Category How to ‘s & Techniques, & Guides for Femdom Styled Play

Discover the dynamic world of femdom, where women take the dominant role in BDSM relationships. These Articles explore the importance of open communication, consent, and experimentation in establishing a fulfilling femdom experience. Learn how to set boundaries, discuss desires, and uncover various activities that can enhance intimacy between partners. Whether you’re new to the concept or looking to deepen your understanding, these guides provide essential insights for a safe and exciting exploration of female domination. Happy exploring!

Wax Play

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Many people have played with a bit of candle wax at one time or another in their lives. Maybe by putting a finger in the pool of wax at the top of a candle. Maybe by catching a drip of wax on their skin by accident. Maybe even by dripping a bit of wax on themselves on purpose. Well, it's the intentional wax play we're going to talk about here. So if you're interested in playing with wax on a partner, or even if you just want to play with some on yourself, we have a few bits of advice we'd like to pass along to get you started on the right path. If it turns you on–or might turn you on–to drip molten wax from a burning candle onto the pink and delicate bits of your partner

Shaving

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One of the most discussed subjects, when it comes to BDSM/Femdom, is genital shaving. Go read any popular discussion list or newsgroup - every so often the subject will pop up again. There are many different ideas and opinions on shaving. In this section we'll try to outline what can and cannot be done, and how to do it safely and manageability.

CBT in Femdom play

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Ball Torture (BT) refers to a range of techniques to cause sensation, discomfort and pain in the male testicles and scrotum. Common examples are squeezing with hands, slapping and beating with hands and other objects, crushing using various vice-like devices and applying pressure with bindings, straps and weights are favorite techniques. Often found in conjunction with cock torture (CT), thus CBT.

First Aid Kit for Femdom Use

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Explore the vital role of a first aid kit in ensuring safety during femdom play. This guide covers essential components to include in your kit, tailored specifically for BDSM activities, from antiseptic wipes to soft restraints. Learn how to maintain your kit effectively, keeping items up-to-date and enhancing trust in your sessions. Prioritize safety and peace of mind while enjoying your experiences with confidence.

Ground Rules For Oral Sex

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If you give oral sex, make sure you don't have sores, wounds, gum disease, ulcers, cuts, herpes or infections in your mouth. It's important to make sure your mouth and gums are in good condition before you give oral. Ways to make oral safer include:Use condoms (external or internal) – check their expiry date and use only water-based lubricants to avoid tears and breakage.Wear dental dams – a small thin sheet of latex that acts as a barrier between the mouth and vagina or anus.Avoid getting semen or vaginal fluid in your eyes.

TOYS FOR ORAL ENHANCEMENT

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let us start with the introductory vibrator, the kind you can any sex shops; it's about four inches long and requires an AA battery Many women like to travel with these because they are discreet—and powerful. Sometimes they come with a penis-replica plastic sleeve, which makes it more of a dildo (which is a penis replica made of plastic or sometimes glass, while a vibrator contains batteries and, well, vibrates). Do not be afraid of this item. This is going to be a good friend of yours.

Accepting Realities

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Genitals have a naturally pungent odor and taste. Some people love it, others don't. But you're in denial if you're surprised by it. If this is a concern for you, just take a bath or shower with your partner, instead of trying to skirt oral sex, or pretending to be comfortable going down when you're not. If you forge ahead anyway, your partner will sense your repressed discomfort, and the effort to conceal your true feelings will take the zest out of your performance.

Positions for Oral Sex

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one of the most comfortable positions for oral sex may be for your woman to lie across the bed, her legs hanging to the floor. Kneel on the floor (maybe with a towel or pillow under your knees to maximize comfort) and bring her hips to where you have good access to the full vagina. In this way, you can provide her with a wide range of sensation, and your flexibility of movement will keep you comfortable and creative without the tension on your back and neck muscles that would result from attempting the same feats flat on the bed. Once you've developed your oral skills so that you are not easily thrown off by the positioning of your body, it is time to experiment with other position

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