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In this episode. Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with He Who Desires and Discerning Slut about how their kink dynamic turned into red hot love over a Tequila Negroni.
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My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle.
While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his “manhood” locked in.
Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!
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This one’s for all of you trying to do it all.
I sat down with my subbie for a real-life, messy, honest talk about something we don’t hear enough about: what happens to your dynamic when you also have a family to raise? Can you still lead? Submit? Play? Hold space for kink and power exchange while also packing school lunches and managing bedtime routines?
This episode was sparked by an article I read on boldpleasures.com about parenting and equality—and it hit me hard. Because so much of what we do in our FLR works because we communicate. And also because we fumble. And figure it out. And get it wrong. And come back to each other.
So whether you’re trying to raise good humans while keeping your subbie in line, or just wondering if you can be a Domme and a damn good mom at the same time… let me tell you: you can. And I’ve got stories to prove it.
Inside This Episode:
- Why “submission” has zero place in parenting—but mutual respect does
- How we balance our FLR with equal parenting responsibility
- The quiet ways power dynamics can still show up at home
- What our daughter sees, what we want her to know, and how we talk about it
- How we stay connected when the schedule’s full and the sink’s overflowing
- The truth about being a “24/7 Domme” (spoiler: I’m usually barefoot and tired)
- How to raise kids with healthy examples of leadership, love, and emotional safety
- Why obedience doesn’t disappear just because the dishwasher needs emptying
Ask Yourself:
- What do your kids see when they watch you and your partner?
- Is there a clear understanding of power, love, and respect in your home?
- Are you creating the kind of relationship your children can learn from—not just tolerate?
- Do your dynamic and parenting style actually complement each other?
My Favorite Quote This Episode:
“I want my daughter to know she doesn’t have to do something she doesn’t want to do. I want her to be confident in her ability to say fucking no—and not feel guilty for someone else’s disappointment.”
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There are so many ways to practice female dominant sexuality (and male submissive sexuality) that fall outside the tongue-lashing, whip-wielding, leather-suited stereotype. Also, you never have to take yourself too seriously. Listen in as The Gentle Domme and assorted guests discuss different aspects of being, courting, dating, and pleasing a gentle femdom.
In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I also discuss ways to potentially lighten the emotional load for your Domme, and the sexy new outfits I bought in NOLA and now have to find a place to show off. I hope I didn’t lecture too much, unless you like that kind of thing.
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Black-Caribbean Domme/Switch discussing kink as a whole and the kink she lives. Female led relationship, Polyamory, non-monogamy,
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Hi My loves I am back. A lot has happened in the past year but I think its time I revamp the podcast.
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