Carefully insert your finger or fingers into his anus. (wear gloves and use lube make sure he’s relaxed) Move them gradually up wards and to the back, along the area of the rectum towards the front of his body. Your fingers should be moving in roughly the direction of his navel. You will feel the …
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Reposted from ReginaMirus blog cira 2008Per special request, for Mistress Cruella. I promised I’d do this, now I’m delivering! I don’t profess to be the guru of p-spot stimulation, but I’d like to think that I’ve been pretty successful with it, so here’s what it is that I do. Key elements of a successful prostate massage: …
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What the hell is a harness? What type is the best for Femdom and pegging? So your partner has said he wants you to use a harness on him? Why does he want this? But I don’t know what to do ? Or where to start ?How do I use it? How about we start at the beginning…take a breath …
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Do you think of buying your first anal sex toy? Do not hurry and do not purchase the first anal sex toy you see. First of all you should take into account some things and answer some questions. This will help you to choose an anal sex toy which will suit you best and will …
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Beads for your butt? It may sound kind of crazy, but these special beads are designed to take advantage of the pleasant sensations that can occur as your sphincter muscles open and close around a series of small round objects. When withdrawn at the peak of orgasm, you may experience an erotic thrill unlike any …
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Few if any vibrators come with instruction manuals. On the one hand, you might think that no manual is necessary – after all shouldn’t you know how to use a vibrator? But if you’ve never used one, how exactly are you supposed to know how? Most people do manage to stumble their way to pleasure with a …
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On our studyBDSM training entertainment program “A taste of Cyber” it’s surprising the amount of subbies who have no idea I they could use a vibrator on themselves for play. They either thought vibrators only worked on women, or they weren’t for “guys like them.”Once most of these men gave vibrators a chance, they quickly became converts. …
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The art of ginger root play was written a few years ago by Master Michael aka Propane7@aol.com and appeared on many a BDSM site. Although it primarily aimed at Female submission the information transfers over to male submissives very well. I think it is worth repeating here for whose that have not seen it. When …
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A Beginner’s Guide to the basics Whether you’re trying to convince someone to have anal sex or trying to figure out how to do it in a gentle, pain free manner, there’s no better preparation that exploring anal play with yourself. Just remember MissBonnie and MissBitchs Anal mantra when it comes to anal play:“Communication, lubrication, …
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The beginners guide to oral sex it would be a cause for celebration if we were born with the intuitive set of sexual skills that we all pretend we have. Without stating it outright, our culture—via our parents, the media, and our peers—implies that sex and sexual skills should come naturally, with all but the …
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