Carefully insert your finger or fingers into his anus. (wear gloves and use lube make sure he’s relaxed) Move them gradually up wards and to the back, along the area of the rectum towards the front of his body. Your fingers should be moving in roughly the direction of his navel. You will feel the …
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Reposted from ReginaMirus blog cira 2008Per special request, for Mistress Cruella. I promised I’d do this, now I’m delivering! I don’t profess to be the guru of p-spot stimulation, but I’d like to think that I’ve been pretty successful with it, so here’s what it is that I do. Key elements of a successful prostate massage: …
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What the hell is a harness? What type is the best for Femdom and pegging? So your partner has said he wants you to use a harness on him? Why does he want this? But I don’t know what to do ? Or where to start ?How do I use it? Table of Contents Table of Contents Calm. Lets start …
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Table of Contents Do you think of buying your first anal sex toy? What kind of anal stimulation you like? Do you want to experience sensation of fullness in the anus? Do you want to experience more intensive anal stimulation? Consider the size Consider material Consider your budget Good luck! Do you think of buying …
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Table of Contents Beads for your butt? What Are Anal Beads? How Do They Work? How Do I Use Them? Beads for your butt? It may sound kind of crazy, but these special beads are designed to take advantage of the pleasant sensations that can occur as your sphincter muscles open and close around a …
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Table of Contents Time Required: Here’s How: Start on your own. Play with the lights on. Getting hot to trot. Turn on and tuning in.. Don’t rush: Explore every inch. Play with pressure. On point or flat out. Using a vibrator for penetration. Exploring penetration with a vibrator. Using your vibrator with a partner. Concerns …
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Table of Contents Time Required: Here’s How: Explode the myth. Start on your own. Play with the lights on. Getting hot to trot. Turn on and tuning in. Don’t rush: Explore every inch. Play with pressure. External vs. internal vibration. Shame External anal stimulation. Anal penetration with a vibrator. What if I get a vibrator …
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The art of ginger root play was written a few years ago by Master Michael aka Propane7@aol.com and appeared on many a BDSM site. Although it primarily aimed at Female submission the information transfers over to male submissives very well. I think it is worth repeating here for whose that have not seen it. When …
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A Beginner’s Guide to the basics Whether you’re trying to convince someone to have anal sex or trying to figure out how to do it in a gentle, pain free manner, there’s no better preparation that exploring anal play with yourself. Just remember MissBonnie and MissBitchs Anal mantra when it comes to anal play:“Communication, lubrication, …
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The beginners guide to oral sex it would be a cause for celebration if we were born with the intuitive set of sexual skills that we all pretend we have. Without stating it outright, our culture—via our parents, the media, and our peers—implies that sex and sexual skills should come naturally, with all but the …
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