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Navigating Consent in Kink: More Than Just Agreement

Explore the intricate and essential topic of consent within the kink community. This comprehensive guide delves into informed consent, the role of safewords, the complexities of coercion, and the nuances of practices like blanket consent and consensual non-consent. Understand the critical importance of clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent in ensuring safe, respectful, and enjoyable BDSM experiences.

Common Problems In Alternative Lifestyle Relationships

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Explore the enriching yet challenging world of alternative lifestyle relationships, including BDSM and Femdom. This post highlights the importance of communication, addressing stigma, and nurturing a supportive network. Discover practical tips for establishing healthy boundaries and fostering honest dialogue to enhance your partnership. Embrace the journey with laughter and understanding for a fulfilling relationship.

You’re submissive, what now?

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You’re submissive, what now? Discover the liberating journey of embracing your submissive role in femdom relationships. Learn how to communicate openly with your partner about boundaries, desires, and safe words, creating trust and safety. Explore various femdom practices that deepen intimacy and pleasure, from role-play to bondage, and find fulfillment in a respectful environment. Start your adventure into the world of submission and unlock new pathways to intimacy.

I’m often asked about punishment by new Domina‘s.

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How do I punish in Femdom? Explore the world of Femdom, or female domination, within BDSM practices. Discover how to establish boundaries, formulate non-harmful punishments, and enhance the pleasure of both partners through mutual consent and respect. Learn key aspects like communication, trust, and post-session debriefing to create a fulfilling and engaging Femdom experience.

Explicit Consent / Implicit consent

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What are the qualities that make a great play partner? Ask ten people and you’ll get ten wildly diverse answers, but you’ll also find that some qualities are universally cherished. Clear communication about desires, interests and turn-offs is at the top of the hit parade, and the ability to listen – really listen – is as precious as tickets to a Pearl Jam concert. In fact, play that is safe, sensual and satisfying depends on the ability of partners to absorb information via all six of the senses. Everything you see, hear, taste, smell, touch and intuit provides an awareness of your partner and yourself that you need in order to play considerately and consensually.

ABUSE AND EROTIC POWER EXCHANGE

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ABUSE AND EROTIC POWER EXCHANGE all partners involved in erotic power exchange activity of whatever nature should decide to do so of their own free will and choice and without any force applied. Sometimes the element of “force” may be hidden. Such can be the case if either of the parties faces (or fears to be faced with) economical or social repercussions if he or she does not go along with what the other partner(s) wants. This may be the case for example if colleagues at work enter into EPE-activities or within a marriage. If either of the partners feels forced, for whatever reason, the situation is non-voluntary.

Submissive Femdom / BDSM Play Partner Check List

Explore the unique world of Femdom BDSM with our comprehensive guide. Understand key elements such as communication, consent, and safety measures to enhance your experience. Our detailed checklist ensures a fulfilling and secure exploration of power dynamics in relationships. Discover how to navigate the intricacies of Femdom BDSM, whether you're a newbie or an experienced practitioner, and enjoy your desires safely and consensually.

safeword

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A Femdom safeword is a codeword or series of codewords that are sometimes used in Femdom/BDSM to mean that a submissive (or 'bottom') is reaching a physical, emotional or moral boundary or for the dominant (or 'top') to stop the scene play. Safewords are agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants. Many organized Femdom groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events.

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