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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of “About the Business of the Go Between” in ch 5 of the Kama Sutra, over a Green Fairy.
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My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle.
While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his “manhood” locked in.
Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!
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This week I’m talking directly to you, my beautiful dommes and the subs who serve them. Because as much as FLR is about power dynamics and structure, it’s also about real-life partnership—and that means growth on both sides.
We’re diving into how submissives can support their dominant partners, especially when the Domme is still finding her confidence, her rhythm, or her voice. Spoiler alert: you don’t have to start with thigh-high boots and whips. You start with communication, patience, and the courage to show up.
Also in this episode: a few raw truths about my chaotic life lately, why I’m done giving a flying fuck what people think on social, and what being called a “FLR Master” made me feel (spoiler: not super comfy).
What You'll Walk Away With:
- Tips on how subs can actively help their dommes grow in confidence
- A real look at what being dominant feels like (hint: it’s not automatic)
- How to build a relationship rooted in affirmation, not humiliation—unless that’s your thing
- The difference between fantasy and actual FLR dynamics
- Why this lifestyle is yours to design, not something to measure by anyone else’s rules
Google-Worthy Questions This Episode Helps Answer:
- How do I support my partner becoming a dominant in an FLR?
- What’s the difference between kink and female-led relationships?
- What does it mean to “top from the bottom”?
- How do I become a more confident Domme?
- What is a loving dominant?
- How do I punish my sub without being physical?
- What’s a good beginner
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Just what is a sissy purge, anyway? Can you learn to stop the Purge/Indulge cycle, and if you can, what would your future look like?
Listen to the recording of the Live podcast from April 13, 2025, and learn all about the reasons why people purge, the social utility of guilt and shame, and even some about disphoria/euphoria and the trans identity. Learn how to stop the purge/indulge cycle, and once more listen as Harper enjoins us all to try a little therapy.
There are so many ways to practice female dominant sexuality (and male submissive sexuality) that fall outside the tongue-lashing, whip-wielding, leather-suited stereotype. Also, you never have to take yourself too seriously. Listen in as The Gentle Domme and assorted guests discuss different aspects of being, courting, dating, and pleasing a gentle femdom.
In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I also discuss ways to potentially lighten the emotional load for your Domme, and the sexy new outfits I bought in NOLA and now have to find a place to show off. I hope I didn’t lecture too much, unless you like that kind of thing.
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Black-Caribbean Domme/Switch discussing kink as a whole and the kink she lives. Female led relationship, Polyamory, non-monogamy,
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Hi My loves I am back. A lot has happened in the past year but I think its time I revamp the podcast.
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