How to techniques, guides & advice for submissive men and slaves
Of course all of our resource sections are needed by new submissives but often just a starting place is required. We have created this small section for those needing that place.
As MissBonnie likes to say “knowledge is a submissives shield”
BDSM Collars mean different things to different people. In the world of BDSM, collars hold significant meaning and symbolism. While the specific interpretation may vary from person to person, collars are often used to represent different aspects of power exchange and commitment within a Femdom relationship.
Submissive traits, chivalry or weakness? When it comes to discussing submissive traits, the question of whether they are manifestations of chivalry or weakness often arises. While some may view submission as a sign of weakness, others argue that it can be a noble and honorable trait associated with chivalry. Let’s delve deeper into this topic to gain a better understanding.
Subs if you can do this your Mistress will be pleased. submissives often look for new skills but they often over look the “self” work needed for perfect submission.
What is it? Subspace refers to the trancelike state some submissives experience during BDSM play. While subspace can feel different for different people, many describe it as feeling “light,” “floaty,” or “like mush.”
Does that mean “subspace” is just a fancy way to refer to dissociation? No! But there are some similarities. Both are out-of-body experiences that involve feeling disconnected from reality. The key difference is that most submissives claim subspace as a happy or euphoric rush, whereas dissociation can be a detachment from your whole being — including your ability to feel.
Understand what it is. How to work with it and how to treat it.
Food for thought, where do you see yourself and your submission. saving your a sub or slave can so many things to different people, but how do make sure your on the same page.
While the boundaries and dynamics of each relationship are unique, it’s important to recognize that being a sub or a slave is a personal choice. Submissives typically have more agency and control over their experiences, whereas slaves willingly give up their autonomy. Communication, trust, and consent are crucial in both roles to ensure the well-being and satisfaction of all parties involved.
It’s worth noting that the definitions and expectations of sub and slave can vary within the BDSM community. Some individuals may identify as switches, meaning they can switch between dominant and submissive roles, while others may prefer specific terms like “bottom” or “pet.” Ultimately, the most important aspect of any BDSM relationship is clear and ongoing communication to ensure that all parties’ desires and boundaries are respected.
You’re submissive, so what now? where do you go from here? What next? are you even making the right decisions?
How do I introduce my vanilla wife to D/s and start a Femdom marriage. Some sage advise from a Domme who has been there. Are they even possible and sustainable
Any man can become “multi-orgasmic”
does Erotic submission and desires undermine their masculinity?
Cross-dressing can be a way for individuals to explore different aspects of their identity and express themselves in ways that feel authentic to them. It allows them to play with gender norms and challenge societal expectations. It is important to create a safe and accepting environment where people feel free to express themselves without judgment or discrimination. At CNC we have a huge selection of resources on this topic
The importance of Honesty and trust
Explore the dynamics of Femdom relationships, focusing on the essential elements of honesty and trust. Learn how mutual consent, open communication, and respect for boundaries foster a healthy and fulfilling connection. Discover strategies for maintaining emotional intimacy and dealing with breaches of trust, ensuring a resilient and thriving relationship.
The Joy of Male Submission Within Femdom
Explore the psychological and emotional dimensions of male submission in Femdom relationships. Learn how trust, vulnerability, and the desire to please foster deep connections and mutual respect. Discover the benefits of male submission for both partners, including personal growth, emotional bonding, and a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and boundaries.
How a Male Femdom Submissive Can Protect Himself from Online Scammers
Understanding the Risks: Why Online Scams are Prevalent in the BDSM Community. Online scams have become increasingly prevalent within the BDSM community, particularly among male submissives seeking online Dommes. Several psychological and emotional factors contribute to this heightened vulnerability. Often, the desire for connection, validation, and unique sexual experiences can cloud judgment, making individuals more susceptible to deceit.
The Importance of Journaling Your Femdom Submission and Journey
Explore the vital role of communication in Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships and the impact of journaling. Learn how journaling, both traditional and digital, enhances understanding, trust, and intimacy. Discover different types of journaling, including development journaling, punishment journaling, and sex blogging, and the importance of maintaining authenticity in your entries for personal growth and deeper connections.
Topping from the Bottom: Why It’s Bad and When It’s Good in Femdom Scenes and Relationships
Topping from the Bottom (TFTB) in femdom relationships and BDSM scenes. Learn how TFTB can disrupt power dynamics, why most Dommes dislike it, and scenarios where it can be beneficial. Understand the importance of clear communication, setting boundaries, and creating a safe, consensual environment to maintain a healthy and fulfilling femdom relationship.
Navigating Guilt and Shame in Femdom BDSM: Embracing Your Kinks and Fetishes
Discover the intricate dynamics of Femdom BDSM, focusing on the importance of consent, ethical practices, and open communication. Learn to navigate feelings of guilt and shame when it comes to Femdom, understand their origins, and embrace your kinks and fetishes. Explore therapeutic approaches to manage these emotions and foster a fulfilling and safe BDSM experience.
studyBDSM & studyFemdom – Don’t forget we also have various Free Femdom/BDSM educational and emotional support programs on CollarNcuffs as well as various other features.
We can help you if you wish, you just need to reach out. Our community forum also offers mentoring and free cyber submission entertainment programs for those would like ‘a taste of cyber submission training’ or programs such as “Help me find my Mistress”
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Welcome to Our Femdom and BDSM Resource Hub
Welcome to our continually evolving resource hub dedicated to Femdom and BDSM.
If you are looking for comprehensive articles, guides, and updates on these topics, you are in the right place. Our commitment is to provide you with fresh and insightful content regularly, ensuring you have access to the latest information in the world of femdom and BDSM.
New Resources Added Every Few Days.
We understand the dynamic nature of the BDSM and femdom communities, which is why we strive to keep our resources current. Approximately every few days, you will find a new article or resource added to our collection. From beginner guides to advanced techniques, our goal is to cater to enthusiasts of all experience levels
Why You Should Check Back Often
By checking back often, you will not miss out on the latest trends, techniques, and discussions in the Femdom scenes. Our team works diligently to ensure that the content we provide is not only accurate but also engaging and informative. Whether you’re exploring new dynamics or looking to deepen your understanding, our regularly updated resources are here to support your journey.