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Rope Ladder

Enhancing Your Femdom Equipment with a Self-Crafted Rope Ladder

The Unique Benefits of a Rope Ladder in Femdom

Additions to your femdom equipment can significantly enhance the dynamic nature of your sessions. One such versatile tool is a self-crafted rope ladder. This simple yet effective item can contribute a variety of benefits, including enhanced accessibility, improved flexibility, and added creativity to your scenes.

Crafting Your Own Rope Ladder

Creating your own rope ladder is not only a cost-effective solution but also allows you to customize it to your specific needs. You will need sturdy rope, basic knotting skills, and some patience. As you work on your rope ladder, consider the spacing of the rungs and the length of the ladder to suit different scenarios within your femdom practice. Tailoring it yourself ensures that it is safe and suited precisely for your intended use.

Integrating the Rope Ladder into Sessions

Once your rope ladder is ready, the potential for its use is limited only by your creativity. You can hang it from various secure points to create new and exciting positions for your submissive. The physical exertion required to climb the ladder can also be an interesting test of endurance and obedience. Additionally, the visual appeal and mental challenge it presents can deepen the psychological aspect of your femdom sessions.

In conclusion, the addition of a self-crafted rope ladder to your femdom equipment arsenal is indeed a wonderful addition. It offers practicality and innovation, making your sessions more engaging and customizable. Whether you are a seasoned practicioner or new to femdom, a rope ladder is a valuable tool worth considering for your collection.

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Spreader Bar

How to Use a Spreader Bar in Femdom Play

Introduction to Spreader Bars

Spreader bars are versatile tools commonly used in femdom play to enhance the experience for both parties. They are designed to keep certain body parts spread apart, which can heighten sensations and introduce an element of restraint into the scenario. If you’re new to using a spreader bar, this guide will provide a comprehensive introduction and safety tips.

Choosing the Right Spreader Bar

When selecting a spreader bar, consider the material, length, and adjustability. Spreader bars can be made from various materials such as metal, wood, or plastic. Metal bars tend to be more durable, while wooden and plastic bars can offer more flexibility. Adjustable spreader bars are highly recommended as they can be tailored to fit different scenarios and body types.

Setting Up the Scene

Before incorporating a spreader bar into your play, ensure that all participants are comfortable and aware of the boundaries. Consent and communication are paramount. When you’re ready to begin, securely attach the spreader bar to the submissive’s ankles or wrists, depending on the desired position. Some spreader bars come with cuffs already attached, while others might require separate cuffs or ropes.

Safety and Aftercare

Safety is crucial when using a spreader bar. Make sure to regularly check the cuffs or ropes for tightness to avoid cutting off circulation. It’s also important to have a quick-release method in case of any discomfort or emergency. After the session, engage in aftercare to ensure the submissive is comfortable and attended to, helping to transition smoothly back to everyday life.

Using a spreader bar can greatly enhance femdom play by introducing new dynamics and sensations. With proper communication, preparation, and safety measures, it can be a highly rewarding experience.

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How to make a rubber Cat-O-nine-Tails For Femdom play scenes

You can be like the cat that got the cream with this rubber Cat-O-Nine-Tails. The cat-o-nine tails is a type of multi-tailed whipping device that originated as an implement for severe physical punishment, notably in the British Royal Navy.

To make the rubber flogger you will need…

  • A piece of wooden doweling ? a section of broom handle is idea and inexpensive
  • a cycle inner tube
  • rubber cement and some elastic bands.

First cut a piece of doweling to 14cm in length. Sand the end to get rid of any rough edges.

Cut a length of inner tube to 53cms, avoiding writing on the rubber. Then cut a straight line length-ways down the tube and open it out to a rectangle.

Cover the first 15cm of the rubber, (on the inside) with rubber cement. Place the piece of dowel onto the glued up rubber and hold it firm whilst it starts to stick. Then slowly roll the dowel along, rolling it up in the rubber. The other side of the rubber rectangle should overlap onto the first side.

Leave a small amount of overhanging rubber off the end of the dowel. This can be cut to size later once the glue is dry.

Wipe away any excess glue with a damp cloth.

Hold the rubber in place on the dowel by fixing a couple of elastic bands around to hold everything securely in place whilst the glue dries.

After a good 20 minutes or so, remove the elastic bands.

Re-apply glue to any edges that have not suck down properly the first time, and again hold everything in place with elastic bands. Leave overnight until all the glue had dried. In the morning remove the elastic bands, clean any excess glue away, and trim the overhanging rubber on the handle of the flogger.

At the other end of the flogger where there is a long surplus of rubber, carefully cut the rubber length ways towards the handle to create tails. The rubber easily cuts with a sharp pair of scissors. Either cut chunky tails or skinny tails. If you do cut thinner tails you can add to the pain by tying a small knot at the tip of each tail, great for really naughty slaves.

Resource Article: S.Roberts © collarncuffs.com

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Rope Web

Understanding Rope Web for Bondage: A Beginner’s Guide

What is a Rope Web for Bondage?

A rope web is an intricate network of ropes used in bondage practices to create visually stunning and secure patterns on a person’s body. It often serves both aesthetic and functional purposes in the realm of BDSM. The complexity of the design can range from simple to elaborate, providing a diverse experience for both the dominant and submissive participants.

Benefits of Using a Rope Web

Using a rope web for bondage offers multiple benefits. Firstly, it enhances the physical connection and trust between the partners. Secondly, the visual appeal of a well-constructed rope web adds to the overall sensual atmosphere. Additionally, the varied pressure points created by the rope can enhance sensory experiences, providing unique physical sensations.

How to Use a Rope Web for Bondage

To successfully use a rope web, start by choosing a sturdy and soft rope to avoid injury. Begin with basic knots and gradually progress to more elaborate patterns as you become more comfortable. Communication with your partner is crucial; always ensure that there is mutual consent and a safe word in place. Practice caution and never leave a person unattended while they are bound.

There are several tutorials and guides available online that can assist beginners in learning the art of creating rope webs/ Below is just one. Joining local workshops or online communities can also provide valuable insights and feedback.

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Rope Flogger

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Creating a Rope Flogger for Femdom Impact Play: A Step-by-Step Guide

Introduction to Rope Floggers

For those interested in the world of femdom and impact play, creating your own rope flogger can be a rewarding experience. A rope flogger is a versatile, customizable tool that can deliver a variety of sensations, making it an excellent addition to your collection of BDSM implements. In this guide, we’ll walk you through the process of making a rope flogger step-by-step.

Materials Needed

Before you begin, you’ll need a few essential materials. These include:

  • Rope (cotton or synthetic, approximately 30-40 feet)
  • A handle (a piece of dowel rod or a repurposed handle from another tool)
  • Scissors
  • Tape
  • Glue (optional)

Ensure the rope you select is soft and flexible enough to prevent injury during play.

Step-by-Step Instructions

Step 1: Measure and cut the rope into equal lengths. The standard length is around 18-24 inches per strand, but this can be adjusted according to preference.

Step 2: Secure one end of the rope strands to the handle using tape. This forms the base from which the flogger will extend. If you’re using glue in addition to tape, let it dry completely before proceeding to the next step.

Step 3: Arrange the rope strands evenly around the handle. Once satisfied with the arrangement, use additional tape to secure the strands tightly in place.

Step 4: To ensure durability and added grip, wrap another layer of tape around the handle, covering the exposed ends of the rope strands.

Caring for Your Rope Flogger

Routine maintenance and care will extend the life of your rope flogger. Clean the flogger after each use by gently wiping down the rope strands and handle with a damp cloth. Store your flogger in a cool, dry place to prevent damage and wear.

With your new rope flogger, you can explore new dimensions of impact play within the context of femdom, enhancing both trust and intimacy in your relationship. Remember, safety and communication are paramount.

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Rope Blindfold

Creating Unique Femdom Scenes with a Handcrafted Rope Blindfold

Introduction to Femdom and Sensory Deprivation

In the world of BDSM, sensory deprivation can significantly enhance the overall experience. One way to add a special touch to your femdom scenes is by integrating a handcrafted rope blindfold. This unique accessory not only looks aesthetically pleasing but also deepens the submissive’s sensory adventure.

Why Choose a Rope Blindfold?

A rope blindfold offers several benefits over traditional blindfolds. It allows for a customizable fit, ensuring that it is secure but comfortable. The texture of the rope can add an extra layer of sensation, taking the submissive’s experience to a new level. Moreover, because it’s handcrafted, you can personalize it to suit your specific dynamic.

Creating Your Own Rope Blindfold

Making your own rope blindfold is simpler than it might seem. First, you’ll need a soft but durable rope material, typically cotton or silk. Measure the circumference of the submissive’s head and add a few extra inches for tying. Weave or braid the rope for added texture and visual appeal. Finally, tie knots at the ends to secure it safely behind the head without causing discomfort.

Incorporating the Blindfold into Your Scene

Now that you have your handcrafted rope blindfold, it’s time to incorporate it into your femdom scene. Communication is key: Ensure that both parties are aware of boundaries and safe words. The blindfold can be used at various points during play to heighten anticipation and make the experience more immersive. Always monitor the submissive’s comfort level to ensure a safe and enjoyable session.

Conclusion

Handcrafted rope blindfolds are an excellent addition to any femdom scene. They offer a blend of aesthetic appeal, functionality, and personalization that traditional blindfolds simply can’t match. By taking the time to make one, you are not only enhancing your scenes but also investing in the unique bond you share with your partner.

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Rope Bit Gag

Making a rope Bit Gag. I loved finding this instructional video on how to create a rope bit gag. I loved that I could create a rope set with the flogger, leashes and collar and blindfold etc. for play (Video Tutorial) we’ve got them all in the resources here!

Crafting a Rope Bit Gag for Femdom Play

Why Personalize Your Bondage Gear?

In the world of BDSM and femdom play, personalizing your equipment can add a unique and intimate touch to your sessions. A handcrafted bit gag is not only a functional piece of gear but also a symbol of care and attention to detail. Producing your own bondage items can enhance the overall experience by allowing you to customize both the aesthetic and the size to suit your needs.

Ensuring Safety and Comfort

Always consider safety and comfort when using homemade bondage equipment. Test the bit gag gently to ensure there are no sharp edges or uncomfortable pressures. Communication with your partner is crucial for a safe and pleasurable experience. Adjust as needed to ensure a secure yet comfortable fit.

By crafting your own bit gag, you imbue it with a personalized touch that can make your sessions more meaningful and enjoyable.

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Rope Collar

Crafting Rope Collars for Femdom Play: A Special Token of Bondage

Introduction to Rope Collars

In the realms of femdom play, a rope collar can be a symbol of connection between a dominatrix and their submissive. Handmade rope collars are not only cost-effective but also hold sentimental value when crafted with care. This post aims to guide you through the process of creating rope collars, whether one wishes to make them as a gift for their submissive or have their submissive partake in the creation.

Materials and Preparation

The first step in making a rope collar involves gathering the right materials. Choose a sturdy, soft rope that feels comfortable against the skin. Common choices include cotton, hemp, or nylon ropes. As for tools, you’ll need scissors, a lighter for sealing the ends, and optional decorative elements like charms or beads for personalization.

Step-by-Step Guide in not using the video instructions

1. **Measure and Cut the Rope:** Begin by measuring the rope around the submissive’s neck, leaving extra length for knotting. Cut the rope and seal the ends using a lighter to prevent fraying.
2. **Choose Your Knotting Technique:** There are several knotting techniques suitable for making collars. The simplest is the adjustable slipknot; more intricate designs like shibari-inspired knots can offer aesthetic appeal.
3. **Personalize the Collar:** Customize the rope collar by adding personal touches such as beads, charms, or tags. These elements can make the collar unique and special.
4. **Adjust and Finish:** Ensure the collar fits comfortably, adjusting the knots as necessary. Double-check that the rope feels snug but not too tight, and that there are no rough edges.

Emotional Connection Through Creation

Whether a dominatrix crafts the rope collar for their submissive or involves the submissive in the process, this activity can deepen the emotional bond. The act of making something personalized adds significance and meaning to the dynamic, making each interaction with the collar a reminder of the trust and connection shared.

Conclusion

Creating a rope collar for femdom play can be a rewarding experience, enhancing the personal connection in your relationship. Use this guide to craft a meaningful token that will symbolize your unique bond.

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Pervertible

Pervertible (frequently misspelt “pervertable”) is a term originally coined by David Stein to describe ordinary non-sexual objects, especially everyday household objects, that can be used sexually, particularly in Femdom or BDSM play such as spanking. Some objects become so commonly ‘perverted’ that manufacturers produce and market models designed for this ‘luxury’ market. As their products are often modified (safer, sexier, easier to handle, more painful, etc.) the objects cease to be true pervertibles.

Rationale in BDSM

As humiliation is often part of BDSM, the choice of the object may be intentionally humiliating in itself, as the victim is thus associated with a very young child (e.g. diapers), with a lowlife, or with a non-person, such as an animal (e.g. a fly swatter) or even filth (e.g. a toilet brush).

The same subjective effect can also be obtained by ‘perverting’ the submissive’s body as an object, e.g. as furniture to sit or rest the dominant’s feet or rear on, storing objects in his/her underwear or orifices (mainly oral and anal) or even parking a bike between his/her buttocks. Such methods are not uncommon in hazing either.

Common Pervertibles

Spanking implements:

Not counting instruments normally designed for utilitarian hits, such as fly whisks, some of which originally were used for discipline (e.g. swagger stick) nor objects called club, stick, rod, whip etcetera; these include:
bamboo skewers
belts
books
newspaper, magazine etc. (rolled up)
brooms (as stick or also as a birch if made of branches)
brushes, especially bath brush, hairbrush and curry comb; both sides may be used if the hairs or spikes are firm to hard
carpet beater or rug duster
clothes pegs
flails
pointing stick, ruler & yardstick
table tennis paddles, cricket bat and various sports rackets
hockey sticks
oars
pokers
ropes, cords and cables (for whipping; also for tying)
shaving strap
shoes, boots, golf shoes and other cleats and footware (the plimsoll/thong/flip flops is a classic)
spoon, spatula, whisk, ladle and other cooking utensils such as the cutting board
Sweat Scrapers
towels (especially wet, to increase the weight)
Plant materials such as nettles or certain vines
Almost any object can be used, baring those too frail or cumbersome. Often the choice is guided by convenience (e.g. availability) or fitting into role play, such as objects associated with various professions or fetishism.

Other teasing and pain infliction:

candles ( wax play)
plastic wrap (mummification)
ice cubes
knives
bandannas as blindfolds or ( gags use)
snakebite kits (provide suction)
mentholated rubs
feathers or feather dusters (for tickling; the second also as stick)
gloves and oven mitts
lighters, matches, etc.
Pegs, clothes pins and clamps (nipples, loose flesh)
medical equipment
nails, pins and needles
banjo picks
Ball lock
rasps
various tools
edibles, such as whipped cream, peppers, fruits, vegetables, Ginger etc.
cooking oils and shortenings (for massaging)
vibrating devices, even as remote as a washing machine
especially large, solid objects are also used passively:
to tie the victim onto, e.g. a vaulting horse or vault buck, a sawhorse etc. as an improvised punishment horse, a barrel etc. to be bent over for the victim to lie upon, as chair, table, bed, etc.
rubber bands and other constructive items

Resource Article : MissBonnie © CollarNcuffs.com

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Kitchen kink & Junk room Jollies

The internet is a treasure trove of resources for learning about sex and BDSM / Femdom in all its fascinating, fetishy, and funny permutations. New blogs and podcasts pop up almost daily, bringing displays of sexual novelty that boggle even the most adventuresome minds. Recently, I stumbled upon a couple of sites that were unusual even for a veteran web-crawler like me. There, men were taught how to make masturbation toys from supplies stocked in their own pantries or junk cupboards.

The “home kitchen” style of instruction, juxtaposed against the erotic purposes for which household items were used, struck me as both bizarre and charming. I couldn’t help wishing that all sex education could be carried out in such an unabashedly friendly way, no matter how weird it seemed at first glance. Can you imagine a world where learning to make a planter out of a coconut shell and crafting a jack-off sleeve from a toilet tissue tube are equally OK? We sure don’t see that on TV! Of course, it would probably help to have a sexy co-ed cutie for your teacher, like the host of one of those V-casts. I mean, who wouldn’t conclude from watching her putter about in the kitchen, wearing only an apron and a dazzling thousand-watt light bulb smile, that masturbation is super-healthy and a bucket of fun?

Light bulb moment! … The mind boggles at uses some of these easily home made ‘sex toys’ can have of Femdom online activities. Online, cam play, and long distance relationships can have limitations. Some of these limitation can be escalated by the inability to purchase new toys due to cost, or restrictions to sex toy purchases due to country laws (e.g India). Some of these ideas would be great to have your submissive gather. Not to mention keep him wondering for hours as what you intend to do with them.  New online video formats make lessons in erotic arts and crafts especially easy to follow. But for those of you who are impatient to learn what kind of homespun aids you can put together on the cheap (and on the fly) here are a couple of ideas from around the internet, and some of my own inventions.

Now grab your lube and go to it! That’s an order from MissBonnie 

A Cup of Plenty

You’ll need:

  • 1 hard plastic cup,taller than your erect penis is long
  • 2 large sponges
  • Lube

How To:

  • Put sponges in hot water and wring them out. Place the sponges inside the plastic cup and squirt lube between them. Insert your penis between the sponges – and you’re good to go!


The Couch Potato

You’ll need:

  • 1 large plastic freezer bag
  • Scissors
  • Lube

How To:

  • Cut off the top of the plastic bag so that the plastic ridge or zip-lock doesn’t get in the way. Squeeze lube into the bag and squish the lube around to coat all the sides of the bag. Place the plastic bag between the top couch cushion and the solid bottom of the couch (with the open end facing you). Slide your penis into the bag. Lower the couch cushion back down and press down with your hand to add desired amount of pressure to the cushion. Slide back and forth in the bag. You can vary this technique by having a few books ready to place on the cushion for just the right amount of hands free pressure.


Mellon madness

You’ll need:

  • One melon (honey Dew or Rock melon)
  • One mellon scoop
  • A sharp knife
  • A Microwave oven
  • Lube

Step 1:

  • Get a melon and scoop out a hole Buy yourself a rock melon or honeydew melon. Cut a round hole in one end a bit smaller than your dick. Scoop out a little of the inside but not too much, remember, you’re making sex toys not digging ditches. Step 2: Heat the melon in a microwave (be careful!) and squirt in some baby oil or KY jelly.

How To:

  • A little bonus to add to the honeydew/cantaloupe procedure: On the opposite side of the melon from where your penis enters it, make a small hole with a skewer or small knife, no bigger than a pencil eraser, but reaching all the way in to the “vagina.” Wrap your hand around the melon after you insert your erection and put your finger over the hole on the outstroke. Remove your finger on the in-stroke, replace it over the hole on the outstroke. Feels like a mouth going down on your cock, then sucking on it as it draws back. A very nice substitute for a blow job!


Pocket pussy

You’ll need:

  • four or five balloons
  • Hot to warm water
  • A pillow
  • String or a belt
  • Small kitchen trash bag
  • Lube

Step 1:

  • Fill the balloons with warm, not hot, water. Tie the ends so water will not squeeze out. This also works with hot water bottles.

Step 2:

  • Take a pillow; roll it up like a tube and tie a string around it or even use your belt. Push the warm water balloons into the opening of the pillow tube. Your fleshy warm vagina is almost ready. Take a small plastic kitchen trash can bag. Push it in between the balloons in the pillow. Put some lubricant of your choice inside the plastic bag that is being tightly squeezed by the balloons.

How To:

  • Get your dick ready. Put the pillow on bed. Put your dick inside this plastic vagina. You will feel the warmth, slipperiness and tightness you only dreamed of.


Condom Roll

You’ll Need:

  • One toilet paper roll tube
  • One condom
  • Lube

Step 1:

  • Take one toilet paper (or paper towel) tube, one condom, and some lube. Put the condom inside the roll and stretch the opening of the condom across the opening of the tube. Fold the end of the condom over the end of the tube and hold with one hand. How To: Lube well and go at it like hell.

BONUS: Pull on the tip of the condom while you jack and it feels like a blowjob.


Sock Shocker

You’ll need:

  • One sock
  • One latex glove or washing up glove
  • Lube

Step 1:

  • Take a sock and roll it up like a donut.

Step 2:

  • Put a latex surgical glove in the rolled up sock.Wrap the end of the glove over the top of the sock to hold it in place. Lube up the inside.

How To:

  • Strap-on and go at it. You can also put it between two pillows or between your mattress and your box spring, and pump away.


Shampoo Shutter

You’ll Need:

  • One Shampoo Bottle
  • Two socks
  • sharp Scissors
  • Lube

Step 1:

  • Cut both ends off a shampoo bottle that is slightly larger than your cock. Put two socks into the bottle. The stocks should be one inside the other and should be thick enough to fill up the bottle. Cut the toes off the socks.

Step 2:

  • Wrap the open ends of the socks around the outside of the bottle and tape them. (Duct tape works best). Now do the same thing with a long latex glove. Keep the fingers of the gloves intact except for one that you can use for releasing pressure and providing suction, cut a hole in that one. Insert a butt plug you-know-where for extra thrills.

How To:

  • Use your favorite lube and go at it. If the bottle is too big, use more socks to take up room and provide extra padding.

Recourse article : MissBonnie © CollarNcuffs.com

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