and activism in Central Alabama and around the region.
  • The Red Chair; adult pan-sexual BDSM education, discussion and social group. Email rdchair@aol.comfor info.
  • Huntville: NASSA; North Alabama Spanking and Social Alternatives, pansexual support, education, & munch group.
  • Alabama Daddies/Girls Club(1ADGC); Group dedicated to educating and learning everything that can be shared between consenting adults concerning the Daddy/littlegirl concept.
  • Binding Ties; personal ad/discussion group, also holds RL munches in the Huntsville, Decatur, & Madison areas.
  • NAPEX; North Alabama Power Exchange
  • Montgomery: Central Alabama Power Exchange; pansexual, alternative lifestyle group with particular interests in B D S M and D/s and dedicated to Safe, Sane and Consensual aspects of the lifestyle.
  • Pelham: Steel City Centurions; men’s group, email for info.
  • Sylacauga: DARE; social group
  • Tuscaloosa: TuscaloosaALG; Alternative Lifestyles Group located in the Tuscaloosa area. Mainly a BDSM & D/s group, but all are welcome.

Alaska

Arizona

Arkansas

California

  • Calendar of BDSM California Events
  • Southern California Munch Group
  • The Gathering: Southern California socials
  • SOCalMunch; SoCalMUNCH covers the following areas: Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, & the Westshores of the Salton Sea.
  • Northern California BDSM: social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality.
  • Bakersfield: Bakersfield BDSM Group Munch
  • Berkeley: Womanlink International; women’s group, 2124 Kittredge #257, Berkeley CA 94704.
  • Central California: Chosen Lifestyle
  • Canoga Park: MP Bands; P.O. Box 2843, Canoga Park, CA 91306
  • Chico: Chico BDSM Munch
  • El Cerrito: La Madrona; femdom couple’s group, P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito CA 94530.
  • Fairfield: Munch, first Sunday of each month, email for info.
  • Los Angeles: Avatar Club
  • C.C.Inc; BDSM socials, run by the same people behind Conquest and Fetish X. Also weekly BDSM membership only parties at Lair de Sade
  • Dualities; discussion and munch group for switches
  • Eagle LA; Formerly The Gauntlet II, the Eagle L.A. is Los Angeles’ hottest Levi/Leather bar. Always upholding the Leather/Uniform/Fetish ethic, with the hottest leathermen in town.
  • MAsT L.A; A support and discussion group for gay men interested in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship.
  • Lair de Sade; A private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of BDSM lifestylers. Over 6,700 square feet. multiple buildings, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and basement. 30+ playstations with exquisite BDSM furniture and equipment. Outside patio for socializing and smoking features cast iron patio heaters and a firepit.
  • LA Pups; social group for all human pups/dogs, Handlers/Trainers/Owners of human pups, or anyone that has an interest in human pups. The group is open to all genders and orientations.
  • Los Angeles boys of leather; a group of submissives who are in service to the local leather community. The term “leatherboy” can refer to people of any age, gender, appearance or sexual orientation who share a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community.
  • Los Angeles Girls of Leather; LAgoL is a group focused on providing a welcoming space for leathergirls and to provide service to our local Leather/BDSM community. Leather girls are men and women who find joy in being of service to others. We are slaves, submissives, and bottoms with a feminine heart and include service people of all genders and sexual orientations.
  • LA Leather Coalition; A pansexual coalition of leather and fetish identified businesses and motorcycle, educational, social and uniform organizations. The LALC facilitates communication and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather/fetish-affiliated community, and promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.
  • Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women; A women’s group devoted to the educational and social well-being of the women’s BDSM, leather, and fetish communities. LARAWW welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their sexual orientation or preference. We provide high quality educational programs and information, play parties and social gatherings.
  • NLA-Los Angeles; 7985 Santa Monica Blvd 109-217, West Hollywood CA 90046
  • PLAY; A social and educational group for leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality; provides spiritual outreach to the leather/fetish community; fosters leather/fetish understanding within the larger spiritual community. PLAY is open to all adults without regard to gender, age, race, religious/spiritual affiliation or sexual orientation.
  • Trident International; 1064 Myra Avenue, #32, Los Angeles, CA 90026
  • The Threshold Society; non-profit social & educational organization
  • Lower Lake: Alternative Lake County CA; online magazine. Also holds BDSM classes and workshops. Contact: jwolf@usa.com
  • Marina Del Rey: Threshold; 2554 Lincoln Blvd PMB 1004, Marina Del Rey CA 90291 Phone: (818) 782-1160
  • Lake County Munch
  • Lompoc: Lompoc Valley Power Exchange; pansexual munch group, email LVPX-owner@yahoogroups.com for info.
  • Marysville: Marysville Yubacity Munch group. Email: Sierraflowr@comcast.net
  • Milpitas: MilPitas PlAyers
  • Modesto: The Modesto Discussion Group
  • Monterey: Monterey Bay Kinksters; munches in Monterey & Moss Landing.
  • Stile di vita; Stile di vita (Italian for ‘lifestyle’) Supports the Male Dominant/female submissive community in California’s South Bay providing an intellectual approach to D/s and M/s lifestyles.
  • North Bay: Munch, third Sunday of each month, email for info.
  • Orange County: Under Ground Leather Association; private membership association, but holds discussion meetings open to the general public
  • Orange County Munch Group: Pansexual BDSM Group
  • Palo Alto/Sunnyvale: The Munch
  • Petaluma: North Bay Third Sunday Munch
  • Redding: munch group for northern CA, meets the last Friday of each month. Email MDW@charter.net for details.
  • Riverside: Paddlers of Southern California; PSC is a discussion list & munch group for adults in the Southern California area who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
  • Sacramento: EroticEdge: BDSM discussion group, especially for newcomers.
  • FemDommes of Sacramento; open to all submissives and Femdommes
  • Sacramento Valley Leathercorps; gay men’s and women’s group
  • “T”ransitions
  • San Bernardino: Phoenix Alternative; pansexual BDSM education and social organization.
  • San Diego: Club X; P. O. Box 3092, San Diego, CA 92163 Phone: (619) 685-5149 Email: info@clubxsd.org
  • San Diego Social; meets and greets once a month.
  • San Fernando Valley Munch
  • San Francisco: Cogent Warriors; women’s group, 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114
  • Constantines of the Bay Area; men’s group
  • Defenders San Francisco; Catholic leather society
  • El Cerrito Munch; 3rd monday’s, 7 pm at Carrow’s Restaurant, 6120 Potrero at San Pablo Ave
  • The Exiles; P.O. Box 31266, San Francisco CA 94131 Phone: (415)487-5170
  • Fifteen Association; men’s group, P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142
  • The Forum of San Francisco; coalition of motorcycle and leather clubs
  • Leathermen’s Discussion Group: located at EROS, 2051 Market St., near Church St., San Francisco
  • Links; 207 Gough Street, #58, San Francisco, CA 94102 Phone: (415) 695-7955 or (415) 703-7159
  • Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness; BDSM online discussion / munch group for People of Color and the people who like them
  • ; classes, discussion groups, and dungeon parties.
  • ; Lists upcoming events for the mens community along with other information, including an overview of the neighborhood for visitors.
  • San Francisco Girls of Leather; SFgoL provides a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls; educates the community about leathergirls; supports activities within the leather community. Leathergirls are people with a girl’s heart, whose primary self-identity is girl. The girl identity is not limited by bio sex, gender, or sexual orientation.
  • Service of Mankind Church; P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito, CA 94530 Phone: (510) 232-1369
  • The Stampede; The Bay Area Human Animal Roleplay Society
  • Power Exchange Sex Clubs
  • San Francisco Leather Online; listing of leather clubs and events
  • Society of Janus; P.O. Box 411523, San Francisco, CA 94141 Email: janus@soj.org
  • San Jose: Santa Clara County Leather Association, email mssccla2000@leatherspace.com
  • Edges; play space, also hosts play parties
  • Leather WISDOM; women’s group, P.O. Box 2519, Santa Clara CA 95055.
  • SM Odyssey; Pansexual organization that holds educational classes every month, Includes the San Jose Munch, mens/women/pansexual discussion groups and Play Parties.
  • Southern Cross
  • Santa Clarita: Santa Clarita Munch
  • Santa Cruz: Santa Crux Munch
  • Studio City: Shadow Lane
  • Vacaville/Fairfield: Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch
  • Vallejo: The Overlook; offers a monthly event as well as provides event listings in the Northern California area.

Colorado

Connecticut

Delaware

Florida

Georgia

Hawaii

Idaho

Illinois

  • Central Illinois: Leatherpalooza; BDSM education and events.
  • Chicago: Chicago Leather Club; pansexual organization that provides a supportive, social, and educational environment for the Levi/leather, BDSM, and fetish communities.
  • Chicago Far North Shore Munch Group
  • Chicago Hellfire Club; men’s group, P.O. Box 5426, Chicago, IL 60680
  • Crimson Moon Ltd: spanking resource & party site
  • Dedicated and Safe: membership pansexual group, hosts seminars, parties
  • Galleria Domain; BDSM membership club
  • Leather Archives; “Our Mission: The compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather lifestyle and related lifestyles [including but not limited to the Gay and Lesbian communities], history, archives and memorabilia for historical, educational and research purposes.”
  • Leather United-Chicago; P.O. Box 81288, Chicago, IL 60681-1288 Phone: 773-486-5499 Email: LeatherUN@aol.com
  • Leather SINS Social Club; Leather SINS is Leather Social Interaction of the North Shore, a Chicago area Dinner Group which meets twice monthly as well as presenting other functions throughout the year.
  • BDSM Chicago; Features CRAM (Chicago rope and mummification group) and CHISM (Chicago BDSM community calendar).
  • LRA BDSM Leather Club; welcomes alternative lifestyles in Chicagoland and suburbs whatever your orientation: heterosexual bisexual homosexual or interest: Dominant submissive Master slave Top bottom spanking fetish.
  • Midwest Submissive Discussion Group
  • Submission Of Love; submissive’s support group
  • Decatur: BCI Pearls of Wisdom; A pansexual discussion group for people 21 years and older to discuss the realtime lifestyle of D/s and b/d/s/m living in central illinois and the surrounding areas. Monthly Munches.
  • Moline-Rock Island: Riverbound–Quad Cities BDSM
  • Rockford: REALM –Rockford and Extended Area Lifestyle Munch
  • Springfield: L.I.N.K.S; Like-minded Individuals Networking for Knowledge and Satisfaction. We meet on the third Saturday of every month for a munch/social in a local restaurant. Members host their own private play parties and are by invitation only.

Indiana

  • Northern Indiana: Northern Indiana Power Exchange: lifestyle group based in Northern Indiana and welcomes others from areas near by including Ohio, Michigan amd Illinois.
  • Northern Indiana Kink
  • Club Fem Indy; a N/P social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female dominant/male submissive relationships.
  • Bloomington: Headspace; pansexual group, serving IU students and the rest of the community
  • Evansville: Evansville Munch Bunch
  • Common Grounds; pansexual social & educational group
  • Fort Wayne: Fort Wayne Munch; bi-monthly munches, monthly play parties, and feature a submissive’s group that meets monthly, and a Dominant’s group that hasn’t begun to have meetings yet.
  • NEILA; North East Indiana Leather Association
  • Summit City Munch
  • Indianapolis:
  • Andromeda; social and educational group for lesbians, butches/femmes, gender queers, bisexuals, and transsexual/transgender persons* in the Central Indiana area who are interested in kink, B/D, D/S, S/M, etc.
  • IMAS (Indiana Masters and slaves/submissives/switches) ; munch group
  • NLA Indianapolis: 1310 Oakland Ave., Indianapolis IN 46201
  • The Indy Slosh; informal BDSM group
  • NLA Indianapolis
  • Sweet Misery, P O Box 11690, Indianapolis, IN 46201-0690
  • Lafayette: Lafayette Munch
  • Muncie: Club DOMINION; pansexual fetish nightclub/dungeon (this club seems to be in limbo right now)
  • Merrillville: Hood and Leash of Indiana; group of Gor and D/s Lifestyle friendly people who like to gather and learn from each other. Bi-monthly meetings.
  • South Bend: ALM; Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana

Iowa

Kansas

Kentucky

Louisiana

  • Alexandria: Central Louisiana BDSM mailing list, send email to CenLaBDSM@egroups.com.
  • Baton Rouge: Red Stick Volunteer Players
  • Lafayette: Acadiana Power Exchange
  • Lake Charles: BDSM_Lake_Charles; BDSM support and social group
  • New Orleans: Club Fem NOLA; Femdom – malesub group
  • NOBLE; non-profit pansexual support, play and social group
  • Society les Femdommes; FemDomme group based in southeast Louisiana serving Female Dominants, male submissives and female submissives.
  • Shreveport: S_portdungeon; education & support group serving the Shreveport region and all of Northern Louisiana.
  • Delightful Dungeon; Pansexual D/s, BD S&M group in the Shreveport-Bossier City area.
  • Different Delights; pansexual 21& over support, education, and social group. Holds monthly munches, educational meetings, and coffee get togethers 3 times a month.
  • SWORD; Shreveport Women Of Regal Dominance, a fem Domme group and their subs, educating and supporting those in the Fem Dom lifestyle

Maine

Maryland

Massachusetts

  • Alston: The K.M. Society; P.O. Box 66, Alston MA 02134.
  • Boston: Boston Burgermunch; email for info.
  • New England Dungeon Society
  • Common Bond; women’s group, P.O. Box 390313, Boston MA 02139.
  • Bound For Pleasure; a New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light.
  • Defenders Boston: Catholic leather society, 55 E. Springfield St., Boston, MA 02118
  • New England NLA
  • One Nation Underground: information/ power exchange group for the BDSM/leather lifestyles
  • Boston-The Next Generation of Kinksters; pansexual BDSM group for motivated kinky individuals age 18-35 that is dedicated to education, outreach, and an enriching social environment within the leather community.
  • Braintree: SouthShore Munch; egroups list. Holds a munch 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month.
  • Cambridge: MOB New England; Women’s play and social group.
  • Charlestown: Boston United Leather Legion; A gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender group, P.O. Box 287, Charlestown MA 02129.
  • Hadley: Bound and Determined, women’s group, P.O. Box 602, Hadley MA 01035.
  • Medford: Urania; women’s group, P.O. Box 501, Medford MA 02155.
  • Northampton: East Coast FTM Group; P.O. Box 60585, Florence Station, Northampton, MA 01060
  • Links: pansexual group, meets monthly at Intimicies in downtown Northampton.
  • Northampton Alt; adult social group
  • North Dartmouth: FLAG (Fits Like A Glove); glove fetish organization, predominantly gay male, but it is not limited to men or gay.
  • Shelix; women’s group, P.O. Box 416, Northampton, MA 01060-0416
  • Randolph: The Esoterica Society; P.O. Box 37, Randolph, MA 02368
  • Saugus: munch, contact Darkskyfire@aol.com for info
  • Springfield: The Western Massachusetts Power Exchange
  • WMPE-The Next Generation; for lifestylers 18-35.
  • WMPE Submissive Discussions; submissive only support group
  • Taunton: munch, held the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month. Email Swtchr2@aol.com for info.
  • Waltham: Northeast Spanking Society; couples only group
  • Worcester: Worcester Women’s Munch

Michigan

Minnesota

Mississippi

Missouri

Montana

Nebraska

Nevada

  • Las Vegas: Delicious Decadence; egroup that aims to enlighten and introduce interested & curious people from all walks of life into the enticing world of Ds.
  • CHIX; Women’s BDSM egroup, created to unite, connect and address the lifestyle issues, concerns and direction of all women – whatever vocation, sexual preference, orientation, size or inclination.
  • Dungeon Kink: A private Las Vegas play party group for SSC adults into D/s, BDSM.
  • Las Vegas BDSM Lifestyle Group: A BDSM Lifestyle Group that values Protocol and Ritual, for the Lifestyler in Las Vegas and surroundings, Singles and Couples alike, who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.
  • Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas; pansexual leather group dedicated to Education, Socializing, and Community Service.
  • Pau’Hana – The Club in the Lava Lounge; has a weekly fetish night, located at Hawaiian Marketplace, 3743 S. Las Vegas Blvd, Las Vegas, NV 89109
  • Polished Collar Society; private association of like-minded individuals sharing in the experience of learning and practicing the ritualistic aspects of BDSM.
  • Twisted Vanilla; real-life/time BDSM-D/s lifestyle group based in Southern Nevada (Las Vegas/Pahrump), offering support and social activities for those interested in BDSM and D/s lifestyles, and especially those interested protocols, respects and servitudes under the practices of “Old World” Mistresses and Masters. Parties, munches and slave training available to those who are honorable and discrete.
  • Shibari
  • Sin City DS Network: egroup for all Las Vegas area individuals at least 21 years of age interested in Dominance and submission, and BD/SM activities for the purpose of meeting and maintaining contact.
  • Reno: Northern Nevada Free Lifestyles; adult munch and social group.

New Hampshire

New Jersey

New Mexico

New York

North Carolina

  • Northeastern NC: ASKNENC; lifestyle munch group for Northeast NC, as well as Southeast Virginia
  • Asheville: The Asheville Area Group; pansexual social group. Address: TAAG, PO Box 2372, Leicester, NC 28748.
  • Charlotte: Charlotte Area Power Exchange; a not-for-profit pansexual organization in the south central Piedmont area of North Carolina for people who share an interest in BDSM.
  • Black Garden; pansexual BDSM group w/ weekly get togethers. bi monthly rope suspension ‘shows’, regular club nights, irregular private play parties, see link and calendar for details
  • Purgatory; bi-monthly fetish party, with rotating themes
  • Tradesmen, Inc; men’s group, P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte NC 28204.
  • Tradesman, Inc; P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte, NC 28204
  • Raleigh-Durham: Safe, Sane, Consensual Network (SSCN); SSCN is a not-for-profit BDSM organization dedicated to providing education, support, and a social network for its contributors in a safe, responsible, and discretion-conscious environment.
  • Wilmington: Domme Beach; femdom (and admirers!) social group.
  • WHIP
  • WINK: private alternative lifestyle group in southeastern North Carolina for Adults who practice SSC bdsm; for discussion, education, support and socializing.

North Dakota

Ohio

Oklahoma

Oregon

Pennsylvania

Rhode Island

  • Providence: Aces; P.O. Box 261, Annex Station, Providence RI 02901.
  • Hathor’s Garden; weekly club fetish night
  • RI Enforcers: leather group for gay men, bi people, TGs and lesbians, dedicated to being a brotherhood/sisterhood in leather and raising funds for local AIDS charities.

South Carolina

South Dakota

Tennessee

Texas

Utah

  • Salt Lake City:
  • The Path; friendly pansexual group that delivers organised “how to” BDSM lectures and classes
  • Utah Power Exchange (UPEX); pansexual r/t group
  • Wasatch Leathermen; men’s group, P.O. Box 1311, Salt Lake City, UT 84110

Vermont

  • Brattleboro/Keene NH: Darkstoneds; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
  • Rose & Thorn Northern Vermont BDSM Parties; This is a friendly gathering of people who are active in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. This is an opportunity to meet friends (and singles) who are on the same page. This is NOT a “play” party but an opportunity to build a community of like-minded people.
  • Vermont Society of Kink; holds a Soiree the First Friday of each month as well as a popular online discussion group.

Virginia

Washington

Washington D.C.

  • Black Rose; PO Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210-1161. Phone: (202) 686-5880
  • Bound: fetish, Goth, Industrial club, light BDSM play and lots of fetish gear and vendors. Locations in DC and Baltimore, home base is in DC.
  • Club Salo: fetish event for gays and lesbians (and those that like to play with them!)
  • The Crucible: BDSM nightclub, email or call 202-310-2100
  • DC Spanking; pansexual email list
  • Defenders; Catholic Leather Group, P O Box 33098, Washington, DC 20033
  • First of the Month Munch; email for info.
  • The Men of Discipline; PO Box 21090, Washington, DC 20009
  • PEP-Washington DC; P.O. Box 1160, Arlington VA 22210
  • The Power Exchange
  • The Resource Pool; education and discussion group for the DC, VA, and MD area. Also holds workshops.
  • SIGMA; men’s leather/bdsm/bondage social group, call (202)728-7589 for the Hotline, or email Sigmadc@aol.com for more info.

West Virginia

  • West Virginia Femdom: NEW, so new that you can still smell the paint, Femdom-oriented support group just trying to get off the ground.
  • Beckley: SMACK; for individuals in the Beckley, WV and surrounding areas who have a sincere interest in BD, D/s, and/or M/s relationships.
  • Clarksburgh/Bridgeport: WELTS; pansexual munch & support group
  • Glengary: WHIP; educational and social pansexual leather group
  • Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
  • Weirton: Tri State Munch; pansexual support & social group
  • Wheeling: WV Meet and greet, email bbw4urcmnd@aol.com for info.

Wisconsin

Wyoming

Lots of the sites listed on this resource have now closed due the closure of geosites and yahoo free pages we apologize for the inconvenience we will work at rebuilding this listing in the future.

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