Smoking fetishism (capnolagnia) is a sexual fetish consisting of the fetishization of the smoking of tobacco and marijuana. Among heterosexual men, the fetish is often associated with oral fixations and fellatio
The smoking fetish appears to be rare enough that its existence went largely unnoticed until the advent of the Internet, when fetishists began to meet online, trading pictures of smoking women, short stories, and reporting sightings or simply discussing their fascination on open forums. Some of the earlier news groups were alt.smokers.glamour (ASG) and alt.sex.fetish.smokers (ASFS).
![woman smoking](https://collarncuffs.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/smokingdomme.jpg)
In addition to free sites, often containing scans from magazines or candid pictures, there are a number of ‘professional’ sites offering DVDs and VHS tapes of trained models who smoke in front of the camera.
Some fetishists have a fascination with the addictive properties of nicotine, and its ability to cause harm, and there is a sub-fetish relating to women or men being harmed by smoking, sometimes called “lung damage”. For women this is seen in videos showing women smoking and coughing, suggesting self-destructiveness. More common videos are those showing a woman or a man in bondage, being forced to smoke or to inhale smoke. “Glamor” smoking and “dark side” smoking are the major divisions within the fetish. The glamor aspect of the fetish emphasizes the way smoking visually enhances women’s sexual appeal; the dark side links smoking to female domination, bondage and domination, and sadism/masochism. Both elements may be related to the appeal of the “bad girl” and the fantasy that even a “girl next door” type who smokes may be a tigress in the bedroom. A handful of producers specialize in videos appealing to one or both sides of the fetish.
The glamorous aspect of women’ smoking traditionally has had wide appeal, among the general population as well as among those who find it sexually arousing. This appeal has always been emphasized in cigarette advertising, and undoubtedly one reason young women have been drawn to smoking cigarettes. Historically considered a masculine habit, the feminization of smoking with the advent of fashion brands specifically marketed towards women has drawn the attention of fetishists who see the use of these brands as a way for women to increase or enhance their sexual appeal. Most often this fascination is focused on young fashion-conscious professional women who are the target demographic for these brands, which are differentiated by slimness and added length over traditional brands of cigarettes. Videos for the glamor smoking fetish are typically a model or models smoking, sometimes directly to the camera (representing the viewer) but more often with the camera as an observer. Sub-fetishes may include specific cigarette brands, types (corks, lengths), or holders (often with the woman wearing gloves).
The dark side of smoking emphasizes the dominance of the woman smoker, whether in BDSM fetish gear or as the “take charge” sadistic girlfriend. Videos produced for this aspect of the fetish often show a man in bondage with one or more women blowing smoke in his face, “ashing” him, forcing him to eat their ashes, and possibly being burned. Because of its relation to male humiliation and masochism, the dark side of the smoking fetish is most often combined with other fetishes, including corporal punishment. Dark side fetishists also include those whose attraction is to the lit cigarette (as an implement of pain) or to an ashtray of butts (as an object with which to humiliate him).
Ironically, as mainstream society has recognized the dangers of smoking, the effect has been to heighten interest in smoking fetishism. The more we recognize that smoking is bad for our health, the truer it becomes that only “bad” girls smoke, and the more attractive they become to the smoking fetishist.
Someone once posted a question to a group I belong too, asking what can I do to turn on a sub with a smoking fetish. I suggested the following: this is by no means a complete list but just meant as a starting place to feed your own ideas.
- . Having your bottom light your smoke… (In this and all following, “bottom” can be used interchangeably with partner, boy, cub, submissive, masochist, cigpig, slave.)
- . Instructing your bottom how to select the smoke , properly lighting it without getting the end any more wet with his spit, and presenting it to you for your smoking pleasure…
- . Having your bottom hold your ashtray while you smoke your cigarette..
- . Letting him watch you as you smoke
- . Letting him worship you in whatever way he wants while you smoke your cigarette…
- . Letting him jerk off as he watches you smoking your cigarette…
- . Letting him smell/breathe the cigarette smell that’s accumulated on your black leather gloves…
- . Letting him smell/suck/taste the cigar smoke that’s scented your face
- . Letting him / making him taste what your tongue and the inside of your mouth taste like while smoking a cigarette…
- . Having him kiss and lick the length of the cigarette while you’re smoking it in your mouth…
- . Letting him kiss you while smoking the cigarette, tasting the wet end of the cigarette in your mouth, sucking out the smoke out of your mouth…
- . Rubbing the filter end of a lit cigarette around his cock, his nipples, his face, or wherever…
- . Getting your boots licked/cleaned/polished and/or your feet licked/cleaned/worshipped while smoking your cigarette…
- .Getting your nipples sucked while smoking your cigarette…
- . Getting your pits licked while smoking your cigarette…
- . Getting your pussy sucked while smoking your cigarette…
- . Getting your ass rimmed while smoking your cigarette…
- . Smoking a cigarette as you fuck him…
- . Smoking a cigarette as you belt or flog him…
- . Tying him up and/or adding clothespins, clamps, weights, or other fiendish devices and letting him watch you smoke a cigarette while you watch him, telling him he won’t be untied/released until you finish smoking it (watch him cry as you reach for another cigarette)…
- . Having your bottom empty your ashtrays…
- . Having him light the cigarettes, clear ashtrays, fetch drinks, and otherwise service you and another or a group of your cigarette smoking girlfriends
- .exhale/blow smoke on his pecs/cock/balls, letting the smoke bounce off and swirl around them
- . Watching / worshipping / jerking off / fucking as you both smoke cigarettes…
- . Blowing smoke in your bottom’s face…
- . Forcing your bottom to smoke a cigarette…
- . Letting him / making him smoke your cigarette butts…
- . Making him smoke the entirety of the strongest cigarette without removing it from his mouth…
- . Making him breathe in all your cigarette smoke, using a gas mask with tube…
- . Forcing your bottom to inhale the cigarette smoke… (advanced)
- . Exhaling your smoke directly into his mouth and/or lungs…
- . “Swapping” your cigarette smoke until it’s dissipated or one or both of you pass out :)/~…
- . Forcing your bottom to inhale the cigarette smoke repeatedly… (advanced)
- . Forcing your bottom to hold in the inhaled cigarette smoke… (advanced)
- . Encouraging your bottom not to throw up :)/~…
- . Flicking the hot cigarette ashes onto his naked body…
- . Rubbing the hot cigarette ashes into his skin…
- . Jerking him off with the grit of cigarette ash for “lubrication”…
- . Torturing his nipples with the hot end of your cigarette…
- . Torturing his cock and/or balls with the hot end of your cigarette…
- . Heating up any or all of his piercing rings with your cigarette…
- . Torturing your bottom’s chest, ass cheeks, or anywhere you wish with your cig…
- . Pulling out his white T-shirt, bringing your lit cigarette up under it, burning holes through it at the appropriate places to then torture his nipples with your cigarette…
- . Doing similar with his white jockey shorts…
- . Inserting a wooden match in your bottom’s pisshole of his cock, lighting the match, and then lighting your cigarette from this, blowing the burning match out just before it seriously burns his pisshole…
- . Singing/burning off his chest, pubic, or other hair with the lit end of your cigarette… (advanced; work quickly to prevent burns; and not for everyone – the cigarette smoke mitigates, but does not eliminate, the stench of burning hair)
- . Making stripes or other designs on your bottom’s skin by “painting” with the hot end of your cigarette…
- . Permanently marking (branding) him with the hot end of your cigarette…
- . Putting your cigarette out on your bottom’s body… (advanced; best to not puff on your cigarette for one minutes before so doing
- . Putting your cigarette out on him, lessening the pain and marking by doing it through clothing, such as a pair of Levis…
- . Putting your cigarette out on your bottom’s body, mitigating some of the pain and branding by making sure the surface of his skin is wet by pissing on him first…
- . Putting your cigarette out on a part of your bottom’s body which he’ll never be able to see directly, without using a mirror…
- . Making your bottom choose where he wants you to put out your cigarette on him…
- . Making your bottom beg for you to put out your cigarette on him…
- . Having your bottom eat the small piece of tobacco clipped or bitten from the end of your cigarette…
- . spit onto him…
- . Hawking your cigarette spit into his open mouth and making him swallow it…
- . Swapping your cigarette spit…
- . Hawking your cigarette spit onto the floor and having him lick it up…
- . Flicking your ashes onto your boots and having your bottom lick them clean…
- . Letting the cigarette ash cool in your hand then feeding it to your bottom…
- . Flicking your ashes into his mouth to be eaten… (advanced)
- . Having your bottom take the end of the ash still on your cigarette between his lips, break it off, hold it for a few seconds while it cools, then bring it into his mouth with his tongue for ingestion..
- . Having your bottom stick his tongue out or pulling the tongue out of your bottom’s mouth and rubbing the extinguished butt over its surface…
- . Having your bottom lick your ashtray clean…
- . Letting or forcing your bottom to eat your moist, extinguished cigarette butt…
- . Having your bottom store/prepare for smoking your cigarette in an aluminum cigar tube up his ass for at least an hour, all day, or overnight
- . Putting a cigarette in an aluminum cigar tube up his butt and then taking him to your favorite … (hmm, any roads under construction?)
- . Having him sleep with a cigarette up his ass, wrapped in a condom…
- . Using the aluminum cigar tube stuck up your bottom’s ass to torture your bottom
- . Using your bottom as an ashtray by leaving the aluminum cigar tube up his ass and carefully and quickly inserting the cigar and flicking off the ash–bottoms not able to hold such a position at length may need to be tied down… (very advanced; thickness of the aluminum tube vary–test first by flicking the ash off into the tube held tightly in your hand–you may need to add an inch or two of water to the bottom of the tube to prevent extremely serious burns)
- *Doing any or all of the above with him tied up..
- *Having your bottom present you with a box of your favorite cigarettes, wanting to do all this again…
Once your bottom has performed any of the above to your satisfaction, doing it having him do it in front of your buddies or in public (as appropriate)…
Article by MissBonnie © Collarncuffs.com
Off site recommended further reading
Dr Mark Griffiths a-brief-overview-of-capnolagnia plus may more interesting artictles