
Lady Petra’s Playground Kinky Cocktail Hour…Come visit us at https://www.patreon.com/LadyPetrasPlayground or Email: Ladypetraplayground@gmail.com…Contact us with question, topic suggestions, guest suggestions and cocktail ideas.The “Kinky Cocktail Hour” podcast is not affiliated with “Kinky Beverages Alcohol Products.”
In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the conclusion of the section on Courtesans over Sexual Awakening.
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My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle.
While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his “manhood” locked in.
Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!
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This week, I’m breaking down something that every submissive man needs to hear: how to actually support your Domme’s confidence in real life. Not through fantasy. Not with surprise cages. But with mindset, consistency, and actual effort.
We talk about what real submission looks like—not just the sexy bits, but the communication, daily service, trust, and selflessness it takes to make a dominant woman feel secure, respected, and in charge. I also share personal stories (including a little toy action from Lovense), a whole list of actionable submission ideas, and why “helping your dominant feel dominant” is not about what gets you off—it’s about what gets her empowered.
Whether you're in a new dynamic, trying to reset a stale one, or just here for the sass and stories—this one’s got something for you.
What You'll Walk Away With:
- The difference between fantasy-led submission and actual service
- 5 non-tangible mindset shifts that build Domme confidence
- 5 tangible tasks that show love and strengthen FLR
- Why submissives are some of the strongest men out there
- How to build trust and security that leads to deeper intimacy
Questions This Episode Helps Answer:
- How do I support my dominant partner in an FLR?
- What makes a good submissive in real life?
- What does service submission look like day-to-day?
- What should I avoid doing as a new submissive?
- Is chastity required in a Female-Led Relationship?
- What are real-life tasks for submissive men?
- How do I build my wife’s confidence as a Domme?
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Also, my psuedo-autobiographical audio drama podcast ”Control” will ”re-debut” this spring as we drop the entire first season exclusively on Patreon!
Keywords:
domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, …


I promise you’ll learn something new about sex and sexuality, and you’ll have fun with it at the same time. Class is in session!
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Join Ms Harper for a discussion on Pride month’s history, including the Hirschfeld Institute, Stonewall, and Gay Liberation groups like Act Up, the Radical Faeries, and more! From history we moved into theory, with first Gay Liberation Theory and the more modern Queer Liberation Theory. Moving beyond heteronormativitiy and cisnormativity are great to think about, but it’s through Praxis that we put things into motion and make it real.
Learn about why Pride is called that, too… 😉


There are so many ways to practice female dominant sexuality (and male submissive sexuality) that fall outside the tongue-lashing, whip-wielding, leather-suited stereotype. Also, you never have to take yourself too seriously. Listen in as The Gentle Domme and assorted guests discuss different aspects of being, courting, dating, and pleasing a gentle femdom.
In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I also discuss ways to potentially lighten the emotional load for your Domme, and the sexy new outfits I bought in NOLA and now have to find a place to show off. I hope I didn’t lecture too much, unless you like that kind of thing.


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Black-Caribbean Domme/Switch discussing kink as a whole and the kink she lives. Female led relationship, Polyamory, non-monogamy,
Cover art photo provided by Big Daddy(Sir)
Hi My loves I am back. A lot has happened in the past year but I think its time I revamp the podcast.
Are you In?
